China Naming Network - Eight-character Q&A - In ancient times, if a girl died before she got married, why couldn't she be buried in her ancestral grave?

In ancient times, if a girl died before she got married, why couldn't she be buried in her ancestral grave?

Because ancient girls were not family members before marriage, ancient women really had no status. The most important thing is that being buried in ancestral graves will affect family fortune and geomantic omen, so it is not allowed.

The first reason is that there is no status.

Ancient women had no status. If ancient women didn't get married, they would get a box lunch in advance. Sorry, you are not qualified to enter the ancestral graves of the family. It's simple. You are not from our family, so you can't go in. Wait, do you think there is a logical problem? Why don't unmarried girls count as family?

That's because there is an old saying: "Buckwheat is not food, and girls don't adopt mothers." It means that the girl will get married sooner or later, so she belongs to someone else from birth, so she can't be buried in her ancestral grave when she dies. I admire the logic of the ancients.

In ancient times, girls were strictly required to do this because girls were not considered as their own family, so they followed their fathers before marriage, followed their husbands after marriage and followed their husbands after death. Listen, do you want to hit someone? Explain that girls are not people, and you can't have your own ideas all your life. Listen to your parents before marriage, listen to your husband after marriage, and your husband hangs up and listens to his son. It also shows that women really have no status, and they can't be buried in their ancestral graves when they die.

The second reason is that being buried in ancestral graves will affect family fortune and geomantic omen.

The ancients did not bury the girl who died before marriage in the ancestral grave, because they were worried that it would affect the fortune and feng shui of the family. After all, a family's feng shui is very important and can't be messed around. If you don't get married, you won't count as one of us, and you are not allowed to affect the fortune of a family.

Then you will ask, if you don't bury your ancestral grave, what about the dead girl? Some will be thrown directly into mass graves, which is super pitiful. Some of them will buy a piece of land not far from their ancestral graves when they meet their good parents, and then bury their hanging daughters so that they will not be so far away from their parents in the future.