Are you happy with your best friend?
1, emotional narrative.
Everyone is lonely and eager to be surrounded by love. This loneliness makes us eager to associate with others and find the necessary connection with the outside world. Loneliness is a self-protection mechanism produced by individuals. Psychologists have found that women's loneliness is generally stronger than that of men. Most men like to be alone, and women like to live in groups, because men are more likely to digest and enjoy loneliness, while women always break it. Women really need a narrator to listen to their inner needs, which is the importance of the existence of girlfriends. They choose to vent their emotions to the outside world, so they will find someone to talk to.
2. A sense of security.
It seems to be an accepted fact that women are inherently insecure, which has a lot to do with women's physiological characteristics and innate environmental factors. As long as women encounter problems, they like to seek strength from the outside world, so we find that women prefer to rely on others, because in this dependence, women can gain a sense of security. To a certain extent, girlfriends can be relied on. The more people who can let us lay down our psychological defense lines, the greater the group strength behind them, and the stronger this sense of security will be in the female subconscious.
Step 3 be comfortable.
The existence of a girlfriend is an invisible support for women. There is a generation gap between us and our parents. It seems that we need to keep a delicate distance from our lover. Obviously, only the distance from your best friend is the most comfortable. This is why women always discuss family, love and children together. Because the relationship with others does not allow them to express their true thoughts at will. At the same time, the relationship between girlfriends is equal, and the communication between them can also be understood.