How important is it to fall in love during college? Will it affect your studies?
In college, it's not that important to talk about falling in love, in my opinion.
well, suppose you fall in love in case.
let's talk about what will happen after you fall in love, and whether it will affect your studies.
situation 1: the object of love is a schoolmaster, and it is especially "fraternity".
The so-called "fraternity" means that Ta not only requires you to do well in your academic performance, but also drives you to study together and improve your study. With such a schoolmaster, your study will be greatly affected. There is absolutely no problem in the straight line. This is a perfect collision between schoolmaster and schoolmaster.
situation 2: the lover is still a schoolmaster, but selfish and self-centered.
it's too bad for you. Ta will leave everything to you to do, and it doesn't care whether you have the time and energy to finish it. then Ta will give herself plenty of time to finish her studies. these are too bad. your academic performance may be finished, and you may complete the perfect transformation from a bully to a scum.
situation 3: the object of love is an academic scum, who is addicted to games every day.
Whether you are a bully or a scum, the other person is a scum. Although it is not good to say this, let's call it that for the time being. This scum is addicted to games all day. You learn your habits and I play my games. No one can hinder anyone. After a long time, you will either become a scum from a bully or a scum from a scum. There will be no other choice.
to sum up, will falling in love during college affect your academic performance?
the answer is yes, yes!
but the impact is not certain, it may be good or bad.
personally, I think it's not wrong to fall in love in college, but you can't take falling in love as the whole of college.
And the person you like is not necessarily an academic bully or an academic scum. You like someone not simply because of his excellent grades. You may like his optimism and cheerfulness, and you may like his enthusiasm and liveliness, so whether he is an academic bully or not is not the main problem, but mainly because two people will be happy together.
Therefore, the influence on your studies is not necessarily good or bad. What you can do is to turn yourself into a "fraternity" schoolmaster and drive others, instead of being self-indulgent, and complete the perfect transformation from schoolmaster to scum.
It's not bad to experience the pure students' love in college, but don't give up their studies with all your heart and soul, don't be the kind of person who gets a scholarship before falling in love and the object gets a scholarship after falling in love, don't be the kind of person who gives up all his studies for falling in love, and learn to balance the relationship between love and studies. The best result is that two people make progress together and work hard for each other's future.