How to write the woman's life post? What is the format?

There are two ways to write a letter to the woman's family on her wedding day:

An eight-quart red paper?

First kind

Write it on the right: predict the time? The combination of dragon and phoenix indicates good luck.

Write on the right: Choose * * * to reunite the son and daughter?

There are three words written on the right: sir * * * * * * * * * * *?

Jing Yun

await respectfully

attend

Brother-in-law: Lead men to bow down.

Left one: a century of harmony and five generations of prosperity.

The second type

I am willing to choose (date) as the best time for a fool to get married in a hundred years, and I will give you good news.

Let love grow old together.

await respectfully

House? Please read my letter.

In-laws (father's name) lead fools (your name)

(Mother's name)