Couples in different families often don't make it to the end. What is the reason?

What is a halfway couple? Halfway couples refer to couples who are not married originally, that is, couples who are not married, but remarried and remarried. Why is it often said that "couples are always thieves halfway"? Because, halfway between husband and wife, they always have their own ulterior motives, guard against each other, share weal and woe, but few people are willing to share joys and sorrows. In reality, many couples have proved this sentence halfway.

You know, a half-way couple is a family that has experienced a marriage and regrouped. No matter what kind of love, they also have their own ideas.

If you have children, it's even different. You will never think of them as yourself. Because there is no blood relationship, both husband and wife have their own small abacus. In short, they will save one hand and will not give all their feelings to each other. As for money and property, they won't give it to each other. As an experienced person, I have a deep understanding of this. No matter how sincere you are, you can't get everything from each other.

Therefore, couples in different families often fail to make it to the end for four reasons:

First, both husband and wife have their own children halfway and don't want to have a common child.

As I said before, if there are children, it is difficult for half-way couples to treat them as their own, which leads to some half-way couples who have children not having children after remarriage. I think you have children and I have children. If your child is a son, my child is a daughter, and my son and daughter are brothers and sisters, that's enough. Besides, having one more child will add more stress. If you have another boy, you will have to buy a car and house in the future. How can you raise so many children without an economic foundation? Therefore, many couples who have no common children often have contradictions and feelings are not very deep. They always treat each other as outsiders, on guard.

Second, break with your predecessor and run back and forth on both sides.

Halfway couples, there is a phenomenon that they are broken. Divorced people often go to their predecessors' homes to eat and stay in the name of nannies. My friend Xiaolin's husband is such a man. He often visits his son at his ex-wife's house from time to time, saying that his son needs love and care. He even secretly transferred money to his ex-wife behind Kobayashi's back, saying it was his son's alimony. Xiao Lin was angry when he saw it, saying that you pay a lot of alimony every month. At this rate, you might as well "remarry" your ex-wife. What do you mean? Are you going to use my money to support your and your ex-wife's children?

Third, pay too much attention to money and draw a clear line with each other.

Apart from children, what couples care most about halfway is money. Some couples can talk about anything except money. When they talk about money, they are bound to be unhappy, and some people even start fighting for it. Moreover, in terms of money, if the husband and wife do not have feelings and trust as the basis, they often know each other very well. You are yours and I am mine. If you use mine, you must give it back to me later. Think carefully, how can such a couple who value money so much be happy? How can it be too long? To put it bluntly, it is to use each other's resources. When the other party has no use value, the second marriage will come to an end.

Fourth, the husband and wife are halfway, one side eats the bowl and the other side looks at the pot.

As we all know, the divorce rate and cheating rate are very high in recent years, so we must find out the reasons and personality of each other when we get married for the second time. If it is not clear, half-way couples are more likely to cheat than the original couple. Some may be ex-wives (ex-husbands), and some may be netizens. In a word, they did something wrong to the other half. Especially the men who got married for the second time, all divorced their ex-wives, and some still ate a bowl and watched a pot, sleeping with their current jobs and sleeping with their ex-wives. Is the current one acceptable? No, after they find out, most of them will clamor for divorce.

Write at the end: whether it is the first marriage or the second marriage, as long as you meet the right person, work hard, cherish each other and understand each other, your feelings will rise day by day, but if it is because of the above points, it is really difficult to come to an end.