In the end, what matters in life is character

"In the end, what matters in life is character"

Philosopher Zhou Guoping once said: "No matter how proud you are in fame, fortune and love, if you If your person fails, your life will fail as a whole. ”

A person can lose his face, but his character cannot be lost!

If you are a man of perfect virtue, you will gather all the blessings.

The older you get, the more you understand that life is about fighting for your character until the end.

1. Character is the best business card when making friends

Zeng Guofan said: "Choosing friends is the most important thing in life. The success or failure of your life depends on whether your friends are virtuous or not. Don't be careless!"

What is a virtuous friend? Friends with good character.

If a person does not have good character, the more capable he is, the more destructive he will be.

Tang Bohu was extremely talented and was known as the first of the four great talents in the south of the Yangtze River. However, he was depressed and impoverished all his life, all because of careless friendships.

Tang Bohu got first place in the provincial examination. He packed his bags and went to Beijing to prepare for the reference examination. His goal was not only to pass the exam, but to hit the top among scholars. Ideal, "three winning numbers in a row".

On the way to Beijing, Tang Bohu met Xu Jing, a young man from a wealthy family. He admired Tang Bohu's talent and strongly invited Tang Bohu to accompany him, promising to be responsible for Tang Bohu's expenses along the way.

Tang Bohu, who has a mentality of not taking advantage of anything, actually went to Beijing together to talk and laugh without knowing the other person.

Tang Bohu did very well in the exam, and Xu Jing also did well in the exam. The difference was that Tang Bohu relied on his ability, while Xu Jing actually bribed the exam questions through the examiner's housekeeper. .

Unfortunately, someone reported the incident.

Tang Bohu was imprisoned because he had a secret relationship with Xu Jing. Although there was no real evidence and he was acquitted, he could only be a petty official and could not be an official.

In that era when academic excellence led to officialdom, studying and becoming an official was the only right path.

Tang Bohu ruined his future and laid a big hole for half his life.

The writer Ibn Mugafa once said: "To make friends, you need to make loyal people. Just as a shrewd doctor must check the pulse and examine the root of the disease before treating a disease, so to make friends, you must also examine the other person. Otherwise, it will be dangerous. ”

Making friends before determining your character is putting yourself in unknown danger.

Tang Bohu had real talent and knowledge and should have been cautious. Unfortunately, he was not defensive.

As the saying goes: "Knowing people knows their faces but not their hearts. It is difficult to draw a dragon or a tiger."

Taking advantage , often suffer big losses.

When a person’s character goes wrong, everything starts to go wrong.

Without character, everything is "0".

Friendship begins with temperament and ends with character.

The most valuable business card a person can show is his character.

2. When working hard in your career, character is the best backer

Master Shengyan said: “Character is equal to wealth. , Dedication equals savings.”

This is true.

There is such an impressive story in the TV series "Mansion Gate".

Bai Jingqi's son Bai Jingye was in charge of the dispensing pharmacy on the counter, cutting corners on the ingredients of the prescriptions.

This matter was brought to Bai Jingqi by his subordinates.

Bai Jingqi summoned all members of the Medicine Store Chamber of Commerce and invited neighbors to destroy counterfeit medicines worth 70,000 taels of silver in public.

Bai Jingqi said a line righteously:

"We cannot make any mistakes in the medicine business, it would be a waste of human life. , the old Bai family will never sell fake medicine, and I will not sell the medicine if it is not powerful enough. Not to mention 70,000 taels, but 700,000 taels, I just burned them all, closed the business and went home to eat Wowotou. I won’t do anything wrong with my heart.”

This is a person’s confession to his conscience; this is a person’s solemn oath to his character; this is a person’s solemn oath to his character. , belief in character.

Everyone who works hard for their career should stick to the lifeline.

All the losses suffered due to one’s character will be compensated, and all the benefits gained due to one’s bad character will eventually be lost.

If you suffer a loss for a while, everyone will be willing to deal with you, and you will make money back over time; if you are greedy for advantages for a while, everyone will start to avoid you after getting to know you, and the losses will be lost over time. Coming.

Bai Jingqi burned the medicine that could still be sold. He lost money in front of him, but he won the integrity of the Bai family pharmacy and credibility for himself.

It laid a solid foundation for the development and growth of the subsequent business.

Xu Shichang once said: "Every achievement is based on moral character."

Character is as important as a mountain. Conscience is more valuable than gold.

The bottom line cannot be crossed and the character cannot be lost.

What kind of character you are determines what height your life can reach.

When working hard in your career, character is the best backer.

3. To keep love fresh, character is the best capital

Whether in love or marriage, I would rather trust people Good quality, don't believe in your oath.

In "Knowledge", Sheng Minglan said: "Standing up with others ultimately relies on the lowest level of character."

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In emotional interactions, character is not an option, but a must; character is not an add-on, but a necessity.

Relationships with people of bad character can be fatal.

In order to fight for property, Xu Moumou from Hangzhou killed his wife, whom he had slept with for more than ten years and had a daughter, with premeditation and cruel means of dismemberment. .

No coincidence.

A man named Hong from Nanjing lured his girlfriend Yueyue, whom he had been with for more than two years, to the border of Yunnan, killed her and buried her body in the forest.

What is even more shocking is that these two men actually pretended to call the police as if nothing had happened. There is still human compassion and kindness, and their character is completely negative.

The difference between humans and demons is: those who have character are humans, and those who have no character are demons.

Someone once said: "Short-term relationships depend on faces, long-term relationships depend on temperament, and lifelong relationships depend on character."

A mother asked her daughter: "When you get married, if the other person only has one thing, what do you want him to have?"

The daughter said: "Character."

The mother smiled and said: "Then I'm relieved. With it, you can still smile even if you endure hardships.

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I read a short story: a girl and a man got married.

The girl’s taste is light, and the man’s taste is light. The girl often went to her parents' house to have a meal. One day, the food cooked by her father was too salty, and her mother brought a glass of water without saying a word. Take a chopstick and dip the dish in the water before eating it.

Suddenly, the girl realized something from her mother's subtle movements. The next day, the girl made it at home. My husband's favorite dish.

Of course, there is chili in every dish, but there is an extra glass of water in front of her.

The man watched her eating the vegetables swimming in the water with relish, and his eyes were slightly moist.

After that, her husband also rushed to cook, but There was no more chili in the dish.

There was just a plate of hot sauce in front of him. The dish was dipped in the hot sauce, and he was satisfied with every bite. < /p>

Small things reveal the heart, details reveal the character.

A person’s consideration is not only his education, but also his character. < /p>

In addition to having a house and a car, the most important thing for a long-term and stable relationship is good character.

There is a saying that I like very much: “Getting to know a person starts with his appearance, his talent, his personality, and his loyalty to his character. ”

The most bragging capital of a relationship is the other person’s character.

Character is Love can last for a long time.

4. In the end, what matters in life is character.

Greek poet Mi Nan De said: “People with good character have their own light and will always shine no matter where they go. ”

The best Feng Shui for a person is his character.

Character is the foundation of being a human being. Education is more important than ability.

Character is reflected in the details of life. Here are three ways to show character.

On the highway, there was a large truck in front, and the front of the truck kept leaning towards the ravine on the roadside.

The car behind realized something was wrong and blew its horn frantically to warn the car in front.

Finally, the car in front corrected itself. /p>

A whistle can save lives and save several families from grief.

Liu Bei said: " Do not do evil because it is small, and do not do good because it is small. "

Character is hidden in the kindness of those who work hard.

Do more good things, and your character will show itself.

2. Be kind to others

An old man was so frightened that his tricycle scratched a luxury car parked on the side of the road.

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A man came and asked him: "Can you afford the compensation? "

The old man replied: "I can't afford to pay. "

The man said: "I can't afford the compensation, so why don't I leave quickly. "

The old man hesitated, and finally turned around and walked away.

After the old man left, the man took out his car. The key and drove the car away

"New Book" says: "Those who love going out love to return, and those who go have good luck come back."

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Treat others well and you will eventually be treated well by others.

3. Be grateful

In order to survive, Grandma Liu went to Jia's house for help.

Wang Xifeng treated Grandma Liu as a servant and gave away 20 taels of silver at will. >

When Jia's house was confiscated, Wang Xifeng was imprisoned

Grandma Liu sold her few possessions and was rescued. The daughter of Wang Xifeng who was sold into Fireworks Liuxiang

Grandma Liu is a simple, truthful, kind-hearted old woman who repays every drop of kindness.

"The Book of Songs" says: "Give me peaches, and give me Qiong Yao in return. "

Grandma Liu was not born into a noble family, but her moral character is noble.

She represents the idea of ​​repaying kindness in traditional Chinese culture , kind and simple character.

What kind of life a person can have and what height he can reach depends on his own character. /p>

Character is the North Star of life. If you have a direction in your eyes, your heart will not panic, and you will be able to walk a steady path in life.

Character. , can support the whole life.

May your character be like jade, may all the people you meet be kind, and may you be treated with kindness.