How to resolve the contradiction between husband and wife, and can it be resolved between husband and wife?
How to solve the problem of husband and wife's eight-character collision and mutual injury, how bumpy the marriage is, and how to solve the problem of husband and wife's eight-character collision.
First of all, don't be superstitious. My superstition here doesn't mean that I don't believe it. I am also an idealist, and I know a little about the eight characters. I believe that. When I say don't be superstitious, I just don't think that eight characters or anything else can decide everything. If the eight-character marriage is not good, it must be bad. How to resolve it must be done.
Then let's talk about the details. When you say that husband and wife have harmful personalities, you should mean the Chinese zodiac. First, one of the factors affecting the two people in the eight characters is the earthly branch, and the genus represents the earthly branch in the middle of the year, so the genus has an influence. But in addition to the annual earthly branch, there are three other groups of earthly branches (month, day and hour). Are these three groups of earthly branches more suitable and stronger than a single one-year earthly branch? Secondly, another factor that affects two people in the eight characters is whether the two types of eight characters are appropriate, which is hard to say. So what affects their marriage are four groups of earthly branches and eight-character types. Now it's only one year's underground punishment department. Don't make a fuss. It is too early to say that their horoscope is not suitable. If the person who measured your horoscope only said these things, you are basically a liar.
After that, even if the eight characters are really inappropriate, it doesn't matter much As I said before, I believe in the eight characters, so there will definitely be more twists and turns when the eight characters don't agree, but I also said not to be superstitious about the eight characters, because this is only one factor that affects marriage, and there are many other factors that affect marriage. If we want to resolve it, I think the best way to resolve it is to communicate more, be honest and trust each other. This is the universal law of marriage. The eight characters are not suitable, just a little more twists and turns. With a good communication system and mutual trust, many twists and turns will pass. On the contrary, without such communication and trust, it can be subverted once or twice.
So don't worry or get pimples, just work hard.
How to resolve the eight-character collision between husband and wife: How to resolve the five-element collision between husband and wife 1, unmarried people, first of all, through the birthdates analysis of both sides, to see whether the gods of the two are in harmony.
2. Unmarried couples who are in love fight with each other and want to get married. You can consider not getting a marriage certificate, not worshiping heaven and earth, and not hosting a banquet to alleviate the anger of the other party. After the period of mutual anger, it is not too late to do the relevant ceremonies and procedures.
If the husband and wife are married, try to keep their distance.
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How to solve the five elements problem of husband and wife?
It's not that simple to see if the characters of husband and wife are similar, whether they are heavy or not, and whether they can be saved. It is necessary to comprehensively analyze various factors to be accurate. Local experts can't say how to solve it. One reason is that he is not good at solving problems, and the other reason is to guide people to solve disasters. If there is a disaster, he can't solve it and reflect on it, so he dare not say it. In fact, it is mainly based on one's own actual study, rather than making it up at will, but trying to solve it for others sincerely, so don't be afraid of this and that, and don't worry. How to resolve the eight-character conflict between married couples?
Generally speaking, the eight-character gentleman is measured by the relative situation of the five elements of the year and the zodiac. Actually, it's not that one-sided. People generally have an illusion that the old gentleman has real skills, but the essence is not. Why? Practical experience is needed, but what this industry needs more is savvy, savvy, analytical ability, inductive power and flexible thinking. Most old gentlemen are stuck in a rut and find it difficult to make progress. Moreover, most of the old gentlemen came from the 1990s. At that time, they were mainly in charge of three things, counting eight characters, choosing auspicious days and watching Feng Shui. These three things have a common but different essence. People who are good at choosing dates and geomantic omen may not be able to see the eight characters deeply. There is a saying: "three-yuan eight-character nine-car book", which means reading an eight-character three-car book (at that time, reading eight-character three-car books), and learning eight-character well depends on reading as many books as nine cars. It can be seen that eight-character is the most difficult to understand, and the income from reading eight-character is very low. Therefore, most of them are more important than choosing a day and feng shui, and the eight characters are not delved into.
Analyze the relative situation between men and women. Look at the relative situation of the eight characters of two people first. In addition to the year of birth, we should also look at the relationship between the five elements of the annual column and the five elements of the annual column, as well as the relative situation of the five elements of the daily column for reference. Note that it is not bad to rush, but easy to get along with. What to rush is to be measured by the five elements of likes and dislikes. For example, when a man and a woman meet in the meridian, the child is water, the afternoon is fire, the child is submerged by water, and the afternoon fire suffers, which consumes energy. If the afternoon fire itself is not good for this person's five elements, then it is beneficial in essence. If the afternoon fire is this person's favorite five elements, it is certainly not good to rush it. This is a world of difference. Furthermore, it depends on whether there is a complementary relationship between two people's eight-character preferences and the five elements. For example, the man likes water, the woman's character is just prosperous, the woman likes fire, and the man's character is prosperous. In this case, it is beneficial to each other. If two people have such a complementary relationship, even if they are born in eight characters, there will be obstacles in the day, and so on, the situation will be different from that without complementarity.
Two: Look at the situation of the husband (wife) star in the personal constellation. Men and women take wealth as their wives, women take officials as their husbands, and Japanese support as their wives' palace, depending on the situation of this husband's "wife" star in the eight characters, whether it is prosperous or hopeless, what is the relationship between his "wife's palace", whether his "wife" star is happy or jealous of his own yen, and so on.
So what exactly is your eight-character relationship? Need to analyze one by one. It is time-consuming to explain this situation in detail. You have to write a big article. It's too late now. You can go to see it tomorrow and tell you the actual situation directly, so the process will not be explained one by one, because it is really time-consuming and understandable. I wrote an article about this in my diary. Please read it first and get a general idea.
Discussion on the marriage characters of men and women: how to solve the mutual harm between husband and wife?
Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "only mandarin ducks are admired but not immortals", and a harmonious and happy marriage is a very beautiful thing. However, beautiful things often hurt people the most. Whether men and women are suitable can be seen through the eight characters, and it is very accurate. The key lies in one's academic level.
As far as I know, the general Mr. Ba Zi is one-sided. He only looked at Yin Na's birth and life, so he said that the couple were in love. Some people said no when they looked at their birth and life! Providing false guidance information increases the psychological burden of candidates, which is not worth the loss. Why do most people make such one-sided judgments? I think there are two reasons. First: the business atmosphere is heavy and the sense of responsibility is not strong. I don't want to bother to look at the analysis. Second: the scholarship is not refined, not thorough, abiding by theorems, not flexible, not practical research, only superficial. Why do you say that? Because the purpose of learning this knowledge is mostly to ensure a sense of security for the elderly, or to support their families by this profession, they lack the desire to explore knowledge and the idea of in-depth research. Such people will not make progress, but will only learn by rote and mechanically, and can only distinguish in general. So many times it provides the wrong guidance. It is very superficial to judge only by the year of birth. To understand the relationship between two people, we need to combine the likes and dislikes of the eight characters and comprehensively analyze all aspects to be accurate.
Among customers, many are easy-to-learn enthusiasts. Because I have my own job, I have no time to guide them one by one. Now I'm writing this article and breaking it down with examples. Ordinary customers can roughly understand how to measure the situation of the two, and Yi-ology lovers can learn from it and get the correct analysis method.
When a man and a woman get married, whether the eight characters collide, whether it is favorable or unfavorable, and whether it is suitable for cohabitation. Generally speaking, the first thing to look at is the coexistence, coincidence, mutual restriction, conflict and mutual punishment between birth years. There are two combinations, Liuhe and Sanhe, such as people born in the year of Hai (pig), Yin Haihe and Hai Sanhe Wood Bureau. Then the combination with this sea (pig) is: Yin, Mao and Wei, that is, tiger, rabbit and sheep. Like Meridian, Shen Yin, You Mao? If the meridian collides, the child is a mouse and the noon is a horse, and the two conflict. Yin Na, the Yin Na in life, has five elements that are mutually generated or restricted. Look at the relative situation of its solar column. The general Mr. Eight-character is also measured by this, for example, giving birth to Yin and giving birth to Yin, and being born in the same year or together means good cooperation. If yin and yin meet, they meet in birth and year, or the punishment is unlucky. Yes, it is necessary to look at it this way, but it is not constant. This is only a general and overall situation, just as one of the factors. For example, the meridians collide with each other, and the midday fire hurts. If the midday fire is inherently taboo, then the midday fire will be beneficial to people. Of course, rushing is bumping into disharmony, disharmony exists, and there will be more minor contradictions, but it is harmless in nature and beneficial instead. It can be seen that you can't judge from the surface, you can only measure it.
For another example, the male belongs to the tiger (Yin) and the female belongs to the monkey (Shen), and ""collide with each other. This contradictory relationship is that Jin Shen hit Yin Mo and Yin Mo suffered. If this "dark wood" itself is not conducive to people's five elements, then what is wrong with rushing something that is already unfavorable? So you can't look at the surface, which is often an illusion. In other words, even if there is a collision or a gram, it is necessary to measure whether the five elements of collision are happy or taboo, and it cannot be generalized. The separation of husband and wife can resolve mutual conflicts.
In fact, the first thing to understand is the overall relative situation of the eight characters and five elements. What is the overall situation? For example, in a person's eight characters, Shui Mu in the five elements is very prosperous, and he likes to use the earth gold in the five elements. Anonymous's eight characters and five elements happen to be the most prosperous, and the five elements are happy with water and wood. Obviously, on the whole, these two personalities complement each other. Even though the eight years are relatively contradictory to each other, grams, etc.,,, are all based on the overall favorable premise. How do couples treat each other in their lives?
In addition, in the eight characters, men are destined to take wealth as their wives, and women are destined to take officials as their husbands. It is necessary to analyze the personal eight characters and the financial officials in the eight characters to measure the relative relationship. Even if one party does have a strong message, it can't be together without a conclusion. Why? Depends on the other person's horoscope. For example, anonymous's horoscope is very informative, but her husband's horoscope is very prosperous, so he is not afraid, and it doesn't matter whether he can accept it or not. There are many such examples, such as a customer some time ago. First look at his wife's eight characters, slandering the official to make a fortune, and the official star is overwhelmed, which constitutes a wounded official, and there is no money to solve in the column. This eight-character husband is really heavy! Moreover, Chinese characters are the Japanese yen of Ding Huo, and the Japanese yen is very weak. Coincidentally, my husband's eight-character yen is C fire, and the yen is strong. I am not afraid of being beaten, but I can't beat my husband. And because her husband's eight-character yen is strong, she can use herself to survive better. Is it a coincidence that this woman's constellation can only be with rich people, and her husband happens to be such a constellation? Have to sigh for it! It is so amazing, this is a kind of "fate", and it has its own blessings. If we simply look at the woman's eight characters, the conclusion is exact. "Foucault is very heavy, and his own yen is weak, so it is difficult to get married." However, this does not mean that people cannot get married. In contrast, the couple's eight characters have a very exact conclusion: "Women's information is very heavy, and the yen is too weak for Ding Huo. Fortunately, my husband's character is strong and not afraid. The beauty lies in her husband's strong character, which benefits her wife. Therefore, it is very accurate to say that the couple can live together in harmony and happiness.
Example 1:
Date of birth (lunar calendar): male: 18 was born at 3: 30 on September, and female: was born at 6: 00 on February 26th, 2008. I found six well-known eight-character gentlemen to calculate, and they all said that they were extremely fierce, but they couldn't say how to resolve them.
Example decomposition: how to solve the eight-character injury to his wife and children.
How to resolve the five elements of husband and wife depends on whether the eight characters of husband and wife restrain each other, whether they are heavy or not, and whether they can be saved. It is necessary to comprehensively analyze various factors to be accurate. Because the information of these two characters is obvious, most of them can be seen. On the surface, it can be said that, but in fact, there are very few real in-depth analysis. There are two reasons why local experts can't tell how to solve it: First, they only look at the appearance, know the reason, have a poor foundation and are not good at solving it. Second, there is a saying that they dare not say if the disaster cannot reflect on themselves. In fact, it mainly comes from my own practical study, not just making it up, but trying to solve it for others sincerely, so there is no need to be afraid of this and that, and there is no need to worry. This idea is superfluous.
Male: Born at 3: 30 a.m. on September 8, 2008/KLOC-0. Eight characters married.
The god of wealth is the god of wealth.
Dry production: octyl-pentyl-propyl-heptyl
Xu You Yin Yin
Female: Born at 6 am on February 26th, 2008:
What will happen if God and his wife like to help each other with God?
Kun Zao: Ding Guigui Yi
Mao Mao Youmao
These two eight-character columns are strong and powerful, and the Japanese column is strong and powerful. No wonder all six people are heavy. As can be seen from the above eight characters, men are born in their hearts, women are born in Ding Mao, and heavenly stems collide with earthly branches, and earthy branches collide with earthy branches, which is more powerful than others. On this day, the earth branch collided with the earth branch, which is true. Look at the Japanese column again. Men live on the third day, women live on the first day. The sky is dry and the water is dry and the fire is flourishing. Rizhu is a day. The situation is known, so is it a joy or a taboo? Is it just bad? You should first understand your personal likes and dislikes, and then analyze them. Can men and women overcome each other?
The eight-character yen of the male life is C fire, and the eight-character yen is in the season, and the fortune star is rooted. Food injury is prosperous, food injury makes money, and wealth is more prosperous. Although it is too heavy, it is also a cloudy time. Obviously, the yen "C" fire is still weak. The eight characters and five elements are short of water, which looks a little hot and dry, but it is not suitable for water. Because the Japanese yen is weak and water is fire, it is not good to print wood without water. It is better to use seal than life, that is to say, the five elements that are beneficial to Muhuo's character are the five elements. A small amount of water can be used for climate regulation, but more is useless.
Looking at a woman's life, the yen is "decyl" water, born in Chunmuwang discouraged, and grows three strong roots when it dries out, which shows that the wood in its eight characters is very prosperous! The dry month is tight, but it helps. Although weak, it is still helpful. Sitting on the unitary gold, I have no choice but to support the three basics and one unitary, and it is difficult to protect myself and live. The female yen is weak, very weak. Only by relying on the help of low water every month can we survive. Husband and wife are in poor health.
Now that we know the situation of their respective yen and the likes and dislikes of the five elements, we can measure the weight of each other and whether the hit is incurable or solvable.
As mentioned earlier, the annual column rushes to the ground, the weather is dry and the fire is flourishing, and the ground is rushing. Cast dikes every day, and dry water and fire every day, and support Unitary Jin Mu. Let's take a look at Nianzhu's Tian Kedi pet first. God damn it, the woman is good, but Kim was killed, and others also paid a certain amount of strength. That is to say, Jin Xin was removed, and Ding Huo's strength was weakened. The five elements of gold were originally unfavorable to the man, but the removal of gold reduced the financial burden. And Ding Huo itself is not conducive to the woman's five elements. The consequence of this gram is that each person hurts the five elements that are unfavorable to him. With the support of the man's unitary gold, the woman's Mao Mu was destroyed, and the unitary gold weakened her own strength. From this point of view, this year's column has no disadvantage. Because all the five elements that are not good for you are destroyed, what's wrong with destroying things that are not good for you? Obviously beneficial. Moreover, life and yin are born together, so this day is not a harm, but an illusion, a superficial illusion and.
Look at the Japanese column. When the Japanese column is dry, the water is dry, and it is not good to plant unitary gold, because the yen is already weak, and it is unlucky to be beaten again. However, it is not good for decane water to weaken the power itself, because decane water itself is very weak. It's also not conducive to supporting the monism, which is the XiShen of C fire. Of course, it's not good to suppress the five elements that are beneficial to you. In the same way, you Jin is also happy with the woman, and weakening is also unlucky. The fortune teller said that the eight characters did not match.
From the above analysis, it is obvious that the influence of Nianzhu is harmless and beneficial. The harm point is Tian Kedi of Rizhu, and both of them like each other. In other words, this eight-character is really similar, but it is not too heavy, because the eight-character itself has a resolving factor, which has no adverse effect on the annual column. Of course, it is not good to rush to explain, and no one will rush to explain. That's because it's a collision, not your own thoughts. However, on this day, everything washed away by the earth is inherently unfavorable, and the five elements are beneficial in nature, so they can be saved. If all the western gods are washed away on this day, there is nothing the immortals can do. There is another favorable factor. In the eight characters, the woman is the most prosperous, and the man needs wood to help himself, just for his own use. So, it doesn't hurt that these two people are together. As long as we adjust the five elements, we can solve their unfavorable relationship.
Example 2:
The man was born in the fourth year of Ding. The Japanese yen is "B" wood, which is a big taboo. The Japanese yen is weak, so it needs five elements of Shui Mu.
The female was born in 1998, the year of Guihai. The Japanese yen is "Xin Jin", which makes people happy. Food hurts money and the yen is weak. Use five elements of earth and gold.
Case decomposition:
The situation of these two roles is as described above. One was born in "Ding Si" and the other was born in "Gui Hai". When the weather is dry, the water is like Ding Huo, and the "Hayes" collide. The fortune teller said they couldn't be together, and they were in a hurry. In fact, this is a wrong judgment. In fact, the couple have been married for 6 years and have always been very harmonious and happy.
Why? These two people are really strong in the years, but what they overcome is beneficial to each other. "ding si" "Guihai", the result of these two conflicts, is that the man's fire is suppressed and the woman's water is weakened. The fire of the five elements is not good for the man, but it is good to be washed away, and the woman's water weakens her strength, which is also good for herself, because the water is flourishing and the water is not happy, and the result of this day's rush is beneficial to each other. In addition, the woman's eight-character Shui Mu Wang is exactly what the man needs. The functions of the two are complementary. So these two people can be together and have a happy marriage. However, it needs to be clarified here. Even so, these two people will still have some small contradictions and frictions, but they will not hurt their feelings and affect their marriage. There is a collision because of the collision. Even if the impact is not harmful but beneficial, this collision still exists. Just like when we meet a dead tiger on the mountain, even if there is no danger, we are startled. We need to have this idea in each other's hearts, and we can give each other more understanding, trust and tolerance in life, so that marriage will be more beautiful.
In practical experience, it is no coincidence that some people with strong personalities in the eight characters will naturally be with people with matching personalities in the eight characters. This is the way of nature, which can be explained by a word "fate". Others will naturally meet a master with real talent and practical learning to help them understand the five elements and be safe. Only a few people fail to meet people who can be solved, and there is no "fate" to naturally find people who meet the eight characters, thus bearing the consequences. From this, we can also draw a conclusion that emotional things cannot be forced, and the golden mean is the most appropriate.
The above is the conflict between husband and wife's zodiac signs. Can it be solved? Related content is about how to resolve the sharing of husband and wife's five elements. I saw how the couple's eight characters collided. I hope this will help everyone!