An aphorism about impetuousness.
Although some people are not around, they just smile when they think about it. In fact, you know, no one will be killed at this age. Don't indulge in fickle emotions without the ability to clean up the mess. Touching can't replace feelings, and nostalgia can't go back. What time steals is always a treasure that you can't see under your nose. Don't always compromise yourself by accommodating others. May all your smiles come from the heart, warm and lasting. There is always a name that will make your mouth turn up first and your eyes will cry. After a long time, I hope you are all right.
If no one loves me, I will die. If I die, someone else will kill me. -Teng Ping's fickleness
How many years can we know each other?
Acquaintance 1 year is reputation. Knowing each other for two years is a feeling. Knowing each other for three years is trust. Knowing each other for five years is a kind of responsibility. I have known each other for 6 years, which is very valuable. People who still know each other ten years later should come into life. It's your acquired family, and you'll never leave for twenty years. In this fickle era, pay more attention to friends around you, understand more, calculate less, and don't forget people who are kind to you. To friends, brothers and sisters, they will never leave us! The longest is obsession, and the shortest is fickle.
Don't say that time is too thin, don't say that people are fickle, and all roads will be the last scenery at the end-drizzle mumbling "drizzle mumbling Garland LinYu"
Vagrant prostitutes smoke and escape from prison. The prisoner said that the little brother who delivered the newspaper tomorrow squinted at the girl playing on the swing at the corner of the alley, and the elderly mother-in-law could not see or hear the snoring in her ears. You told me that time is too fickle, and I said to accompany you to the old age.
Those so-called,
Long-term, unchanging, eternal and sincere love will become a short-lived, fickle, temporary and hypocritical love wound. People are fickle, and many instantaneous ideas can change all the tracks. -Wang Luqi's time will never end.
Today is not what it used to be, and people are fickle. Remember that.
People are fickle after all, otherwise, why do many things that used to feel a little silly now feel incredibly romantic in retrospect?
I never believe what you say again and again. After all, we are all so fickle, and what we want to do and have may not matter in the next moment.
There are three thousand things in the world, so smile indifferently. An elegant life is light and tasteful. Our life is like a column of incense, the past is gone, happiness or pain, like incense ashes burning to the end, will eventually fall. Life is impermanent and people's hearts are fickle. Why bother with those grievances? Looking down, there is no right or wrong; Put it down, and that's it. Facing all kinds of situations in life, it is an elegance of life to laugh it off.
Stop complaining that people around you are fickle.
Know more, understand more. After all, people live more realistically.
1. This world is very powerful, and it will give everyone suffering and experience and so on. Each of us is stronger than we thought. Will is indeed an indispensable force in life.
When you meet the right person, you can integrate into life, no matter how simple or complicated, don't hesitate. If you hesitate, he or she may become her or his person.
You are my warm gloves, cold beer, sunny shirt, and my dream day after day.
4. For me, love is not close to the skin, not a dish and a meal. It is an immortal desire and a heroic dream in a decadent life.
Life can be wandering and lonely, but the soul must have a refuge.
6. Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future.
7. Men are always seduced, seduced and seduced by women other than their own. A woman always forgives, forgives and then forgives the man she loves.
8. Once suspicion enters through the front door, love will slip away through the back door.
9. Have you ever loved someone far away? He never lets you despair, which is your courage and strength to continue living. He will always be young, beautiful and radiant, and he will always be there, just like faith.
10, some people have no scenery in their lives because they only flow in the most convenient water pipes built by others. Ignore those water pipes, really flow through one landscape after another, and you become a river.
1 1, eating ice cream in winter is very masochistic, especially standing in the street wearing a bloated coat to eat ice cream, but you will miss the person who is masochistic with you.
12, he has thousands of advantages, but he doesn't love you, which is a shortcoming that you can never convince yourself to accept.
13, if you want to be loved by others, you must first make yourself worthy of love, not for a day or a week, but forever.
14, I have no complaints about this world, it owes me nothing, and even let me meet you.
15, it is better to be hurt by the truth than comforted by lies.
16, I have no complaints about this world, it owes me nothing, and even let me meet you.
17, there is only one way in the world, and no one can go except you. Where does it lead? Stop asking. Let's go.
18, although we live in loneliness, in the vast universe, there must always be one person who can understand his own language, and one is enough.
19, promise not to be credulous, so the old man will live up to me. The promise is not light, so I will live up to it.
20, long but persistent, short but fickle.
Bian Xiao: A clear conscience is the most comfortable pillow in life. Bian Xiao: She just wants a hug, but you are always reasonable. Bian Xiao: May the time pass slowly, and may old friends be together forever. It's not time, but the impetuousness of people's hearts.
1, the best friend, usually teasing each other, is the most ruthless one, but when you need it, it is the softest one.
2. In fact, there are not so many ifs in this world. Sometimes, what we lose in an instant is eternity.
3. Sometimes it's not that I don't trust you, but that I care more than others and am more afraid of losing you.
4. A friend is not the first person to come, nor the person who has known him for the longest time, but the person who has never left since he came.
You never know how strong you are, until one day you have no choice but to be strong.
6. For life, acceptance is the best gentleness, whether it is accepting a person's appearance or accepting a person's disappearance.
7. If you can't be together, don't give each other any hopes and hints. This is the greatest responsibility; Separated, not to disturb each other's safe life, this is the last gentleness.
8. If you think too little, you may lose your dignity; if you think too much, you may lose your happiness.
9. I think there are always some reasons why people are separated, but some people, you have to wait.
10 In fact, you will never meet a few people who are really nice to you in your life.
1 1, people actually don't need too many things, as long as they live healthily and love sincerely, they can still be regarded as a kind of wealth.
12, work hard, don't want to, can't get, don't, work hard for yourself, why?
13, clear-headed, keep your ambition, you will certainly achieve the ultimate goal, such as grinding the mirror to remove dirt, keeping it clear, and it is doomed.
14, some things are not concerned, but concerned.
15, sometimes, you choose to let go, not because you can't persist, but because you find that some things are doomed to be impossible.
16. A good life means not dreaming, doing more, wanting nothing, smiling often and being content.
17. When you can't hold on, you can say "I'm so tired" to yourself, but never admit "I can't" in your heart.
18, there is no absolute fairness in life, but there is also relative fairness. On the scale, the more you get, the more you have to bear than others.
19, it is yours, it is yours. We have worked hard, cherished and have a clear conscience. Leave the rest to fate.
20. Stranger-close lover-passerby, this is the magic of love. Those who made vows yesterday have become dispensable today. Love is so fickle. Many breakups are caught off guard, and they haven't seen each other before they have time to say goodbye. Ruthless is not time, but the impetuousness of people's hearts.
Educational Motto _ Motto about Education
Educational motto _ motto about education _ 1. Human beings gain independence through hard work. Independence means being able to do something without the help of others. Once children gain independence, they can make rapid progress. Otherwise, its progress will be very slow. Understand these truths, we will understand how to treat and manage children effectively, and children's own behavior can lead them to the road of independence. (Montessori: absorption psychology, Montessori's scientific method of early childhood education, People's Education Press, 1993, p. 462)
2, an important thing for children to do alone, so when children are learning to watch and listen, and after a long time, let children do it alone. (Hall: Children's Psychological Development, quoted from The Origin and Development of Modern Education, Beijing Language and Culture Institute Press, 1992, p. 225)
3. When influencing children, try not to dampen their initiative; On the contrary, we should do everything possible to develop this initiative and consolidate the learning methods that children master spontaneously. (Crusca Ya: The 17th National Congress of the Communist Party of China and the Task of Preschool Education, Selected Works of Crusca Ya Education, Volume 2, People's Education Press, 1987, p. 300).
4. Positive encouragement is better than negative stimulation, but the method of encouragement should not be overused for fear of losing its effectiveness; Stimulation, if used properly, is also good, but only occasionally. (Chen Heqin: Family Education, Collected Works of Chen Heqin's Education, vol. 1, Beijing Publishing House, 1985, p. 6 13).
5. For the completion of adult life, it is a suicide policy regardless of children's abilities and needs. Respecting childhood means respecting the needs and opportunities for growth. (Dewey: Tomorrow School, Dewey's masterpiece of education, Education Science Press, 2006, pp. 105 ~ 106)
6. The criterion for judging interest is always whether children can grow up effectively. It is indulgence to practice an interest without helping growth. In order to be most conducive to growth, three conditions should be met: lasting interest; Environmental challenges that need to mobilize the best internal efforts; The ultimate success. (Ke Qubo: Principles of Teaching Methods, People's Education Press, 199 1 Edition, p. 136)
7. We should free children's space, let them get in touch with flowers, trees, green mountains, green water, the sun, the moon and stars in nature, and scholars, farmers, (com) workers and businessmen in the big society, freely ask questions about the universe, be friends with everything, and learn 360 lines at home and abroad. (Tao Xingzhi: Creative Children's Education, Selected Works of Tao Xingzhi's Education, Education Science Press, 198 1 Edition, p. 308)
8. Experience tells us that spoiled children die much more than other children. As long as we don't make them do things beyond their ability, the harm of using their physical strength is less than cherishing their physical strength. Therefore, exercise their physique so that they can endure cruel seasons, climate, wind and rain, hunger and fatigue (Rousseau: Emile, Commercial Press, 1978, pp. 23-24).
9. Some people are too strict, while others are too laissez-faire. These two situations should also be avoided. If children are left alone, their health and life will be in danger and they will suffer a lot in front of them; However, if you care too much and don't let them suffer at all, they will suffer more in the future. (Rousseau: Emile, Commercial Press, 1978, p. 85)
10, knowledge is as pleasant to the reader as light is to the eyes; Children like knowledge very much, especially when they know that their problems have been noticed by others, and their desire for knowledge has been encouraged and praised by others. (Locke: Random Talk on Education, Education Science Press, 1999, p. 102)
1 1. Like other creatures, children are good at activities that really belong to their nature. Therefore, we should act according to the laws of nature, eliminate excessive fatigue at school and make learning as free and enjoyable as possible. Erasmus: The Education of a Christian Prince, quoted from The Origin and Development of Modern Education, Beijing Language Institute Press, 1992, p. 45.
12, children can be respected. He often thinks about the state above the moon and stars, the underground situation, the use of flowers and the language of insects. He wants to fly to the sky, and he wants to dive into the ant nest, so books for children must be very hard and difficult to do. (Lu Xun: Reading pictures, quoted from Lu Xun's Educational Thought and Practice, People's Education Press, 200 1 Edition, page 4 15)
13, the world of children is completely different from that of adults; If you don't understand it first and do it blindly, it will seriously affect your child's development. (Lu Xun: how do we become fathers now, quoted from Lu Xun's educational thought and practice, People's Education Press, 200 1 edition, p. 273)
14, learning is active, which includes the positive development of psychology. It includes the assimilation of organisms starting from the inside of the mind. It is no exaggeration to say that we must stand in the position of children and take children as the starting point. (Dewey: Children and Curriculum, Dewey's masterpiece of education, Education Science Press, 2006, p. 67)
15, nature wants children to look like children before adulthood. If we disturb this order, we will produce some precocious fruits, which are not full and sweet, and will soon rot: we will produce some young doctors and aging children. Children have their own unique views, ideas and feelings; If we want to replace their views, thoughts and feelings with ours, it is simply the stupidest thing (Rousseau: Emile, Commercial Press, 1978, p. 9 1).
16. In the initial externalization of children's abilities, there is a desire to imitate. The first time you learn to talk, complain and imitate singing is based on this desire to imitate. Children's desire to imitate is innate and cannot be ignored. This kind of imitation desire, like other talents, also has the ability to develop. (Pestalozzi: Letter from Mother and Child to Graf, Selected Works of Pestalozzi, Volume II, Education Science Press, 1996, p. 27 1).
17. To explore children's psychological education, we must start with exploring children's psychological energy, interests and habits. Every aspect of it must be mastered according to these considerations. (Dewey: My creed of education, Dewey's masterpiece of education, Education Science Press, 2006, p. 3)
18. Children are a mystery. The materialized child is a spiritual embryo, and he needs his own special environment. Just as a physical embryo needs its mother's uterus to develop there, a spiritual embryo needs to develop in a warm and nutritious environment full of love, where nothing will harm it. (Montessori: The Secret of Childhood, Jinghua Press, 2002, pp. 39-40)
19, people have a tendency or need to grow in a certain direction, which can generally be summarized as self-realization or healthy psychological growth. (Maslow: Exploration of Existentialist Psychology, Yunnan People's Publishing House, 1987, p. 139)
20. Children have all the qualifications of human nature, but they have not yet developed. Just like an unopened bud, once the bud blooms, all the petals will stretch out, and so will human education. We must carefully observe people's natural conditions, and only by mobilizing these natural conditions can we ensure success. (Pestalozzi: Letter from Mother and Child to Graf, Selected Works of Pestalozzi, Volume II, Education Science Press, 1996, p. 232)
2 1. In our efforts to cultivate children, outward action is a means to stimulate their inner spiritual development, which will be manifested through outward action. These two factors promote each other and develop together. Work makes children's minds develop, and the full development of their minds will make them work better; The progress of work makes children feel happy again, so their minds have been further developed. (Montessori: Montessori method, Montessori scientific method of early childhood education, People's Education Press, 1993, p. 297)
22. When we study children's psychology and learning psychology, we should analyze them from social contradictions. The restriction of educational efficiency and development can not be simply solved from education itself, but should be solved scientifically. Its solution should be coordinated with the whole social system problem. The focus of our research is not abstract children, but children under a certain social system. (Xu Teli: Lectures on Education, Collected Works of Xu Teli's Education, People's Education Press, 1986, p. 202)
23. Generally speaking, children are playful; 2 curious; ③ gregarious; 4 easy to imitate; (5) like outdoor life; 6 like success; ⑦ likes others to praise him. When we teach children, we must first understand their psychology. If we can educate children according to their psychology, it will have a good effect. (Chen Heqin: Family Education, Collected Works of Chen Heqin's Education, vol. 1, Beijing Publishing House, 1985, pp. 60 1).
24. Knowledge is inappropriate if it doesn't conform to the mind of this child or that child. Because the human heart is as different as plants, trees or animals; This thing must be handled this way, and that thing must be handled that way. The same method cannot be applied to all people. (Comenius: On Great Teaching, People's Education Press, 1984, p. 153)
25. precocious intelligence rarely bears good fruit. The so-called precocity means that some students are driven by impudence at the beginning of their studies, conceited and eager to express themselves. But what they use to show their skills is just a small thing they have just learned. There is no deep-rooted and solid internal force here. They are like seeds that germinate on the surface of the land before they are mature, and like weeds that are not rice. Before the harvest season comes, they have already become yellow and empty. (quintilian: Principles of Eloquence, Selected Works of quintilian Education, People's Education Press, 1989, p. 26).
26. Nature is often stable and unexposed, and sometimes it can be suppressed. The nature that an individual can rarely be completely extinguished is not to grow into herbs, but to grow into weeds, so he should irrigate the former in time and eliminate the smelters. (Bacon: Essays of Bacon, Commercial Press, 1963, p. 143)
27. Developing Children's Personality Our duty is to develop each student's personality in an all-round way, discover his talent, and form a talent for artistic creation, so that he can enjoy a full spiritual life in many ways. (Suhomlinski: Suggestions for Teachers, Education Science Press, 198 1 Edition, p. 120)
28. The highest goal of education is to stimulate initiative and cultivate independence. Broadly speaking, this is the ultimate goal of all education. (Stilwell: A Guide to Teacher Training in Germany, People's Education Press, 1990, p. 85).
29. Teachers should go with the flow, do their best and continue their studies. (Wang Fuzhi: Four Books Meaning, Volume 10)
30. The principle of conforming to nature is the highest principle of all education. In education, we are dealing with people, which is a problem of educating people. So I say for sure: in human education, generally speaking, everything depends on not violating human nature; Personally, everything should be adapted to everyone's individual characteristics. (Stowe: Selected Works of Stowe's Education, Russian version 1956, page 22 1)