Fei chang, the "scavenger mother", raised more than 3 abandoned babies in her life, but when the children grew up, she was chilling.
Text/Month Mother's Parenting Notes
"The grace of dripping water should be rewarded with a spring".
There is such a child who was abandoned by his parents on the side of the road and didn't know his birthday or where his family was. This is a healthy child, not "disabled", but his cruel parents abandoned him cruelly.
It's fate. This girl was adopted by a mother named Wu and named fei chang. I thought everything was a good start, but I didn't expect that when fei chang was 8 years old, Wu's mother was seriously ill, because there was no cure, and she finally died with regret. Since then, she has become a wandering child in fei chang, and she relies on scavenging for a living.
It was bumpy and bitter all the way, and suddenly I was 23 years old in the wind and rain. I didn't learn knowledge and culture. Only living was my only need, and I struggled with my fate alone.
While picking up rubbish, fei chang happened to find an abandoned baby. Because his life experience was the same as that of the little abandoned baby, he was moved by compassion, but at the thought of solving his own food and clothing problems, he had no money to support the child and left.
in the afternoon, when I thought that my mother Wu had taken herself home without hesitation when she found herself abandoned, and treated her like her own daughter, I decided to go back and bring the abandoned baby back for raising. When I got back, I found that the child had no breath.
From then on, fei chang will pick up abandoned babies and take them home. No matter whether they have financial ability or not, they can at least give their children life. It has been more than 4 years since they adopted abandoned babies, and fei chang has changed from a little girl in her twenties to an aunt in her sixties. She has never been married for abandoned babies.
With the popularity of fei chang, many social non-profit organizations have joined the ranks. Some of the abandoned babies with congenital diseases have also been treated by hospitals. With the help of charities, the children's operations have been successful.
In a blink of an eye, most of the abandoned babies adopted by fei chang have entered middle age. When they grow up, they leave fei chang, and they usually have no contact with fei chang. Occasionally, they call because they are short of money or need any help. This result also makes fei chang very chilling.
Even so, fei chang feels that he has a clear conscience. Just do his own thing, and his wish to raise them has been fulfilled. He also hopes that the children will have a better life.
Many people will feel aggrieved for fei chang. They think that fei chang is pitiful, and he has raised a lot of kindness. Not only will he not repay the kindness, but he will even continue to search for the old man. It is sad that the child does not know how to be grateful. In the eyes of others, he is also a person who will not be entrusted, which will also affect his future development.
1. Life is not satisfactory
Most of the children adopted in fei chang are physically disabled or defective, and they will find it difficult to stand on their own feet when they grow up. As far as knowledge is concerned, only one of these abandoned children has reached the junior college level, and the rest are technical secondary schools, so they are also making a living in society and have not made great achievements.
2. The child was abducted
In his early years, Zhang Fei had no fixed address and no fixed living environment. After being abducted by others, his children would leave with others, and some even refused to come back.
3. Contact is only for money
Some abandoned babies, seeing fei chang's growing influence in society and more and more people donating money, will call fei chang for money and ask fei chang to pay for their car.
No matter what kind of reason, it won't be an excuse for not being grateful. As a person who truly stands between heaven and earth, he must know how to be grateful, especially when his children are young, so that they can know the importance of knowing how to be grateful, and when they step into society in the future, they will not cause harm to others because of their lack of personality.
1. Start with the little things in life
When children are sensible, they should cultivate the quality of being grateful. In daily life, parents should teach their children to express their gratitude when accepting alms from others and express their gratitude to those who help them in time.
2. Let the children suffer appropriately
Because of their young age, children will not understand the hard work of their parents. In the process of their growth, it is necessary to let the children suffer appropriately, and the children will understand the sadness and hardship of their parents and be grateful for their parents' giving.