Parents who support each other in difficulties
? As long as I can remember, my parents have always quarreled, so the language output of the whole family has become a loud voice over time.
? Despite the quarrel, it is rare that my mother has always been with my father!
? When my mother married my father, she got married in 1993 just because they were old enough, plus the words of her parents and the appointment of a matchmaker. When she got married, my father was as poor as a church mouse. According to the account book that my mother took out, my father owed a huge debt of 3,7 yuan for building a house and buying food before marriage! My mother's maiden is only 2 miles away from her father's house, because grandma with little feet gave birth to her mother when she was 4 years old. Her mother was the youngest, and when her mother was one year old, her father was gone, so her mother chose to marry closer so as to provide for grandma with little feet. Fortunately, my father is very hardworking. He works in the coal mine and does the most dangerous work to earn more money to pay off debts. My mother lives in grandma's house with little feet to firewood and farm. I was born in 1995. Because my family is still very poor, my father continues to work in the coal mine, my mother lives in my grandmother's house, and I also keep it in my grandmother's house.
Originally, Dad worked hard, and in a few years, he could pay off his debts, and our family's situation would get better. In 1999, the coal mine where Dad was located caved in, and a large lump of coal fell, hitting Dad's thigh. In an instant, Dad felt numb in his leg. When the rescue arrived, he found that the whole leg had been broken, so Dad started the road of treating his leg for seven years, first doing it for the first time.
The hospital said that this leg may be helpless, and I will be in a wheelchair for the rest of my life, and I can't bend it. My mother took my father to the best hospital in the city, and this time I continued the operation. After the operation, the steel needle grew in again, and I took the steel needle again, tossing it back and forth four times. Dad's temper is getting worse and worse, and he always feels that it is a burden to my mother. He is clamoring for a divorce with my mother. My mother is a sentient, righteous and strong person. She said angrily, "I married a healthy person and now I am disabled. I'm going to leave you, I'm afraid someone will poke me in the spine, get better quickly if I can, stand up and run, and I'll divorce you immediately! " This argument has been repeated many times! My father can't earn money, so my mother can only make a living by planting some land at home. My mother is a very hardworking person. In the years when my father can't earn money, I raise two pigs, a circle of sheep (about 1), more than 3 chickens and some food and vegetables every year. On holidays, I carry four chickens to the market and sell them to buy some daily necessities. There's an old mother in the world, a little kid in the world, and I have to go to the hospital to see my father every now and then. Finally, in 26, everything got better. My father was smarter. During his treatment, he taught himself the skill of mending shoes. Because of his leg injury, his left and right legs were different. When your legs are well, you can walk around the village with a shoe mending machine and earn some pocket money to supplement your family.
many things happen, and everything is just getting better. God made a fool of people, and when harvesting wheat, my father was scalded by the hot water overturned by the tractor again, and the burn area was 99%. Only the belt was not scalded. My mother once again went to see my father. My mother cried and borrowed money, and went to the hospital. The doctor said to go home and prepare for the funeral. My mother hugged me and cried, saying that her life was hard. My father also told me to be sensible in the future. He might not be able to do it. My mother didn't believe in evil and fate was unfair to him. I went to find a folk prescription burn medicine by myself, and found one. A can of 35 was only 5ml. My mother borrowed money to buy 1 cans. In summer, I came back to give medicine to my father with my aunt, and 1 cans were gone in two days. My cousin, a doctor, told my mother, "My uncle may not make it this time." My mother still goes to get the medicine every two days. After a month of careful care, my father's body has lost a layer of skin and the whole person is getting better!
My parents said that there was something wrong with the house at home and the geomantic omen was not good, so our family started the process of renting a house from 28 to now.
? In 29, my mother and sister, on the way to my aunt's house, the tricycle they were riding overturned, and the body was pressed on them. My mother didn't protect her sister, and her sister was gone. My mother broke three coelences and five ribs, and the pain of losing a child in middle age combined with physical pain, my mother woke up from the hospital and stopped talking. The whole person cried every day, occasionally hitting her father, scolding her father and scolding me, and the home was like a veil. Mom seems to have a mental problem because of her sister! My whole family accompanied me in the city. In that year, my father and mother couldn't talk normally, and they quarreled when they talked. My mother went into shock when she cried. My father went to ask her neighbors for help and enlightened my mother every day. When my mother was sick, my father let her beat and scold, as long as she could get out, as long as she could live. For two years, the family was always sad and had no smile until the arrival of my younger brother, who cured my mother.
? The arrival of my younger brother brought good luck to my family! There is no more gloom at home. My brother brings a smile to my mother, but my mother is still very bad-tempered. I can only study hard. My father is often very silent, trying to earn money for my brother's milk powder and tuition. Every time my father pays me a salary, I pay it to my mother without spending a penny. My parents are very frugal, because I have to go to school and never buy clothes! My mother's spirit got better later, and the whole family was no longer crying. I also studied well, which made my parents have a lot of face. My hardworking father always felt sorry for my mother, so he worked in the coal mine and didn't rest for a day. If he had anything to eat, he thought of his mother at the first time. Dad never buys clothes and shoes. A pair of denim shoes can last for three years, and then he throws them away until his thumb comes out. He tries his best to make our family better.
Parents may not have as much vigorous love as young people, but they have love that never leaves! Ordinary and valuable! I hope I can work hard to help them laugh every day in the good days to come! Have a healthy body!