It is not women, but men who decide the feng shui of this home.

Everyone says that a woman determines the success or failure of a family and its feng shui. I never believed it. I didn’t realize this deeply until recently.

My husband and I are in a cold war, not talking or communicating.

I refuse to have anything to do with my daughter’s eating, drinking, and diarrhea, except for breakfast. I no longer have much communication with her. She can do whatever she wants. I don’t care if she doesn’t wash her hair, eat or change her clothes.

It doesn’t matter if you study, just study, if you don’t study, you will get lost.

My daughter knew I was angry and tried to persuade me not to be angry again, but I didn’t respond.

The atmosphere at home was much quieter, with no cheers or laughter. Others say that a woman determines the atmosphere of a family. This makes sense. In fact, not only the atmosphere, this woman also determines the future of this family! At least that's the case in this home.

But I want to ask who caused me to be like this? There is no hate without reason, and there is no love without reason.

Because in this kind of atmosphere for a long time, children’s psychology will definitely be affected, and they will either not be good at communication, or their hearts will be distorted. And couples must be constantly at war and quarreling. The hostess who has been in this kind of environment for a long time will definitely be exhausted, irritable and sensitive.

It is said that the whole family has become a person with psychological problems, and the mentality determines the fate. The children cannot concentrate on studying and the husband cannot concentrate on work. With this kind of mentality, a woman will not work very well either. How dare we have too many extravagant hopes for the future.

At this point, the future of this home has been finalized!

I have verified this sentence with my own personal experience, so as a woman, I don’t want to become that person, I started to try to let go, even though I was forced to try to let go. I'm trying to debug myself, but it's really limited.

Because I don’t know how to treat my child. I want her to control her own time, get up at a certain time, and learn on her own initiative. Cook by yourself when you are hungry, drink by yourself when you are thirsty, and add clothes by yourself when you are cold.

Because I am wondering if the child’s various difficulties are because I take care of too much and do too many things for her. So she didn't know what to do or what not to do, and she had no sense of urgency. So I don't care about her anymore and let's see how far she can go!

As for my husband, I had some trouble with him because of family matters. Many times I prefer to stay alone, handle my own affairs, and ignore him. For me, it feels like a relief not to be together.

Because I don’t agree with many of my husband’s views, it seems that apart from the one dinner we nominally cook for me every day (as if he doesn’t eat it himself and cooks it specifically for me), we also There is no connection anymore. Now he doesn't have to cook the dinner, he just cooks it for me.

It looks like we are strangers living in the same house. I can't feel the warmth and happiness of family. I also don’t feel the courage to solve my wife’s problems. How to make a woman happy? How do you have time to take care of others?

As for sir, I think this is the case for now!

If the feng shui of this home is in my hands, then it would not be a bad thing to let the feng shui take turns from time to time.

Women control Feng Shui, but men control women. Whether a woman is happy or not depends on the man in the family.

So I want to say that it is not the woman who determines the feng shui of this home, but the man!