Women's online dating was cheated three times in two years and lost more than one million. How to treat this unreliable online dating?
Although the network is virtual, both ends of the network are real people. If two people can get true friendship and even love through the internet, it is really fate. Of course, in this process, we must firmly establish anti-fraud awareness.
Let me talk about my views on online dating:
In the early days of online dating, it should be a spiritual sustenance. Across the screen, across time and space, you can still feel your heart beating faster, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, mixed feelings of joy and sorrow, and even across Qian Shan, you can still attract each other. And this feeling is the best time for online dating, which only takes time.
However, if you want to know more and pave the way for snapping up, you have to spend more time and energy and pay a small amount of money (giving out red envelopes on holidays and occasionally buying a gift online as a surprise), and this stage is the transition period of online dating fanaticism and indifference.
When you fall in love to a certain extent, you will get tired of missing. The online chat atmosphere can no longer meet the psychological needs. From the beginning, I can only chat at noon and night in the morning, and now I have to chat all day, even at work, and I am still waiting for the other party's reply. If you don't get a reply at the first time, you will suffer from loss for a long time, from the initial soul fit to endless thoughts. I miss you. Wait a minute.
I miss you, but I can't see you at any time. This is the low point of online dating. If we can't meet for a long time, the freshness of online dating will plummet and all kinds of negative emotions will appear. I envy other couples to go shopping and eat together, and have company when they are sad, while online dating can only face the cold screen. Although I can video, but in the case of online dating, I can't meet for a long time, which will only accelerate the cold period of online dating.
Therefore, online dating is ok. In the passionate period, we should choose the right stage to meet and see if it is necessary to continue. Online dating is best in the same city. But if it's online dating and long-distance dating, it's better not to touch it.