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Which surnames cannot be intermarryed with?

Do you know which surnames cannot be intermarryed? Everyone has their own surname. So, what is the origin of the surname? What can we know through surname analysis? In life, people with royal bloodline What are the surnames? Let’s take a look at which surnames people cannot intermarry with!

First place: "Zhu" and "Li" do not intermarry

Li and The Zhu surname has been a feud for thousands of years. At the end of the Tang Dynasty, Li surnamed became the emperor. At that time, the local Jiedu governor Zhu Wen usurped the Tang Dynasty and established the Houliang Dynasty. The Li surnamed Dynasty of the Tang Dynasty perished, and the Li surnamed and Zhu surnamed became enemies.

Hundreds of years later, Zhu Yuanzhang established the Ming Dynasty. At the end of the period, Li Zicheng launched a peasant uprising and eventually invaded Beijing. Emperor Chongzhen was forced to hang himself on Longevity Mountain, and the Ming Dynasty perished. The surname Li successfully took revenge. From then on, the "hatred" between the Zhu and Li families deepened, and they did not intermarry for generations.

The second place is that "Yang" and "Pan" do not intermarry

In the story of the Yang family, Pan Renmei framed the Yang family, causing Yang Laoling to commit suicide. The second son also lost his family. After that, the Yang family and the Pan family became "blood feuds." The descendants of the Yang family in Shanxi also wrote the family motto "Pan and Yang do not intermarry" into their genealogy.

It is said that during the Yuan and Ming Dynasties, whenever descendants of the Yang family met descendants of the Pan family, they would not only say nothing but also use force against them.

Third place: "Yue" and "Qin" cannot intermarry

Everyone understands the reason. In the early years of the Southern Song Dynasty, Qin Hui and other traitorous ministers framed the famous general Yue Fei, and was killed by Song Gaozong on "unfounded" charges. His descendants fled everywhere and survived.

Since then, the Yue family has made a rule: the Yue family and the Qin family will not intermarry for generations to come. After that, the Yue and Qin families really stopped interacting with each other. By the Ming Dynasty, someone even wrote It is a romance novel. The content of the story is that the love between the Yue family and the Qin family was blocked by their parents and they went through many hardships before finally getting married. It is similar to the Western "Romeo and Juliet".

Fourth place: "Zheng" and "Shi" do not intermarry

The origin of the feud between these two families is that in the early Qing Dynasty, Zheng Chenggong regained Taiwan. At that time, Shi Lang was a general under Zheng Chenggong. Later, Prince Zheng believed the slander and killed Shi Lang's father and younger brother. Shi Lang was angry and defected to the Qing Dynasty.

Finally, he led the Qing army to invade Taiwan and destroyed the Zheng dynasty, which led to the discord between the two families and Dai Tian, ​​who strictly ordered the descendants not to marry each other.

Fifth place: "Wu" and "Pan" do not intermarry

The source comes from the Water Margin. Wu Dalang married Pan Jinlian, but Pan Jinlian and Ximen Qing colluded and became an adulterer. Wu Dalang was killed, and later Wu Song killed Pan Jinlian. From then on, the Wu and Pan families were like water and fire, incompatible with each other and had no contact with each other.

It is said that in Shandong, parents have told their children since they were young not to play with each other's children or to be friendly with each other's children. They were good friends in private, but in the end they couldn't withstand the sticks and tears of relatives and friends, so they had no choice but to break up.

In addition, in the south, the surnames Lu and Wu, Fang, Wang, Jiang, Hong, Weng, and Wang, as well as the surnames Shui and Huo, and the surnames Ji and Ying are taboo on intermarriage.

Now it seems that many of the grievances and grievances of our predecessors are all forced and should not become an obstacle for future generations to hold hands. If you are destined, of course you should take action when it is time to take action. It is destined in your previous life. Don't miss your marriage.

Which surnames cannot be used for intermarriage? This question needs to be addressed from two aspects: the past and the present.

First, people with the same surname cannot intermarry. In the past, people lived in large families, with hundreds or thousands of people in a family. Some considered people with the same surname to be one family. Why? The main reason is to resist risks and not be bullied by other families, so some families stipulate that members of the family cannot intermarry. I heard from my grandfather that our hometown is from Shandong. Lao Wang's family is a medium-sized household with more than 300 people. His family has stipulated that no one in the family can intermarry.

The second is that intermarriage is prohibited due to the hatred caused by conflicts between different surnames. If major conflicts and disputes occur between different surnames, they cannot intermarry with each other.

For example, the Qin Hui family and the Yue Fei family cannot intermarry with each other because Qin Hui killed Yue Fei and the two families have enmity, so they cannot intermarry.

The third reason is that intermarriage is impossible due to feudal superstition. For example, people surnamed Zhu cannot intermarry with people surnamed Kang. People understand it as pigs eating chaff, which is unlucky. People surnamed Cui cannot intermarry with people surnamed Pig. It is understood that the homophone of Cui is blowing, and killing pigs requires blowing pigs, so they cannot intermarry. People with the surname of Dog cannot intermarry with people with the surname of Xiong. After marriage, they will be understood as Bears, which does not sound good, so they cannot intermarry.

In today's society, few people pay attention to this. Except for the prohibition of intermarriage between close relatives within three generations as stipulated by national law, as long as two people are willing to intermarry, they can intermarry. Because modern people have advanced ideas, a strong country, and no dangerous factors. They live a small life, believing in science and the law.

The inability to intermarry in this area is a legacy of feudal feuding. Take this village as an example. The two surnames of this village are Pan and Huang, and the two surnames of Zhu and Wang in the neighboring village. In the early days of liberation, due to funeral feng shui, villagers gathered in the two villages to fight with each other. Later, the county armed brigade suppressed it and stopped it. One person from each village was imprisoned and sentenced. . However, the two villages have not intermarryed with each other since then. Even now, although they have friendly exchanges, intermarriage is very rare. In fact, we should put aside the past grudges and look forward. What's wrong with proper intermarriage?

Intermarriage between people with the same surname and within five servers should be carefully considered, as this will affect the health of future generations. Again, human ethics will not lead to chaos. Therefore, it is best not to intermarry between people of the same blood relationship.

I am from Shandong, my ancestral home is Henan, and my surname is Chao. The rule in our family is that we cannot intermarry with anyone named Wang. I have been told since I was a child that no matter whether male or female, I am not allowed to intermarry with anyone named Wang. The specific historical reasons are not clear. We only know that from the last three generations within the family, at least five people suffered misfortune due to intermarriage with the surname Wang. The first one was my eldest grandpa, my grandpa’s brother. It is said that he was a very strong man from Shandong. He married a 19-year-old daughter-in-law named Wang at the age of 20, who was also my eldest grandma. When she was 22 years old, she was bitten by a mad dog. A few days later, he died of rabies. At that time, his wife was only 21 years old and his son was less than one year old. Due to various reasons, the eldest grandmother never remarried in her life and lived to be over eighty years old. Her son, my uncle, also died* ** gave birth to two sons and two daughters. It is said that the eldest grandma had heard the rule that Chao and Wang could not intermarry. Later, her grandson, my cousin, had a very good girlfriend. Unfortunately, her surname was Wang. The wife fought to the death and finally broke up. During a grave sweep in recent years, my cousin joked that he was lucky to have listened to grandma at that time, otherwise he might be lying here now. There are several such examples. When I was young, my aunt was engaged to a soldier named Wang. Went out to fight and never came back. Our family lives in the local county town and has four aunts. My aunt is almost 80 years old this year. When she was young, she married a local man named Wang. The family was very good, but my aunt felt that she couldn't live on. She had to live and die every day. Later, she got divorced and married a long time ago. There is a family named Jiang in the village. Although they are not very wealthy, they have two children. Her husband died two years ago. My third aunt also married a nearby family surnamed Wang. The family was particularly prosperous. Within three years of my third aunt’s marriage, she gave birth to two sons. My third uncle was imprisoned twice because of fights with others. ***It must have been seven or eight years, which means that I spent very little time at home except when my children were young. Then I was released from prison. For two or three years, my family lived very well. Others said that my third aunt finally finally After all the hardships, happiness came, but unfortunately the good times did not last long. My third uncle died in a car accident. At that time, my third aunt was only in her thirties and not yet forty. I’m not sure about other examples. It’s okay if you marry someone with another surname in your family. Anyway, everyone has been told since childhood that they must not marry someone with the surname Wang. We are all frightened by these things. When we fall in love, it’s easy to hear this. Those with the surname Wang ran far away and could not harm others (or in other words, harm each other). This is an example of our family. I couldn’t help but write it down for everyone to see. I don’t know if anyone has the same surname as us. After all, there are too few people with the surname Chao, and they have been mispronounced by others since childhood

The surname cannot be Intermarriage? The law does not prohibit it, and there are many people with the same surname marrying.

The ancient people I know, Qian Peng, did not intermarry. The ancestor of the Peng surname was Peng Zu. Peng Zu was the name that later generations called him. Legend has it that he lived for more than 800 years. Pengzu is a descendant of Emperor Yao, and his fiefdom is the Great Peng Kingdom. In today's Tongshan area of ​​Xuzhou, Jiangsu, Pengzu's real name is Zhuankeng, and Zhuan means money. Most people with the current Peng surname believe that their ancestor is Pengzu, especially in the Peng surname in Xuzhou, Jiangsu.

I just mentioned that Pengzu’s name was Zhuokeng. Naturally, some of his descendants were unwilling to use the fiefdom as their surname and still used the surname Qian. King Qian Liu of Wuyue was a descendant of Pengzu. The ancient Wuyue area is now Jiangsu. Southeast, Zhejiang Province and northeastern Fujian. Therefore, most of the descendants with the Qian surname are descendants of Peng Zu.

Since most of the two surnames can be traced back to the same ancestor, ancient people believed that intermarriage was not allowed.

I really don’t know the other surnames.

The main surnames that I know that cannot be intermarryed are:

1. Yue and Qin - everyone knows the origin of Yue Fei and Qin Hui. Qin Hui knelt in front of the Yue Fei Temple for more than a thousand years. However, the two surnames have not yet been able to reconcile, and this is a feud.

2. Yue and Wanyan - the Wanyan family belongs to the royal family of the Jin Dynasty, and Yue Fei is the commander-in-chief of the Anti-Jin Dynasty, so the two surnames do not marry each other due to feud.

3. Wu and Pan - because Pan Jinlian and Ximen Qing poisoned and killed her husband Wu Dalang, they were despised by the descendants of the Wu surname, so they did not intermarry.

4. Yang and Pan - According to the legend of the generals of the Yang family, Yang Ye in the Northern Song Dynasty was framed by Pan Renmei and died trapped in Lianglang Mountain. The two surnames have not yet reconciled.

5. Li and Zhu - Zhu Wen destroyed the Li family in the Tang Dynasty and killed his successor; Li Zicheng destroyed the Zhu family in the Ming Dynasty and forced Chongzhen to death. The two surnames had a deep feud.

6. Lu and Wu - Lu Mengzheng, the prime minister of the Song Dynasty, was framed by ministers named Wu and had no choice but to move away. Therefore, his descendants did not marry with Wu.

7. Intermarriage between people with the same surname, same clan, and same bloodline was a big taboo in ancient times.

8. People who do not intermarry because of the conflict between the two surnames, or due to family feuds, of course, exist in various places, and I will not list them one by one.

Some feuds may be legends, or may be influenced by literary and artistic works. I hope they will all disappear in the long river of history!

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National law does not stipulate that intermarriage is not allowed based on surnames. There is only a folk rule that prohibits intermarriage based on surnames left over from history, but the law does not support it.

2. The surnames Yue and Qin. General Yue Fei was loyal and patriotic and had many military exploits. He was framed by the villain Qin Hui and died tragically. They were incompatible with each other. Descendants of the Yue surname and the Qin surname cannot intermarry...

3. The surnames Zhu and Li were incompatible with each other. Emperor Zhu Yuanzhang of the Ming Dynasty was led by Li Zicheng to lead a peasant army to revolt and overthrow the Ming Dynasty. Emperor Chongzhen committed suicide and hated the surname Li. They were at odds with each other. The ancestors established a rule that the surname Zhu and Li could not intermarry...

4. The surnames Yang and Pan, Yang Jiye’s family was full of loyal generals and heroes of the Anti-Liao Dynasty. He led the Song army to attack the Liao army and committed suicide in isolation. Pan Renmei avenged his private revenge and secretly killed Yang Qilang and Yang Sanlang. Therefore, the ancestors of the Yang family stipulated that they could not fight with their enemies. Later generations intermarry, Yang and Pan cannot intermarry, and other..., I don't know how to do homework. Now, as long as they are not close relatives, they can get married. They pay attention to the freedom of marriage. They can also marry foreigners. As long as they are unmarried, both parties can enter if they wish. Marriage, women's equality, more happiness...

Since ancient times, our country has attached great importance to traditional culture, from academics, Feng Shui to cultural relics, etc., which are all cultures left over from our country's long history. As for our country’s traditional surnames, I don’t know if you have ever heard of them.

In ancient my country, there was a lot of research on these surnames. In addition to the origin of some surnames, it is also said that some surnames cannot be intermarryed. Why can't they be intermarryed? Of course, it is also related to our country’s long history.

1: Qin and Yue surnames cannot intermarry

Everyone knows that these two surnames cannot intermarry. This all stems from the incident when Qin Hui killed Yue Fei on unfounded charges. . Since then, the Qin Hui family has been despised by the world, and the two families have never interacted with each other.

2: The surnames Yang and Pan cannot intermarry

The reason why these two surnames cannot intermarry is because in the Song Dynasty, the generals of the Yang family headed by Yang Guang swore allegiance to the death, but later they All died under Pan Renmei's frame. The two families have developed a deep hatred.

3: Zhu and Li did not intermarry

This was because of the peasant uprising launched by Li Zicheng, which overthrew the Ming Dynasty established by Zhu Yuanzhang. Naturally, two families that hate the subjugation of their country cannot intermarry.

4: The surnames Cao and Cao cannot intermarry

There are many opinions on the reasons why these two surnames cannot intermarry. Most of them are that the two surnames are the same. Since ancient times, our country has followed the principle that people with the same surname cannot marry.

After reading these, are you among these surnames? Of course, today, it doesn’t matter that these surnames cannot intermarry. It’s just that there is nothing wrong with knowing more about the previous history.