What are the bad habits in marriage customs around the country?
Getting married is a lively and festive event. The girl's dream wedding is nothing more than wearing a beautiful wedding dress, standing in the middle of the crowd and accepting the blessings of relatives and friends. At this most important moment in life, take a big photo and leave the best memories.
However, many places have different marriage traditions, especially in rural areas. There are many national traditions in China, and the customs handed down from local customs are different.
With the changes of the times, many young people who pursue novelty will also hold more creative weddings, but in the village, it is inevitable that the customs left by the older generation will not be completed, which will lead to gossip.
Many elderly people also want to follow the tradition, generally to show filial piety and respect for the elderly, and many young people will choose to go back to the village to hold traditional weddings.
tradition should not be abandoned, but we should take its essence and discard its dross.
With the development of society, more and more customs have improved a lot. Nowadays, many relatives and friends attending the wedding often take appropriate measures in traditional bride snatching and bridal chamber-making, so as to make the wedding go smoothly and try their best to leave the best memories for the bride and groom.
Talking about marriage troubles has always been a common part of rural weddings, and there are still many bad habits in some places. After the local renovation, many places are becoming more and more civilized in this respect, but wedding habits are still emerging one after another.
The bride encountered an embarrassing thing when she got married. According to the local custom, the bride and the groom should toast the guests in turn at dinner, so that relatives and friends can know the bride, which means that the daughter-in-law has been identified.
On this day, the bride put on a proper red toasting suit, smiling and toasting all the guests coming and going. The guests coming and going also like to tease the bride.
My father-in-law is also very happy today. He returns gifts to guests everywhere, showing off that his son has married a daughter-in-law. After a few drinks, his father-in-law is in high spirits and looks very happy. The smile on his face never stops.
On this big day, it's harmless to play a little joke. The guests nearby joked to let the bride and father-in-law have a drink, and then some people coaxed them into drinking a glass of wine. Obviously, this joke is not suitable for the status of daughter-in-law and father-in-law.
At first, my father-in-law thought it was inappropriate, and the bride was even more embarrassed to refute the guests' fun. I saw that one of the guests directly pushed the bride's glass and asked for a toast.
Seeing that the atmosphere of the crowd was quite warm, it was difficult for Xi Gonggong to turn his face. Finally, under the input of the crowd, he pushed the mulberry for several rounds, and Xi Gonggong drank a toast with the bride with a wedding banquet. The crowd cheered and the atmosphere reached an instant climax.
who knows, after a few drinks, my father-in-law may be stronger than his head. With everyone's booing, he put his arm around his daughter-in-law's shoulder, and the bride was obviously unhappy, but she couldn't say anything, so she just smiled politely.
While talking and laughing with the guests, my father-in-law filled the wine from time to time, urging my daughter-in-law to return the gift to the guests. After one round, my father-in-law turned red and became more excited. Obviously, he was a little above his head, and the hand that fell on the bride's shoulder never came back.
Most of the guests present only care about drinking and eating. Perhaps the local wedding customs are even more so. Everyone has long been surprised, and no one except the bride thinks it is inappropriate.
Not far away, the groom may have seen the displeasure on the bride's face and quickly approached, but Grandpa Xi didn't notice the bride's mood at all, and it was even worse for the groom to directly interrupt his father's toast. After all, this is his own father, and it is also his own loss to hurt his face.
I saw the groom standing beside the bride, looking solemn, because the guests didn't take his father's hand off directly.
I like my father-in-law's drinking, and he only cares about talking and laughing. The atmosphere at the scene is warm, and his face is red, and he introduces it everywhere with his daughter-in-law.
I think the bride is also very cultured. Although she feels unreasonable, she didn't embarrass her father-in-law on the spot. I saw that she was generous and decent, greeting and toasting the guests one by one. Although her face was full of embarrassment, she managed to squeeze out a smile and insisted on the wedding.