Cemetery feng shui issue, will father’s cemetery affect his daughter?

It will be affected! Your grandfather's influence on you is indirect. Your father's was a direct influence. Some of what you said are not very clear. If you are a girl, the influence of your father's Feng Shui will be different from that of a boy. If you have a boy, it will have less impact on you. If you don't have a boy, it will have a great impact on you. Of course, this impact includes both good and bad influences. This does not mean that the impact is negative.