Do you believe in fate? No matter how hard you try, you can't escape fate.
This is not superstition. There is a kind of learning called metaphysics. If you can study hard, systematically explain numerology and geomantic omen. From the time people are born, many things have been doomed, whether you believe it or not! As for creating your destiny, it is in your hands. These are just inspirational chicken soup. You won't get much if you work hard. This is called fate. Believe it or not, it exists!
I believe that fate is not superstition or ignorance, but real experience.
When I lost my mother at the age of 2/kloc-0, I resigned. Why me? Why at this time?
After I graduated to work, I also believed in my own destiny. Many things are arranged in the dark. Why will it be smooth in a certain time period and worse in which time period?
Later, I met many failures and successes. I really feel that there will be fate in the dark, and it is also fate.
Of course, it's not that I don't believe that hard work can change anything, but some things are doomed and can't be changed, but this doesn't affect my hard work and my pursuit of ideals. The two do not conflict, and it will give me better values and dialectically treat some successes and failures. Win without arrogance, lose with grace.
Now in my thirties, I can see some things clearly and flatly.
Sometimes you have to have something in life, don't insist all the time.
Before the age of forty, hard work can change your destiny. After forty years old, I have arranged all my fate. Only those who work hard to succeed can change their destiny. Those who fail after trying are doomed to fail. Old people often say that this is fate, so I have always believed in fate, and everything goes with fate. As for the person who believes in trying to change his destiny, either he is still young or he has not experienced the difficulties he should have experienced. Or, he lied to achieve his own goals, such as your boss, parents who want you to make a fortune, or people who want to exploit you, and so on!
I don't believe in fate, I believe in Tao.
Everything happens for a reason. The so-called good life and bad life is actually the difference between good life and bad life.
Therefore, those who are engaged in Tao are the same as Tao; Virtue and virtue are the same; Losing is the same as losing.
Those who are the same as the Tao will be happy and get it;
Those who are of the same mind are also happy and get it;
The same is true of the loser, the loser enjoys it, and so is the winner.
Translation: those who engage in Tao are in harmony with Tao; People who engage in morality conform to morality; People who show immorality will lose everything. Tao is also willing to accept people who are the same as Tao; Germany is also willing to accept people like Germany; If his behavior is immoral, Tao will abandon him.
For example, there is a river in front of the village. It is no problem for children to swim often. Some children will drown in the water. Isn't the life of a drowned child terrible? Tao Te Ching says that water has its own characteristics. Heaven and earth are ruthless, and everything is a grass dog. The natural laws of heaven and earth do not vary from person to person. Whether adults or children, their lives are good or bad, as long as they jump into the water, they will be affected by buoyancy and gravity. No matter what happens, as long as buoyancy is less than gravity, people will sink.
In real life, the so-called bad life actually means that people don't follow the rules of Tao, their methods and mentality are wrong, and they can't get good results. The evidence of my point of view is that when you talk about fate, you are already making excuses for yourself. On the other hand, what you did at the beginning must not be the optimal solution, because you were disturbed.
We often hear that man proposes, God disposes, not that we should believe in fate, but that our cognition, pattern and ability determine to what extent we follow the rules of Tao in our life, and the outcome cannot be forced.
Effective study is the most effective way to change your destiny. How to be effective varies from person to person.
Never believe in fate, otherwise it may lead to "self-testifying prophecy" because of the "expectation effect".
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In what capacity should this explain fate? For example, as an ordinary China * * * production party party member, everything is subject to the arrangement of the organization and distribution, as long as you are conscientious and conscientiously complete your job. I don't think there is fate. I wonder if it's possible.
There are yin and yang in the world, such as life and death are inseparable, and it is fair to return to the world. The world is so big, controlled by yin and yang, ups and downs, as simple as having a fortune.
If I believe in fate, I am a housewife, living with my husband and children, or a woman living by a man.
After graduating from high school, for a good future, I joined a correspondence college class with the help of my brother. After graduation, I participated in the recruitment of administrative institutions and passed the exam to enter a public institution. In order to be competent for my work, I humbly learn and consult experienced veteran comrades. Just keep learning and making progress.
Now I am retired at home, my children are married, and my grandson is in kindergarten. Live a comfortable life alone. So I never believe in fate. My fate was changed by myself.
In this life, three points are doomed, and seven points depend on hard work. 1986, a classmate of mine, graduated from junior high school. At that time, it was in the early stage of reform and opening up, and all walks of life were in full swing. Our textile industry in Changzhou is developed, so he found a job as a mechanic in a textile factory. A few years later, I married a textile worker and had a child. Because of the good technology, I decided to start my own business. Both husband and wife resigned, took out all their savings, borrowed tens of thousands of dollars from relatives and friends, and bought several looms to do some outsourcing work. Fortunately, in the past ten years, the scale of the factory has been expanded again and again, with more than 0/00 machines and more than 200 workers, which can be said to be making money every day. I bought dozens of acres of land in the industrial park to build a new factory, and my personal assets have reached tens of millions. At this time, my classmate was less than forty years old, which was full of ambition. However, the following luck is not flattering. Due to long-term hard work, my wife's lumbar disc herniation is serious and she must have surgery. I found a famous doctor in a well-known hospital, but there were complications of nerve injury after operation. I spent a lot of money on physical therapy and rehabilitation, and my last foot was still lame. It was nothing, and there was nothing wrong with raising her. But a year later, his wife was hospitalized because of a breast lump, diagnosed with breast cancer, and had another operation. Postoperative chemotherapy cost a lot of money. My classmate was very depressed, and his child didn't want to come back after studying abroad, which completely shocked his heart. Yes, I have worked hard for more than 20 years. Although I have made some money, I have overdrawn my life and scattered my family. So I decided to give up and transfer the factory and equipment cheaply. This is 20 15. Unexpectedly, a year later, the national housing prices and land prices began to rise sharply. According to the current price, his price at that time was less than one-third of what it is now. In other words, the land bought at that time, even if nothing was done, was still a proper billionaire. So my classmate found a famous local fortune teller. After giving the birthday, the master was silent for a long time Finally, he said: although the fate of the Lord has wealth, it is difficult to accumulate wealth. And calculate the rise and fall of his life in detail. This is true everywhere and I have to admire it. Apart from the money to buy a house, the money for children to study abroad, the money for their wives to see a doctor, the money owed by the goods, and a large depreciation charge from the machinery factory, the students really don't have much money now, that is, they can provide for their old age in peace. There is a saying that "there is always a hit, and there is no need to force it if you don't hit it", which has proved to be very reasonable. A person who has passed 50 and no longer believes in life can only show that he is too immature! what do you think? Welcome to leave a message for discussion.
I don't completely believe in fate, but I believe in social science and believe that the earth is attractive! As long as one's mind is eternal and firm, learn more from others' strengths and give wise people a chance to escape their fate. If you have the ability not to struggle, not to eat, drink and be merry all your life, your life is created by yourself. Don't be too selfish as long as you have brains, wisdom and a happy life. You should be people-oriented, suffer first and then enjoy. Good intentions are rewarded, love the motherland and love the whole family, so as to be harmonious and happy!
A person's life is decided by his parents, and his luck depends on his own efforts. Anyone who doesn't believe this, he was born to delimit the court, is bound to know nothing about the way of the world, and it is even more difficult to stand in the world. If you are lying in bed, feeling depressed, waiting for a godsend opportunity and dreaming of good luck, you must put it in the grave as soon as possible!