As the saying goes, "people have four inexhaustible things, and their reputation is broken." What does this mean? I hope you understand.

Born in the world, we all want to be perfect. However, I haven't done anything perfect after looking for it all my life. How can life be satisfactory? Everything is only half satisfied, which has become the mentality of many people.

There is an old saying: "When the water is full, it will overflow, and when the moon is full, it will be lost." . The extremes of things must be reversed, and the extremes of things must be reversed. "It is said that everything should be measured, otherwise it will do the opposite.

Just like in the twenty-four solar terms, there is a great heat after a slight heat, a heavy snow after a light snow, a great cold after a slight cold, and no fullness after a small one.

If a thing reaches its peak, it will go downhill next, so the ancients have the saying that "people have four inexhaustible things, and people die for money." Do you know what this means?

Don't do everything. Be a man and leave a message. We can meet again later. As the saying goes, "thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi", you can't do everything yourself in life, otherwise you will dig your own grave.

We often say, "Be a man. See you later." In fact, whether it is a good thing or a bad thing, don't go too far, and learn to leave room for yourself.

Just like those colleagues who have been hacked, when they need relevant resources when looking for a job or doing a project, they didn't expect the people who were hacked before to help you in the future, which is tantamount to cutting their own path.

Maybe today you are his boss and tomorrow he will be your leader. Therefore, truly smart people know that they are not omnipotent.

Words are endless, illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth. There is a saying in "Augmented Xianwen": "Say a few words to everyone, but you can't throw them all in my heart." Don't talk too much, it's a respect for others and a room for yourself.

As the saying goes, "illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth." When we are talking to others, what we say may have no other meaning, but in the listener's view, it will inevitably not cause disaster.

Many times, if one's unintentional words are heard by people who are interested, others will interpret them with embellishment and bring trouble to oneself.

Therefore, when talking with others, we'd better be "unspeakable", which can protect ourselves and make the conversation harmonious.

Tides rise and fall, low water becomes the sea, and low people become kings. As the saying goes, "the wood in the forest is beautiful in the forest, and the wind will destroy it." Since ancient times, the world has warned us to avoid being too ostentatious. After all, it is easy to become a target of public criticism.

Especially when you are in power, don't be arrogant and show off, otherwise it will easily lead to extremes meet, and eventually end up in a very bad situation.

Like Nian Gengyao, a minister in Yongzheng period, he made a lot of contributions to the imperial court in the early stage, so he had great power. However, in the later period, Nian Gengyao was arrogant, and finally he was deprived of all his official titles by Yongzheng, giving him suicide.

Everything should go with the trend, irreversible, and those who go against the trend will fail, so modesty and low-key are the top priority.

You can't enjoy all the blessings, you can rely on them, and you can't wait for them. People can't live without the word "happiness", and many people seek happiness all their lives. However, when they are blessed, there is no blessing if they are overused.

As the saying goes, "misfortune comes from the mouth, and happiness comes from the mouth." This sentence means that happiness and misfortune are interdependent. If you are blessed, it will be a disaster, and when it comes to disaster, it will be a blessing.

Therefore, no matter when and where you live, you should keep in mind the truth of Xiu De, accumulate blessings and cherish them. Starting from the three aspects of "body, mouth and heart", the road of life will surely get better and better.

Zeng Guofan, an important official in the late Qing Dynasty, also said: "We are blessed when the flowers are not fully open and the moon is not full." This is one of the secrets of the prosperity of the Zeng family.

Generally speaking, the phrase "four inexhaustible" summed up by our ancestors is a great wisdom for a person and should be paid attention to by every younger generation.

There are only two things in a person's life. One thing is to do well, and the other thing is to do well. As long as you can achieve "four inexhaustible", you can spend the rest of your life with peace of mind. It is really happy to have the world.

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