Etiquette taboo of Zhuang nationality
First of all, hospitality
Zhuang nationality is a hospitable nation. In the past, guests who visited any Zhuang village were regarded as guests of the whole village. Often several families take turns to invite them to dinner, sometimes five or six at a time. Usually, we have the habit of visiting each other. For example, if a family kills pigs, we will invite everyone in the village to have a meal. Be sure to prepare wine for the guests at the table, which will be very grand. What is the custom of toasting? A drink? In fact, instead of cups, we use white porcelain spoons.
When guests arrive home, they will try their best to give them the best accommodation, especially the elderly and new guests. When eating, you must wait for the oldest old man to sit down before eating; The younger generation must not eat the dishes that the elders have not touched; When serving tea and rice to elders and guests, you must hold it in your hands, not in front of the guests or behind your elders' backs. Eat first and then tell your elders and guests one by one? Eat slowly? Leave again; The younger generation can't eat the whole table.
Second, the usual courtesy.
Respecting the old and loving the young is the traditional virtue of Zhuang nationality. Old people in Lu Yu should take the initiative to say hello and give way. Don't cross your legs, swear or cross over the old people. When killing a chicken, the head and nose of the chicken must respect the old man. Old man Lu Yu, do you want to weigh it? Grandpa? , the woman said? Grandma? When you meet a guest or a person with a heavy load, you should take the initiative to make way. If you encounter the burden of the elderly, you should take the initiative to help and send it to break up.
Married men and women, whenever they see their elders, the man screams? Dad? Can women make phone calls? Mom? . In school, teachers generally call themselves students, and seldom talk to teachers or elders older than themselves? Me? Try to avoid words.
Third, taboo.
Taboo about social intercourse: Father-in-law can't enter daughter-in-law's bedroom. Literati dare not write divorce papers. Women don't eat together when guests are at home. The next generation can't drink slowly with guests. Brother can't talk to sister-in-law casually.
Taboo about production: The fifth month of the lunar calendar is the Year of the Loong, so you can't pick shit and pour urine. Don't work in the fields on June 6th. Open a room by almanac. If it's in the almanac? Not suitable for breaking ground? Choose another auspicious day.
Taboo about superstition: avoid saying unlucky things during the Spring Festival. On the first day of the first month, it is forbidden to strike a fire, sweep the floor, visit houses, pound rice, wash clothes, use knives and axes and borrow things. Loans and borrowed things must be paid off before New Year's Eve. You can't sit on the threshold, step on the tripod on the stove or fireplace, carry a hoe and wear a hat to enter the house, climb and cut down trees on Longshan Mountain.
Taboo about women: pregnant women are not allowed to meet the bride in the wedding room. When there are pregnant women in the house, a straw hat 1 is hung on the door, implying that outsiders are not allowed to enter. Married women are not allowed to take things from the altar when they return to their parents' homes. It is not allowed to build new tiles on the top of pregnant women's kitchens. Women are not allowed to light the bedroom for less than three days after giving birth. Women's clothes can't be washed with men's clothes. Women can't comb their hair during the New Year.
Fourth, family.
Zhuang nationality is a monogamous family, and there were some cases of polygamy before liberation. Many such families exist in the family, and the son has the ability to build a new house and separate after marriage. Parents are used to leaving their youngest son in the old house to settle down. Children have the right and obligation to be filial to their adoptive parents and inherit their ancestral home, and other property is equally distributed by the sons of the whole family. As family members, women and men do housework together. In productive labor, men are mostly responsible for plowing, transporting fertilizer and building houses, while women are mainly responsible for transplanting rice, weeding, planting cotton, harvesting cotton, spinning and raising livestock and poultry.
Zhuang people have a deep sense of family. As long as they find out where their ancestors live, they will visit relatives no matter how far away. The surname of the first village is respected, and the elders with this surname are often recommended as the village? Elder? , presided over the mediation of civil disputes and sacrificial activities in the village.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) festival
The Spring Festival is regarded by Zhuang people as a big festival of 1 year. In the middle of the twelfth lunar month, build roads, clean houses and buy new clothes. The 23rd of the twelfth lunar month is off-year, which is similar to that of the Han nationality? Send the stove? . After the Lunar New Year, every household began to prepare holiday food, kill chickens and pigs, make rice cakes with rice sugar, and even make zongzi at the estuary. On the first day of New Year's Day, they struggled to pick fresh water, dragging the heads of cows, horses, pigs and chickens tied with grass while walking, imitating the sounds of six animals in their mouths. Why? Six kinds of animals thrive? . In some areas, after the ancestor worship in the early morning of the first or third day of junior high school, children should be allowed to read for a while, parents should play with abacus, and women should take a small amount of fertilizer and grain seeds and scatter them on the ground to show that the new year is prosperous and the livelihood is smooth. How many people in Hekou County live beside the Red River and nanxi river? Black Flag Army? Children and grandchildren, the 29th day of the first month? Off-year, also known as? Have a festival? (Zhuang means old age). According to legend, during the Sino-French War, due to the busy war, the Spring Festival could not be celebrated as scheduled. After the victory of the Anti-Japanese War, it was the 28th day of the first month, so people made up the Spring Festival to celebrate the victory. Who claims to be? Farmer? Every year, New Year's greetings are held on the first and second days of the second lunar month.
Yuanyang county? So secretive? Festivals, twice a year, the first time is the first month of the lunar calendar or February before the Year of the Ox 10 day. Prepare 1 chicken, 1 rooster, 1 dog, tie grass into grass, and cut clothes with red paper. The elders in the village led the way with the right people, and chose four able-bodied people to drag pigs and dogs, followed by chickens. Take a walk on the main street in the village. Send the scarecrow and the dragged pigs and dogs to a fixed stone or tree in the east of the village, set up a thatched cottage, and kill the pigs, dogs and chickens for sacrifice. The second time, in the seventh month of the lunar calendar, Longkou built a road, which was a horse day. Cleaning the stockade? This festival is the same as the last one, except killing chickens and not dogs. On this day, all the farmers in the village will send 65,438+0 people to participate in this festival. Meat must be eaten locally and cannot be brought back to the village. People believe that if the stockade is cleaned and monsters are driven out of the village, people and animals will be spared from disasters and crops will grow well.
? So secretive? On this day, the villagers will go to the fixed forest above the stockade, set up a stone at the foot of the selected tree, and kill pigs to worship the gods. Castren? You need to choose people with good facial features, complete limbs, sons and daughters, and both husband and wife. Old priest? First, we should lead two assistants and six others to clean the forest. Pig's head and pig's foot are cooked during the sacrifice, and the remaining pork, glutinous rice and white wine are taken home by each household. what do you think? Secret? Distribute wine and meat, which should be reserved for families to take to cotton fields and rice fields for sacrifice on the day of planting cotton and opening seedling doors. Pregnant or newly dead farmers can only wait outside the fence and be sent out by others. Who is in charge of the sacrifice? Old priest? Two days before the festival, you and your assistant must take a bath in the hot spring and are not allowed to share the bed with your wife. You are not allowed to eat beef, dog meat, fish and other fishy things seven days ago. Secret? Put a pot of delicious flour and water outside the Woods. Anyone who enters the meeting must wash his hands with perfume first. The water for killing and scalding pigs and the shaved pig hair should be dug out and buried deeply. If it is not deeply buried, it is thought that there will be more flies and mosquitoes in the village this year. What should I do that day? Open a leopard? Activities, that is, who will participate? Secret? Choose 1 among the people? Leopard? Before eating, when it's getting dark, bring a bowl of meat? Leopard? . ? Leopard? Carrying this bowl of meat, carrying a match head around three times, everyone shouted, meaning to catch up? Leopard? . What time? Leopard? Some people don't come back to eat with everyone after dinner that day, and they are not allowed to go out to visit the village, otherwise people and animals in the village will be hurt. During the festival, every household will steam yellow and red glutinous rice, cook eggs for children, cut pine trees into ponies and drag them around the village. On this day, people from other villages are not allowed to enter the village, people from the village are not allowed to go up the mountain to pick firewood, and they do not go to the well to wash vegetables that morning. Violators will be punished according to regulations. Treat guests on holidays, and the whole village will rest for 4 ~ 5 days. Men, women and children wear new farmers. During the day, young men and women go to the mountains to sing and dance in the village at night.
Eat new rice. Every year, before the millet harvest and after the rice turns yellow, families choose their own days to eat new rice. When the millet was ripe, they went to the field to pick 4-6 grains of rice, processed them into rice, killed a red rooster, made tofu, cooked the newly dug taro, served it on the table, and offered sacrifices to the gods and ancestors at the dinner table. Men who go to cut millet should get up early and go to the fields when they are full. If they are hungry and cut new millet, they think that the whole family will starve. On the way back and forth, don't answer when you meet someone. Pick up the married girl when eating new rice. After the elders take a bite first, others can add rice. You can't spoil the first bowl of rice.
? The natives are over 18 years old? . September 28th in Gejiu and Mengzi was celebrated for the old people who died that year. Year-round festival? Before the program begins, the daughter and son-in-law of the old man will go back to their parents' home with chicken and wine to burn paper for meals, and invite relatives and friends to visit their ancestors. In the past year-round festivals? It will be held for three consecutive years, and now it is generally only 1 year. ? Year-round festival? There are two kinds of folklore: First, there was an emperor 1 in ancient times who invited chef Zhuang to cook royal meals. One day, the emperor asked him: What is the sweetest thing in the world? The chef said? Salt is the sweetest? The emperor killed the chef in a rage and invited 1 chef. When the cook cooked without salt, the emperor asked the cook: Why not put salt? The chef replied:? The emperor said that salt was not sweet and he dared not put it. The emperor didn't know he killed someone by mistake, so he made it for the chef who killed him by mistake? Year-round festival? . Second, there were 1 emperors' concubines in ancient times, all of whom were native women. 1 year, concubines' mother died. She chose the date of departure (September 28th) to go home and send her mother to the funeral. The emperor said? It's raining, don't go back. Yu Ji said:? No matter how hard it rains, you have to go. The emperor said:? It will rain, it will rain. It rained on this innocent day. It is said that it will rain on September 28th every year. If it doesn't rain, it will be cloudy for three days. If it doesn't rain, the harvest will not be good.
Intransitive verb funeral
The Zhuang people once practiced wooden coffin cremation. Old records:? Tuliao? People dig holes, put coffins on the ground, smash them, beat earth drums one day and burn them three days later. Sandman? When she died, she was buried in a thin coffin. The daughter-in-law made up Li Luo and said, Stand in the field, it's over, bury in the wild, burn it and cover it. Depend on people? Pro-death, Su Ma, Ubuntu dynasty cremation, regardless of the sun and the moon, will be removed at the end of the year. In modern times, Zhuang people generally carried out wooden coffin burial like Han people. Wei Meng claims to be? Depend on people? Surnames, such as Wu, wear a white hat and a white coat; Zhang is bald and wearing a long white dress; Shen and Lu wore hemp hats and linen clothes; Wang Xing, the coffin is dead. ? Thick people? In front of a coffin, you should sift the ash at the bottom of the coffin with a sieve, and then pat the coffin with your hand to see if there are any strange traces of ash, so as to determine whether the soul of the deceased has left home to worship his ancestors. The pillow of the deceased should be wrapped in triangular white cloth and screened with rice without barnyard grass. At the funeral of Zhuang nationality in Yuanyang, Yu Yu hung a black cloth bag with millet and rice fragrance on his shoulder, holding 1 hen, kneeling in front of the coffin, holding a long knife on his head and kowtowing three times. Then he shook the knife off the ground and looked at the direction of the knife edge, indicating that the deceased did not want to go out and continued to worship, indicating that the deceased had no worries. The children of the deceased will be buried until 1 month later. Sandman? Three years after death, the body and bones should be taken out of the coffin on an auspicious day and reburied in a clay pot. The Zhuang people in Maitreya died, and the villagers knew they were dead when they heard the drums. The woman is dead, and the coffin will not be installed until all her main relatives are present. The couple will bring sacrifices, pigs and sheep. When a person dies, the coffin can only be made when his brothers and sisters arrive. Whether men or women die, coffins are made of glutinous rice flour into cows, sheep, houses and so on. For the dead? Is it useful? A dutiful son may not get a haircut or shave for 10 years. Baotou Xiaobu can only be left to his grandson to make clothes.
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