My daughter is very particular about burning paper for the elderly.

Daughters burn paper for the elderly: married daughters can't go to the grave, and daughters are too young to go to the grave.

1. Married daughters are not allowed to enter the grave.

In Tomb-Sweeping Day, every family will go directly to the grave to pay homage to their loved ones, but if it breaks out, it is not suitable for the daughter to go back to her parents' grave. They can only pay homage to their ancestral graves at their husbands' houses. Traditionally, their daughters are married, and their parents' families are only close, but their married daughters' names and registered permanent residence have been adopted by their husbands' families, so they are there.

Daughter is too young to go to the grave.

It is the custom everywhere that daughters are too young to go to the grave. Generally speaking, a child is too young at the age of six. Children are too young to go to the grave, mainly because the yang is too weak, and the cemetery is a place with heavy yin, which makes it easy for children to see unclean things. This must be noted.

Matters needing attention in ancestor worship

1, taboo frolicking, criticizing ancestors

Tomb-Sweeping Day's grave-sweeping is a solemn matter. You should be careful what you do in front of your ancestors' tombstones, and don't make a scene. Many friends were solemn at first, but they began to fight after the sacrifice. You know, the cemetery is where ghosts sleep. Even fighting after worship will disturb ghosts, which is even more disrespectful to ancestors.

2, taboo to go to the grave to worship regardless of generation.

Worship at the grave should be carried out in turn according to the generations of the deceased, starting with the deceased with the highest generation, so as to reflect the traditional virtue of respecting the elderly and loving the young in China. After the worship, everyone can eat the sacrifices enjoyed by their ancestors.

3, taboo avoid stepping on other graves

Friends who go to graves know that some graves are very close, especially in rural areas. The order of graves is usually arranged according to the generation of the family. The boundary of each grave is not very clear, so you will encounter a problem when you go to the grave.

Many people who go to worship may accidentally step on the graves of other families, especially those who take their children to visit graves. Take good care of it to avoid "Xiong Haizi" trampling on other people's graves casually, desecrating the deceased and bringing unnecessary trouble.