Couples get divorced easily after a few years of marriage.

In fact, we can also see that for two married people, they are likely to face such a state and may want to divorce. And some people find that after a few years of divorce, they will have such an idea because after a few years of such marriage, they will find some shortcomings of each other. But it can also include finding that they live together in the process of getting along. After living together, they will find some shortcomings and have an intolerable attitude towards each other. Generally, it is easier to get divorced in the third year. Although they can tolerate each other infinitely when they are in love, they will feel very tired after they get married and live together. Whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as the other party has some bad practices after marriage, such shortcomings will be infinitely magnified. So when do you want to get divorced most? In fact, it is the third year, because in the first two years, they are still newly married. For a newly married couple, they can tolerate each other's minor shortcomings. Including if the other person has some bad places, they will also oppose some good places shown by the other person in the process of falling in love with themselves. The third year is a fragile year. At this time, they will forget his bad habits because of his good qualities. But in the third year of marriage, there are already a lot of trivial things to kill feelings. So if there are some problems between them at this time, they will have a very difficult solution, and for them at this time, their emotions are very fragile, and it is very likely that they will still have the crystallization of love at this time. But at this time, due to the arrival of children, some emotions between them will be worn away, the whole family affairs will become more trivial, and their enthusiasm will be exhausted. Therefore, we can also see that the third year of marriage is indeed a high incidence of divorce, and this divorce rate has reached a very high level, especially for some young couples, who generally divorce around the third year of marriage. This idea or practice has been implemented. Couples who have been married for several years are prone to divorce for 2 1 and 6 months. After getting married for a few months, it is often a flash marriage, or a long time to know each other before choosing to get married. This kind of love is very unstable, and they are married. After marriage, conflicts will gradually arise, which may not be suitable for being together, or life may not be compatible at all. After all, love and marriage are different! After a long time, you will quarrel and even divorce! 2, married for two years and two years should have a baby, but some men and women are infertile or one party does not want a baby! So there will be contradictions and disputes in the family! Once quarreled, twice quarreled, you will gradually feel that the other party is very annoying, and it doesn't matter whether you have the other party or not. Maybe I still think that if I don't have children, my family will be unstable! Divorce is easy! 3, seven years of folklore, three years of pain, seven years of itching! It is not easy to be together for seven years, let alone get married for seven years. In seven years, more things will happen, and men who have been in love for seven years are easy to cheat! She will think that her wife is boring and not as beautiful as the women outside. Women have worked hard for seven years, especially full-time mothers and full-time wives. If they don't take care of themselves, their faces will be gaunt and men won't like them! It's easy for men to file for divorce! 4. Twenty years, some people may not believe it. How can you divorce after living together for twenty years? No love and affection! But some women will take the initiative to divorce, because they have lived together for 20 years and their children have grown up. I have never chosen to divorce before. Maybe it's because of my children that I have endured it for so long. When children grow up, they should be able to understand their parents' practices! No matter how long you get married, there is always divorce, but two people must get married because of love, otherwise they may not be happy after marriage! Communicate well after quarreling, and don't keep all the bad things in mind! If you can't get through, you'll never get through! Couples are prone to divorce after a few years of marriage. 3 1. Many people don't understand it in the first year of marriage. Why is it easy to divorce in the first year of marriage? Shouldn't you be very happy and loving when you just got married? Yes, it is indeed a state of happiness, love and happiness, but don't forget that it is impossible to stay in love for 24 hours. In the first year of marriage, you will gradually get to know your other half, and those shortcomings that you didn't see before in love will show up in front of you little by little. When you are in love, you are considerate and loving in every way, but after marriage, you find that he is sloppy, doesn't like cleanliness and doesn't like cleaning up. If you are an extremely self-disciplined person, you can't stand such shortcomings naturally. Be gentle and coquettish every day when you are in love. After marriage, you find yourself always insecure. You always want to know where you have been and what you have done. After a long time, you will feel irritable and lose your freedom. After all, love and marriage are two different things. When you are in love, you are both very happy and want to show your best side to each other. But marriage is a long-term life in the next few decades, so many people think that I can't stand these shortcomings now. I can't stand you for decades, so I decided to divorce. 2. In the first year after delivery, in the first year of marriage, you got pregnant successfully, but after pregnancy, your husband and wife life stopped. Even if there is a need, you can only endure it again. So some men with poor self-control can't stand such pain, so they secretly betrayed their wives during pregnancy. Because of sudden pregnancy, maladjustment in all aspects, out of shape and lack of financial resources, a wife who needs to be at home every day makes herself a little fidgety, and she is more likely to suffer from prenatal depression after learning that her husband has betrayed her. After that, there was constant accusation, blame and abuse. The woman felt wronged and the man felt that the woman was too annoyed, so the two sides agreed to divorce after the child was born. The performance of a man during his wife's pregnancy can best reflect humanity and responsibility. A man who ignores his wife's feelings and the future of his unborn child has no sense of responsibility and only considers his own needs. How can such a man not divorce? But often the reality is that many women are reluctant to divorce once they have children, even though they know that their husbands have betrayed them, because she has no life of her own. After the divorce, she didn't know how to take care of the children, and she had to work and take care of the children's lives. Let her think about it and feel broken. 3, the seven-year itch finally survived the risks of pregnancy and postpartum, and you unconsciously came to the seventh year of marriage. At this time, you are already familiar with each other's state, and the remaining roles, freshness and passion are not much, or even disappeared long ago. Every day, I need to worry about my life, such as mortgage, car loan, children's tuition, and alimony for the elderly, and my life has gradually worn away any desire. Now you are like touching your right hand with your left hand, and you don't feel anything, so suddenly one of you feels that life is so boring that it is not the life you want. One day, he suddenly met a woman of the opposite sex in the same situation as him. They chatted speculatively and even suddenly found the feeling of love, and their hearts began to itch, so they ignored it and lost the moral bottom line for the life they wanted. After you found out, he had remorse and regret, but he was still immersed in that exciting and hormonal atmosphere and finally chose to divorce you regardless. 4. Middle-aged crisis When you reach middle age, your child will go to college, work and get married, and your wish will be realized step by step. But at this time, you have lost your love feelings, and you are all supported by your family. Can't chat and play together. You like square dance, he likes playing chess and fishing, and you even choose to sleep in separate beds and rooms. The reason is that two people have different living habits. You dislike his snoring. He thinks you can't go to bed early at night. What you suddenly see is the other person's shortcomings. Don't like cleanliness, cooking is not salty, and every small problem will blame each other for a long time. Quarrel and blame have become the only bridge between you. So one day you feel that your task is finished and your children are married. It's time to think about yourself and live a good life, so you finally chose to separate. In this life, couples want a divorce, and they can leave at any time under an excuse. It is rare that they will never leave, as promised at the wedding, and stay together forever. Each of us has different personalities, and no one is perfect. The most important thing is whether you have a sense of responsibility, whether you can take responsibility, whether you are willing to tolerate, whether you are willing to talk well, and whether you are willing to listen. I hope you can meet every hurdle and walk together, because it will be the happiness of your life when you can recall the past!