Why can't you be a bridesmaid?

Most western weddings are held in sacred and serious churches. Only unmarried women can enter the church as bridesmaids, while married or divorced women can't be bridesmaids, which is unlucky for the bride. Therefore, influenced by western church weddings, there is a tradition that married women cannot be bridesmaids.

2. The influence of local customs

In local customs, a married woman as a bridesmaid is equivalent to a second marriage, which is unlucky for her marriage. Under such circumstances, it also has a bad meaning for newcomers. Therefore, in many customs, unmarried women are chosen as bridesmaids.

The bridesmaid is the next bride.

Choosing an unmarried person as a bridesmaid and best man means that the bridesmaid is the next bride and groom. In many sayings, bridesmaids are people who can touch the happiness and happiness of the bride and will become the next bride, so bridesmaids should be unmarried.

And bridesmaids are usually good friends of the bride, and the bride's bouquet will also be given to bridesmaids. It would be unreasonable if the bridesmaid who received the bouquet got married.

4. Traditional custom-consumer marriage

According to the folk saying, being a bridesmaid is equivalent to handing over your destiny to the bride and groom, so every time a bridesmaid comes, love will be less. Of course, the more times, the thinner the fate. There is also a saying that the bridesmaid is the bride's bad luck, so it is not recommended to go more than three times.

5. Realistic level-fear before marriage deepened.

According to common sense, every bridesmaid should feel the joyful atmosphere of the wedding, but we will find that every bridesmaid will find the atmosphere of many new couples strange. That's because when they get married, the couple will have a little dispute more or less. One more thing, when you contact the new couple after the bridesmaid, all you hear is the bride's complaints during the running-in period. After listening too much, you will naturally have a little fear of marriage.