In your heroic journey, you are the only protagonist.

By the end of April, the temperature had risen to 30 degrees. Although there is still a week before the long summer solar term, the breath of summer is already obvious.

At the end of every month, I can't help feeling that time flies. If I don't do any review, 30 days a month, I'm afraid I will only leave a vague shadow in my memory. However, just look at the records at that time and you will find that every day is different.

Two days ago, I received a new book "Morning" from the editor of the publishing house. Actually, it is not a new book, because it happens to be the tenth anniversary edition of the book "Women Know Early". So, while reading a book, I reviewed the courses that my handsome sister had taught in Zhihu before. So I decided to try a brand-new way to restore the whole April with handsome girl's "five-time theory".

Different people have different priorities for these five kinds of time. Looking back on my April, the order is roughly as follows:

The core of "Happy Time" is "Maximizing Experience". I ranked it first, because I spent more than half my time traveling outside in April this year.

At the beginning of the month, I realized a "go and go" trip, from Nanchong to Nanning, then from Nanning to Liuzhou, and then from Liuzhou to Chengdu by high-speed train. This trip is completely unplanned, because with children, the itinerary is more casual, stop-and-go, shopping and eating, and it is easier.

After the trip, I wrote two travel notes. If my friend wants to go, he can refer to it.

During my ten days in Chengdu, I went to the Sichuan Provincial Museum and saw the long-awaited exhibition of One Piece. As a Sichuanese, this is my first visit to the Sichuan Provincial Museum. I have only been to Chengdu Museum in Tianfu Square before. The exhibition styles of provincial museums and municipal museums are completely different. Because it was a working day, there were few tourists in the huge exhibition hall, so I was able to push the children around slowly, take a closer look and take many photos that I liked very much.

It happened that the exhibition One Piece came to Chengdu. Although the tickets are expensive (there are few exhibits), I bought tickets to see them, and also bought some surrounding tapes (a common problem of holding er). Entering the pit of One Piece should be in the year of postgraduate entrance examination. In the last month before the exam, I quit my job, gave up all social activities and devoted myself to reviewing. The only relaxation every day is to watch two episodes of op animation during three meals. I really like these people. Everyone likes them. I envy their persistence in dreams, friends and beliefs. I wish I could be such a person.

In addition to traveling, "chasing drama" is also one of the "fun times". This month, the whole world is chasing all friends, and I am no exception. I started watching the eighth season because I was worried that I would forget the plot for a long time and brushed the first seven seasons again. I just watched the latest episode yesterday. The director made this highly anticipated "The Ultimate Battle" so well that it was as grand as an epic. The music and the violent aesthetics presented in the picture make me unforgettable for a long time.

If you haven't seen Quan You, I highly recommend into the pit. You won't regret it.

"Good-looking time" literally means the time you are willing to spend on things that make you look better. For me, it mainly refers to exercise time.

Because I signed up for the punch-in activity of "Fitness with Handsome Girls 100 Days", I will keep exercising for at least half an hour every day, whether at home or on the road. Exercise methods include running, HIIT and self-weight anaerobic training.

This month, in addition to following the video exercise of pretty girls every day, I * * * ran 9 times, and * * * counted as 60km. There are also a few sports such as yoga, walking and cycling, so I won't count them one by one.

In terms of physical data, the weight and girth only dropped a little, because I was too fat to eat powder in Guangxi, and it took another week to lose weight when I came back.

Others, such as poor maintenance and sleep, little mask, good or bad sleep. The only thing worth mentioning is that I went out in Guangxi that week and insisted on wearing sunscreen every day. This habit should be maintained all the time.

The concept of "flow" has become very popular. For me, "flowing time" means "finding your own addiction", such as reading, writing, online learning and other things that you are willing to indulge in and can immerse yourself in. "Time to make money" means literally.

I put these two kinds of time together because at present my "main business" is to take care of children and develop my hobbies in my spare time, which can bring me some income and be regarded as part of "making money".

As for reading, I only read three books in April, namely Buncha Girl, Nabokov's Favorite Word and Success, as well as Three Hundred Lectures on the Analects of Confucius and When the Stars of Mankind Shine.

These books are good. The Great Fork Girl is the latest masterpiece of Taiwan Province's post-1970s writer Gan. His language is fantastic and wonderful like fable, with the wantonness and coldness of subtropical plants. I have written a book review of Nabokov's favorite words separately, so I won't go into details. Success is Feng Tang's new book, a concise Feng-style reading note.

I haven't finished much in writing. Only six articles were posted on the official WeChat account, mainly book reviews and travel notes. During my trip abroad, I could hardly calm down and write something, but I finished it when I got home.

In terms of courses, I have completed the "efficiency training camp" for wheat. If I have to evaluate this course, I can only say "no pains, no gains." As long as I put in time and energy to study the course seriously and finish my homework, I will certainly gain something, and this kind of gain is huge and endless.

"Survival time" is the time that must be exchanged in order to ensure survival.

At present, I am a full-time mother, living in my parents' home, and the cost of living can be said to be very low. So, can we say, "There is no time to live in my chronological order"? On the surface, it is. In fact, the pressure of my living time has shifted to my husband. As a like-minded family, our pressure is actually shared. I also bear some pressure to survive.

Some people may say, "You don't even need to earn money to support your family, just take care of your children at home. Where is the pressure of survival? " The problem is not that simple. In a short time, I really had an easy time. There is no need to go to work to make money, and there is no work pressure. However, in the long run, my child is growing, and his demand for me is gradually decreasing. If I have been living a leisurely life instead of constantly improving myself, what should I do when my children are independent?

So from this perspective, in fact, I keep learning and making progress, which is also part of my living time.

So, how much did I spend on my living expenses this month? As can be seen from this ranking, there are very few. Specifically, there are almost no manuscripts and little sideline income.

There are two reasons. First, the children are still young, leaving me little private time. This aspect cannot be solved temporarily in the short term; Second, the first three have occupied the vast majority, so there is less time to spend on skills improvement.

April passed, and so did spring.

On the last day of April, I took my children to Yunnan to welcome this summer.

May you be at home in late spring and early summer.