Idiom story of disaster
The idiom story of the disaster, the husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and when the disaster strikes, they fly separately, which is a 20% discount on Yuan anonymous's "Feng Yulan". It means that couples dislike each other when they are in trouble. Let's share the idiom story of disaster and have a look together.
Idiom story of disaster 1 folk story: husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and when disaster comes, they fly separately.
Husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes. 20% comes from Yuan Ming's "Feng Yulan". "Husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and their fortunes turn and they fly separately. I can only protect my own life, not you. " It means that husband and wife can enjoy wealth together, but they can't share weal and woe. When it comes to adversity, everyone thinks about how to escape from disaster.
Describe some selfish people who abandon their husbands (or wives) at critical moments and emphasize personal selfishness. There is a story in Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio about a husband who just died, and his wife can't wait to find another lover.
Jinning County is rich in gold. His father died early and lived alone with his mother. Marry a woman named Mu in our village. I have a son who is only one year old. Jin Shengze suddenly became terminally ill and expected to die. He said to his wife, "After I die, you must remarry and don't give me a festival!" " "After hearing this, the wife made a vow with sweet words, saying that she would never get married again. Jin Shengze was very moved. She cried to her mother and said, "Please take care of the child after I die, and don't let her wake up." Mother cried and agreed.
Soon, Jin Shengze really died. Mu's mother came to offer her condolences. When she finished crying, she said to Jin Shengze's mother, "There was a disaster from heaven, and her son-in-law died so early. My daughter is still young. What are you going to do with her? " Jin Shengze's mother was heartbroken and her son's bones were not cold. Her mother actually mentioned this matter, and she couldn't help but be full of anger and said angrily, "She promised my son lifelong chastity. No need to ask! Be sure to let her observe the festival! " Jiang Mumu blushed with shame.
In the evening, Jiang Mumu accompanied her daughter to sleep and secretly said to her daughter, "Are you still young and beautiful, and are you worried that you can't find a good family?" It's only a fool to see such a child every day. If your mother-in-law must wake you up, don't give her a good look. "Mother Kim just passed by the window and heard their conversation, which made her even more angry. The next day, she said to Jiang Mumu, "My dead son left a will. Originally, he didn't ask his wife to be sober. Now, since she can't wait, I must ask her to wake up! " Jiang Mumu left angrily.
In the evening, Jiang Mumu dreamed that her son came back, and tearfully advised her mother not to let her daughter-in-law keep the festival. Mother Jin changed her mind and said that after her son was buried, she could let her daughter-in-law remarry. But when asked about Mr. Feng Shui, Mr. Feng Shui said, "This year is not suitable for burying people. You can't bury them until next year. " So he parked his son's coffin in the mourning hall and waited for the next year's burial.
Mu Shi dresses up extraordinarily enchanting every day and wants to marry herself as soon as possible. During the mourning period, she wore plain clothes at her husband's house and put on some bright clothes when she arrived at her mother's house. Kim's mother was very angry when she learned about it, but she didn't say anything when she thought that she would remarry anyway. Woodall has become even more reckless.
There is a rogue in the village named Dong Gui, who likes Mu very much when he sees him. She bribed the Kim family. An old woman next door begged her to tell her that she liked Mu. In the middle of the night, Dong Gui jumped off the wall of the old woman's house and went to Mu's house, where he made a fool of himself. Back and forth for half a month, the scandal has spread like a raging fire, and only Jin Mu is still in the dark.
One night, Mu Shi and Dong Gui were together when they suddenly heard the coffin creak. Then they saw the dead Jin Shengze coming out from behind the spiritual curtain and entering the bedroom with a sword. Mu Shi and Dong Gui were scared to death, and Dong Gui ran out before getting dressed. Then, Jin Shengze grabbed Mu's hair and went out. Jose's howl alarmed Jin Mu. When Kim's mother came out, she only saw her daughter-in-law running out in horror, asking her questions without answering, and chasing out the door to see, but she didn't know where she had gone.
The next day, people found Dong Gui's body in a well. No one knows how he fell in. Mu's family went crazy because she was frightened, but no one wanted to marry her anymore.
The dying man speaks the truth. Jin Shengze was wise enough to arrange a home for his wife in advance. Imagine how many men in the world can do this? But his wife is so disappointing. Jin Shengze has not been buried yet, and she can't wait to do anything. In the end, you damn fool can't stand it, and the adulterer and adulterer each get their place.
Disclaimer: The story material is based on Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio. The first and last comments are all my own feelings. They reason on the basis of stories, turn people into people with stories, and compare ancient and modern with ghosts. Please don't oppose feudal superstition.
Idiom story 2: "Husband and wife are birds in the same forest, but when disaster strikes, they fly separately". What is the real meaning of this sentence?
The embryonic form of this sentence existed as early as the Tang Dynasty, and it was not until the Yuan Dynasty that it officially became a sentence. It is an excuse for men and women who lack firm love beliefs to abandon each other after the other party has problems, such as serious illness, paralysis, bankruptcy and disaster. It's really like the expression "birds in the same forest", not really a good person, not a reliable lover.
Although there are all kinds of birds in the forest, do you really want to find the other half, just like the birds mentioned here, which can't stand the test of disaster? Birds, such as seagulls, are infatuated. As long as the spouse dies, he will die immediately without eating or drinking, which is more spoony than Yuanyang as we all know. If we humans, in love, marriage and family, all believe that "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and when disaster strikes, they fly separately", then it is really worse than animals!
Because of this, I often say that the biggest noble and villain in life is the other half. In order to avoid finding an unreliable bird in the same forest, I hope everyone will follow the right path of China people's marriage and love, not only focusing on the present, but also focusing on poetry and distance; Don't fly separately in the face of disaster, husband and wife work together to break the gold!
In the idiom story 3, "A catastrophe is imminent, and there are signs", the monk: If there are three "anomalies", be careful.
In life, everything, everything happens, there will be many signs.
As we all know, things generally have two sides. Some signs represent the beginning of a person's good luck, while others are the beginning of bad luck.
If we encounter some "small anomalies" in our life, it means that we are very cautious.
Buddhism believes that everything in this world has "cause and effect".
If we have bad luck recently, it means that we had a reason before, which led to this "bad luck" result.
Moreover, it is worth our attention that a good result or a bad result must be caused by many reasons.
As the saying goes,' when a disaster strikes, there must be a sign'.
So everything is "karma and combination". Monks in monasteries: If these three "visions" appear, we must be careful.
1, often have nightmares.
In fact, each of our dreams seems to be a mirror. In fact, this special mirror does not look at ordinary objects, but reflects the true self of each of us.
As the saying goes,' good people are always rewarded', so we should always do some good deeds and accumulate good deeds. Such a person will definitely have a good dream after falling asleep at night.
When there is a sudden and persistent "nightmare", you should start to pay attention.
The Buddhist scripture says, "Good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil." If you often do good deeds or have nightmares, you should start to be wary of your recent words and deeds.
Everything has gone wrong.
If someone feels that everything they have done recently is not smooth, it is actually related to reincarnation in Buddhism.
So, why is this happening?
In fact, the reason for this situation may be that a person consumes a lot of blessings, and at this time he can't accumulate relevant blessings and merits in time.
If you can't get the corresponding happiness in time, then this unsatisfactory situation will continue to develop.
"Good is rewarded with good, evil with evil, not without retribution, but without time." This is the Buddhist view.
If a person often does something good, he will often bring us a lot of happiness.
Moreover, when we do something wrong, it is often our own evil causes that eventually lead to bad results.
3, easy to get angry
As a Buddhist proverb says, when thoughts begin, every obstacle will be opened. In fact, it also reminds us that the heart of every living thing should be clean.
When a person's anger rises, he is easily hindered.
If you are surrounded by obstacles, good luck will naturally disappear.
This is what we call "anger".
Buddha's words: When I think about it, anger can burn all blessings. If someone has such an abnormality, you should start to be cautious.
If a person likes to lose his temper, he can easily exhaust his blessings. Therefore, once you find yourself "abnormal", you should start to plant good karma for yourself and accumulate blessings.
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As the saying goes, "don't do it with kindness and smallness."
If these "abnormal" situations appear in our lives, we will begin to accumulate blessings for ourselves, no matter how big or small, and do good deeds.