Colleagues frequently invited me to the movies, but I didn't refuse out of courtesy. What if my boyfriend breaks up?
As colleagues in the same company, sometimes they have to refuse to accept things they don't like to do in order to save face. My male colleague in the same office, knowing that I have a boyfriend, has often asked me to go to the movies recently. In order not to affect the relationship between colleagues, I didn't refuse several times before. But my boyfriend broke up with me indiscriminately after knowing this situation.
There are three colleagues in my office. Xiao Ai and I are girls, and the other is a male colleague, Yang Chen. Of the three of us, Xiao Ai and I both have boyfriends, only Yang Chen is single.
Because our love situation is transparent to each other, Yang Chen also knows that Xiao Ai and I both have boyfriends. Two months ago, when I was packing for work, Yang Chen suddenly came up to me and handed me a movie ticket.
"Xiaoyu, we have been colleagues together for so long, and we haven't had a chance to talk to you. I took the liberty of buying two movie tickets today and would like to invite you to the movies. I wonder if you are free? "
"By the way, you should know that I already have a boyfriend, so I don't think it's appropriate for us to go to the movies?"
"Xiaoyu, you don't get me wrong, I just want to find a chance to talk to you. If you really don't have time, then I will throw away these two movie tickets. "
"alas! Brother Chen, it's a pity to throw away all the tickets. If it really doesn't work, I will accompany you to the movies. "
In this way, out of courtesy, my boyfriend and I lied and watched a movie with Yang Chen. I didn't care too much at that time. I just regard the experience of watching movies as chatting with my friends.
But a few days later, Yang Chen handed me the movie ticket again. I felt a little confused when I saw the movie ticket. Last time I made it clear to Yang Chen that only couples would invite each other to the movies. Why did he invite me to the movies today?
If it's still the same, it's still the same routine Once again, I didn't refuse Yang Chen's invitation because of face problems. But in the process of watching this movie, I clearly put forward my ideas with Yang Chen. Yang Chen also promised that this would be the last time to invite me to the movies, and it would never be difficult for me again.
Usually in the office, Yang Chen is also a very gentle person, and I still believe his answer. To tell the truth, it's really embarrassing to watch movies with other men besides my boyfriend, so I've been watching movies nervously for fear that there will be another moth in Yang Chen.
Finally, after nearly two hours of suffering, Yang Chen and I walked out of the cinema. When we were leaving, I explained my point of view to Yang Chen again. I hope he won't do this kind of thing again in the future, so as not to affect my normal life.
In this way, a week or so passed. Yesterday before work, my boyfriend and I made an appointment to go shopping together, and then we went to see a romantic movie together.
Finally, it's time to get off work. I tidy up my folder, pick up my bag and get ready to clock out. Just as I was leaving the office, Yang Chen suddenly appeared in front of me.
"Xiaoyu, the first two times I didn't want to carefully. I bought a movie ticket without considering your feelings. I've been thinking about this problem in my heart these days. In order to express my apologies to you, I'd like to invite you to dinner, ok? "
"Yang Chen, I'm sorry, my boyfriend and I have already made an appointment to go shopping, so I really don't have time tonight. Can we eat again? "
"Well, it seems that I should have invited you earlier."
Seeing that Yang Chen is no longer pestering me, I'm going to leave the office at once. But as soon as I got to the office door, I heard Yang Chen's voice on the phone behind me.
"What? You have cooked all the meals! Oh, why is the food served so fast? Let's do it, well, we won't eat it today. You dump the food and I will transfer it to you through WeChat 1000 yuan. "
Hearing this, I stopped again. This is a meal of 1000 yuan. It's a shame to throw it away like this. After some ideological struggle, I returned to Yang Chen.
"The way, I heard you call just now. Now that the food is ready, I will have dinner with you. It's a pity if you dump it, but don't be so good at making claims in the future. "
After talking with Yang Chen, I went to the corner of the office to call my boyfriend and told him that I had to work overtime temporarily tonight, so I wouldn't go shopping and watch movies with him.
After the arrangement, Yang Chen drove me to the hotel. When I went to the private room, I found that there was no food in the room. For a moment, I felt that Yang Chen was scheming and deeply cheated. Yang Chen obviously saw my idea, so he told me quickly that he informed the waiter to heat the food and it would be delivered immediately.
I sat at the table with a grain of salt, and soon the food was brought up by the waiter. This meal made me feel very unhappy, because I always felt that I was defeated by Yang Chen. After dinner, I planned to take a taxi home, but Yang Chen invited me to the movies for the last time.
I thought about it. Anyway, I have already eaten, and it's not too late. Let's watch another movie with Yang Chen. So the two of us drove to the cinema we had been to before.
After arriving at the cinema, I sat in the corner waiting for Yang Chen to buy a ticket. Just as I was playing with my mobile phone, suddenly a figure stood in front of me. I thought it was Yang Chen who bought the ticket and said without looking up.
"alas? Yang Chen! How did you get the ticket so quickly this time? Don't you have to line up today? "
Having said that, I didn't wait for any response. I looked up reflexively and found my boyfriend staring at me with an angry face.
"Xiaoyu, are you here to work overtime? Judging from your words, it's not your first time here! Tell me who you came to the movies with? "
I was so nervous that I trembled all over. Before I could speak, Yang Chen came running with a movie ticket. When Yang Chen came to me, I suggested with my eyes that he should go away quickly, but he handed me the ticket like a fool.
The next second, Yang Chen was severely slapped by her boyfriend. I waited for a while, looking at what happened in front of me, and I didn't know what to do.
"Xiaoyu! The two of us are finished, take care! "
After her boyfriend dropped this sentence, she turned and left. Only Yang Chen and I stayed in the same place. The whole ticket office looked at us like monkeys. At this time, my tears flowed down involuntarily.
I ignored everyone's surprised eyes and chased out in the direction of my boyfriend's departure. After a long chase, I grabbed my angry boyfriend and wanted to explain to him what had happened.
But my boyfriend didn't give me a chance to explain at all, not only didn't stop moving forward, but also pushed me away and held her hand.
"You don't touch me, I'm here today to see what kind of woman you are? I didn't expect you to hide so deep. I thought you were a very simple girl before, so I believe everything you said. I didn't expect to accidentally discover your true face today. "
"Listen to me, it's not what you think. This Yang Chen is my male colleague. Because there was a misunderstanding the other day, he invited me to dinner today and invited me to see a movie after dinner. I am embarrassed to refuse, so I will appear here with him. " My boyfriend wants to break up, how can I make it up?
"Xiaoyu, do you treat me like a fool? If it's not a couple, which girl will go out to the movies alone with her male colleagues? Besides, you lied to me. Why didn't you tell me when you called? Stop it, what I hate most is that others take my feelings seriously, so we are strangers from now on. "
My boyfriend threw me off again, took his hand, opened the car door and sat up. With the roar of the car engine, my boyfriend drove away.
Watching the car run farther and farther, I squatted down in pain, burying my face in the same place and crying. I only promised Yang Chen dinner and movies, in order to get along well with my colleagues in the future. I just told a white lie to my boyfriend and didn't do anything wrong to him! Why can't he forgive me once?
Is our relationship really not worth a misunderstanding? Should white lies really not be accepted? Is it really the end of our relationship for several years?
What if my boyfriend breaks up? First of all, you should know why he is making trouble. If it is a trivial matter, you need to consider whether such a boyfriend is worth saving with your heart, breaking up easily and letting him divorce easily after marriage.