In love, men are mature and immature. These three points are enough.
Being with an immature man often only leads to bad love. Only with mature men can we have good love.
Men are mature and immature, and these three points are enough.
Immature men change you, mature men change for you.
Zhou said to him? In love, trying to change each other is more important than personality differences. ?
Therefore, in love, immature men always want to change their other half.
And mature men will take the initiative to change for you.
For example, in The Love of Parents, Jiang Defu and An Jie are two completely different people.
Jiang Defu is a person from the countryside? A lout? I don't like bathing, I don't wear pajamas when I sleep, I smack my lips when I eat, and I don't know complicated manners.
An Jie is the little daughter of a big family, who pursues an exquisite life and likes to tidy up the house quietly. She likes to drink coffee and milk, and even the kitchen rags are classified.
When I first got married, although I quarreled because of the huge differences in living habits, slowly, both of them began to change for each other.
Jiang Defu, in particular, respected Angie's habits and volunteered to be? Wash your husband three times? You must sleep in your pajamas.
Angie's favorite coffee can't be bought on the island, so Jiang Defu brought it back to her when she went out.
There is a scene in the play in which Angie, a middle-aged woman, looks at her portrait. She said: After all these years, my eyes are still so clean, because my life is very happy and comfortable.
For Anjie, it is happy to marry Jiang Defu. Because Jiang Defu will not try to change her, but will take the initiative to change herself for her.
When men and women get along, it is difficult for one person to change another. But if two people are stubbornly unwilling to change for each other, then the contradiction between them will always exist.
Mature partners will choose to make changes for each other and clear the obstacles for their love, so that they can go on for a long time.
Immature men value your appearance, and mature men value your heart more.
There is a discussion about what kind of women men like in Zhihu.
One of the following answers has been recognized by many people.
This man said that when he was young, he liked to find a girlfriend mainly because of his face value. When you reach the age of 30, you will pay more attention to a woman's inner qualities, such as her character, cultivation and knowledge.
This reminds me of a story.
A beautiful young American girl posted such a question on the financial page of a large online forum in the United States: How can I marry a rich man? I am 25 years old and very beautiful. I am the kind of person who is amazing, beautiful, elegant and tasteful. I want to marry someone who earns 500 thousand dollars a year. You may call me greedy, but in new york, the annual salary of 654.38+0000 is middle class, and my requirements are actually not high. ?
A Wall Street financier replied: From a businessman's point of view, marrying you is a bad business decision. Because your beauty will disappear, but my money will not decrease for no reason.
People who earn more than 500 thousand a year are definitely not fools, so we will only associate with you and will not marry you. So I advise you not to search hard for the secret of marrying a rich man. By the way, you can find a way to turn yourself into a million people, which is better than meeting a rich fool.
Visible, mature men, when choosing the other half, care more about the woman's inner, as for the beauty of appearance, that is secondary.
In fact, many rich women are plain-looking women with extraordinary wisdom.
Like Melinda, the wife of Bill Gates? Priscilla, the wife of Gates and Zuckerberg? Chen.
Melinda. Gates graduated from Duke University with an MBA. Before marrying Bill Gates, she had made outstanding achievements in Microsoft.
Priscilla. Chen more entered Harvard University with honors and was an alumnus of Zuckerberg.
Bill? Gates and Melinda. Gates
Bill Gates once said firmly: Women decide the future of a family.
Mature men don't ask how beautiful and in good shape their other half is, as long as they recognize it.
He will pay more attention to the inside of the other half, and he will encourage you to do what you want to do and be an independent and confident woman.
A mature man will not ask his woman to be a vase, he will grow up with you and become excellent together.
Immature men like flashy, mature men prove themselves reliable by actions.
Women like to listen to men's sweet words, but with the increase of experience, you will find that men's sweet words are the most flashy things.
Mature men often don't talk nonsense, they will only tell you by actions that they are reliable.
When Anna is with her ex-boyfriend, the other party always says:? I will definitely buy you a big house, a luxury car and a good life in the future? I never work hard. I play games and brush videos all day.
When Anna was ill, her ex-boyfriend blamed Anna on the phone for not taking good care of her body and hurting her heart, but she didn't go to the hospital to see Anna.
Later, Anna met her current husband, Duck.
Don't say anything nice, just be nice to Anna silently.
Anna works overtime and can take the initiative to pick her up from work; Anna is ill, so she can drive Anna to the hospital for registration, medical treatment and medicine without saying anything. Anna doesn't eat on time, so she can order takeout to take it to Anna.
After dating for two years, they can propose to Anna and say:? The house has been bought. Write down your name and marry me. ?
In love, mature men don't just talk and do nothing. They choose to act silently, work hard silently, and quietly accumulate strength for your future.
Because he knows that love cannot last long only by sweet words and vows of eternal love.
True love should be put into real life, including dressing, eating and counting money.
Being with a mature man is practical and safe.