Four stories will tell you how important a person’s volume, guts, courage and courage are. It is recommended to collect them.

We often encounter situations like this:

In a public place, you long for silence, but someone makes a loud noise;

When getting along with others, you can laugh it off when encountering friction, but some people will worry about it;

When working in a team, you will move forward bravely when encountering difficulties, but some people will be timid;

When dealing with people, if you disagree, you should deal with it calmly , but some people get angry when provoked.

These can directly reveal a person's volume, guts, courage and courage, and can better reveal a person's character and cultivation.

A person’s self-cultivation is not only reflected in your temperament, but also in the books you have read, the roads you have traveled, and the things you have experienced. It is also reflected in your volume, courage, and courage. superior.

The volume of a person’s speech hides his inner cultivation.

In the movie "Shoplifters", there is this scene:

One day, Shota and his sister went to the canteen to steal things. Grandpa found out.

While my sister was panicking because she was worried about being caught at the scene, the grandfather kept a kind face. He did not get angry, yell or scold, nor did he point out that they had "stealed" things on the spot. .

He made a move that surprised Shota: he gestured with his hands, murmured in his mouth, and motioned for them to leave, meaning to tell Shota: "Don't let you go again." My sister did something like this." Then, the grandfather gave them two packs of snacks.

Soft words, like spring breeze and rain, have the power to warm people's hearts and are often more persuasive than loud scolding.

Shota deeply felt the kindness and warmth due to the actions of the old man at the canteen, and began to think about whether it was right to take his sister to steal.

For ordinary people, if they encounter someone who steals, they will either yell at them loudly on the spot, or go to their parents and demand compensation after scolding them; or they will catch them on the spot and report them.

Although such an approach is understandable, for a minor, it will be a lifelong shadow that cannot be erased.

The volume of speaking is warm. Soft words and kind actions can make people feel whether you are vicious or kind, vicious or gentle, indifferent or compassionate.

When a drop of ink falls into a glass of clear water, the water immediately changes color and cannot be drunk; when a drop of ink melts into the sea, the sea remains a blue sea.

Both the sea and the water cup can hold water, but because of their different capacities, their endings are often different.

During the Kangxi period, Zhang Ying, a bachelor, received a letter from his family. The letter said: The neighbor built a wall to occupy his yard, and the two families had a conflict because of which they didn't know how to solve it.

It turned out that Zhang Ying and his eldest son Zhang Tingyu were officials in the same dynasty, and his neighbor's son had studied hard for many years but had not achieved any fame, so he could not help but feel jealous.

Later, a neighbor asked someone to tell fortunes and believed that the Zhang family’s yard had good feng shui and that if he owned the yard, he would gain fame. So the neighbor wanted to occupy a little bit of the feng shui so that his son could gain fame.

So the neighbor demolished his own wall and built a wall on the Zhang family homestead.

Zhang Ying wrote back to his family: A letter from home thousands of miles away is just a wall, so why not let him stay three feet away? The Great Wall is still there today, but Qin Shihuang is nowhere to be seen.

So, the Zhang family demolished the wall of their house and made way for three feet of open space. The neighbor immediately felt ashamed and immediately gave up three feet of space.

This formed today's "Liu Chi Alley", which fully reflects the Zhang family's measurement.

To behave in the world, you must be magnanimous and magnanimous, be tolerant of things, and be tolerant of others. Many things will be reduced to small matters.

In the novel "The Dust Has Settled", the second young master of the Maiqi chieftain's family is a fool in everyone's eyes. However, it was this fool who did something that smart people failed to do, and allowed the Tusi family to further develop and grow.

Chieftain Maiqi introduced poppies and made a lot of money from planting them in large quantities. He was jealous and coveted by other chieftains, and sent people to steal poppy seeds again and again. When the idiot Second Young Master was traveling in the south, he discovered the secret of Chieftain Wang Bo growing poppies using dead human skulls;

Later, other chieftains all had poppy seeds and no longer planted wheat. When Chief Maiqi's family was debating whether to plant poppies or wheat, Fool chose to plant wheat with great foresight, and saved Chief Maiqi from famine, and used the wheat to earn money from other chieftains;

Fool When the second young master was ordered to tour the north, he quickly opened up new markets, built banks, and developed a small town in a place that was originally sparsely populated.

He used his wisdom to conquer the surrounding Lashepa chieftains and Ronggong chieftains, reduce losses, avoid war, and married the most beautiful girl "Tana".

Compared with those smart toasts and toast heirs, they missed opportunities one after another because they lacked courage and repeated fixed life patterns.

In the wave of life, you might as well give yourself some courage and courage. Even if you lose to the difficulties in front of you, you will not lose to the spirit of facing difficulties.

Zeng Guofan once said: A gentleman can achieve great things because he has courage.

In "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms", the story of Zhuge Liang's "Three Qi" Zhou Yu is well known.

Zhou Yu and Zhuge Liang agreed that if Zhou Yu failed to seize Nanjun, Liu Bei would go to seize it again. Zhou Yu failed to seize it, and then used his plan to defeat Cao Bing. But Zhuge Liang took the opportunity to capture Nanjun. This made Zhou Yu very angry.

After Liu Bei's wife died, Sun Quan pretended to betroth his sister Sun Xiaomei to Liu Bei, intending to trick Liu Bei into coming to Soochow. Unexpectedly, the deception came true. Liu Bei not only married Sun Xiaomei, but also returned to Jingzhou under Zhuge Liang's plan. Zhou Yu was ambushed and Zhou Yu was so angry that he vomited blood.

Later, Liu Bei borrowed Jingzhou and refused to return it. Zhou Yu prepared to take Jingzhou on the pretext of passing through Jingzhou, but Zhuge Liang saw through it and Zhou Yu was surrounded. In anger, his old injury relapsed and he died.

Zhou Yu was a handsome young man with outstanding talents. Unfortunately, he was narrow-minded and too small-minded to tolerate Zhuge Liang, who was stronger than him. Before his death, he sighed, "If Yu is born, how can Liang be born?", and was angered to death.

Those who want to achieve great things must be generous and retributive. Naturally, it will be difficult for them to achieve great things.

Pattern is reflected in a person's volume, courage, courage, and magnanimity.

May you have a low volume and give people warmth;

May you have a broad mind and give people tolerance;

May you have a strong heart. Courage gives others courage;

May you be generous and give others a big heart.

The stars do not care about the passers-by, and the time pays off to those who are willing. May you become a better version of yourself.