What do you mean, this is a big deal?

Datong means that two people have the same feelings, the same ideas, the same interests, live in harmony and have a harmonious relationship. Disagreement refers to the great difference in personality and values between people, which makes it difficult to get along with each other, or the serious conflict in personality and thought. These two situations represent the "harmony" and "disharmony" of interpersonal relationships respectively.

The harm of disharmony in life is that it will cause interpersonal contradictions and hurt each other. If the two sides do not solve the problem in time, it will easily lead to a vicious circle and eventually lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the two sides. For teams with more work and interaction, the existence of misfortune will also affect the cohesion and firmness of the team, leading to the reduction of the efficiency of the team and the failure to achieve the expected goals.

To solve the problem, we must first recognize the problem, face it bravely, and can't always escape. Secondly, the two sides need to release their inner dissatisfaction and depression through communication, understand each other's actual situation, and try to look at the problem with a more objective and rational attitude. Finally, we need to find a suitable solution, sometimes we need to buy face but not lose face, and respond to difficult people tactfully. Only by taking constructive steps together can we hope to achieve the goal of improving relations.