How do older "leftover women" find their husband's family as soon as possible?

Older women have gradually become a social phenomenon in these years. With the passage of time, many people are not surprised, but it does not mean that this problem has been eliminated or alleviated. Teacher Yang has come into contact with many such female friends and deeply understands their inner pain and loneliness. With the growth of age, the choices are getting smaller and smaller, and friends and girlfriends around us have families and children, and their inner anxiety and anxiety will increase day by day. Some of them. Today, Teacher Yang will give some suggestions to these friends, hoping that you will meet a beautiful marriage as soon as possible.

From my professional point of view, there are generally several reasons for the appearance of older women.

One of the reasons, my numerology, from the perspective of numerology, is that some friends do have weak husbands and bad marriage houses, and one year's luck does not support them, which will lead to their late marriage. This situation requires patience. After this period of time, the time to get married will naturally come.

The second reason is the surrounding environment. Sometimes, because of the bad feng shui in the living environment, the peach blossom spot is suppressed or destroyed, which also affects the arrival of marriage. Many female friends have little choice because of their relatively narrow environment and social circle. For example, in some work units, there are more single women and fewer single men, or they are much older and fewer young people. In addition, it is difficult to put romance on the normal agenda because of the pressure of work and the lack of spare time and energy.

The third reason is that the family and oneself have a strong sense of superiority, and the superiority of family conditions is not a problem. Key advantages have created your outstanding personality. Such people are what people often say: three highs, high academic qualifications, high conditions and high income. Such women, the general opposite sex, are hard to get into the "eyes" and pick and choose. They think that men who are completely unsuitable for themselves slowly and unconsciously become "leftover women". For this kind of friend, the words may be a little heavy, but the good medicine tastes bitter, and I still hope to be able to accept and reflect.

The fourth reason is that the family environment has created an overly strong personality, stronger than men, unyielding, lacking gentleness or forbearance. This also makes the boys cringe and stop, and this kind of female friend often despises those boys with weak personality, so she lingers in the mutual competition and gradually becomes a leftover woman.

The fifth reason, which should also be emphasized, is the influence of parents at home. Some have obstructed or interfered with their daughters' previous love. If you think your daughter was raised by you, you have to listen to you, which is counterproductive to the child's marriage. Some are urging early marriage, forcing marriage, arranging blind dates for their daughters all day, or directly allocating marriage. On the contrary, they waste again and again. Therefore, it is necessary to persuade such parents that there are limits and principles to love their children and not to do bad things with kindness.