Why do colleagues refuse to rub the car?

Car owners can refuse their colleagues from work on the pretext that there is something urgent at home. This kind of behavior mostly occurs in contemporary society. Because many people don't have enough money to buy a car, they are greedy and cheap under the influence of the big environment, so they choose this kind of behavior that is beneficial to them. However, this behavior will cause serious resentment among some car owners for a long time. In the face of this situation, car owners should treat it rationally and politely refuse, so that more people can realize that it is not correct to only care about their own interests and ignore the interests of others. I am a man and have a good-looking female colleague. Everyone is married and has children. She lives near my home. Before buying a car, we always take a bus at the same station. The relationship is not bad, and we can chat for a while while waiting for the bus. Since I bought a car, she said, why don't you take my car to meet her at the intersection near her home, so that she can sleep more and catch something at home.

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I agreed and said to wait for her at the exit intersection. But after a while, I felt very troublesome.

Because she is not very punctual, we usually make an appointment to meet at the intersection at 7: 50, and nine times out of ten I have to wait for her. You said it was time. Should I go or wait? I sent her a WeChat, but she didn't reply. She explained to me that sometimes there was a delay in going out, so she rushed over without looking at her mobile phone. The last time I was seven or eight minutes late, I really couldn't wait. I was about to leave when she came running in a panic and said she had left early without telling me. I said I called you, but you didn't answer.

It's nothing, the point is that she is also stingy. ...

When she rubs my car, she sometimes brings some soup and water for breakfast. I'm afraid she'll leak into my seat while driving, but I can't say anything. Just say that my novice driver is unstable. Don't drink soup in the car, or I will splash all over you when I brake. I once watched her eat steamed stuffed buns and joked that I didn't have breakfast today and didn't bring me some. Because there are also female colleagues who clean other people's cars in the company, they go to work together and occasionally bring some food to the owners. After all, they walk less, saving time and money (instead of taking the factory shuttle bus, the company will supplement the 200 yuan transportation allowance to employees every month). It is also troublesome for others to wait, and it is normal to express a little gratitude.

As a result, I joked that I wanted her to bring me breakfast. She glared at me and said that she didn't have enough to eat. My wife didn't cook for you when you came out, and asked me to bring it to you as an outsider. It's embarrassing.

After sitting on the bus for about half a year, I ate a bottle of water and didn't get a thank-you red envelope, and the number of times I was late was increasing. Later, I found an opportunity and said euphemistically, well, I want to take another colleague and live there. If I want to take her and you and pick you up at the original place, it is estimated that there will be an extra detour in the middle. Otherwise, I'll take you somewhere else, so it's more convenient for everyone if she takes it and you take it.

She estimated that she would have to ride bike-sharing to get there, so she complained that she forgot her friends when she saw the color, and forgot her old friends when she had a little girl. ...

I've been joking, or I've discussed it with the girl I want to take and asked her to run longer. ...................................................................................................................................................

Finally, she thought for a moment and sighed, so I won't bother you. From then on, I never mentioned the intention of rubbing my car, but rubbed someone else's car ... unless I work late occasionally and meet her again, I will take her home. ...

Some people say that refusing is easy to offend colleagues, but I think people should be a little angular in the workplace. You can't cover everything, so don't get caught in the rain. It's time to show your unapproachable side and show it properly. In this world, there is no perfect workplace interpersonal relationship.

I didn't expect many people to resonate, and I was too embarrassed to bring my colleagues. This kind of colleague's car trip is really a headache.

In fact, a little analysis, why my colleague's car rub is such a headache, is because of her identity: colleagues, look up and see, especially in business. So don't treat it as a trivial matter. In fact, this kind of long-distance communication is more critical than work communication in workplace interpersonal communication. If this kind of thing is not handled well, it will lead to workplace conflicts and become enemies in workplace relations.

I have a deep understanding. Once I organized team building and set up a team in my own department. The two executives who went out to eat together quarreled because of the fight. They felt that the other party would not give them face, just for who drank more and who drank less, and who was not a man almost fought. In this way, the emotional result of this confrontation is obviously brought to the follow-up work, which requires two people to cooperate. That is, don't even think about it It's good to fight. Later, how to ease their relationship, I also broke my brain.