Zi Xuan Jr. told Fortune.
How to treat people who often swear? Some people always feel that they will die if they say two dirty words.
Actually, it is the embodiment of education and quality.
How to treat swearing is like honking a horn in a car, which can be used to express different emotions. Such as angry, depressed, happy, surprised, etc.
It is found that the average frequency of swearing accounts for 0.3-0.7%, which is a very small but not negligible component in our speech. Swearing is more common than you think, from the top to the top.
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After that, I couldn't help cursing angrily, "your grandfather's!" "
What are the benefits of swearing? Why can't you help cursing?
First of all, swearing is a substitute for physical violence
Swearing can exercise violence and achieve goals on the symbolic level, and avoid breaking the rules that hurt people-this is a win-win strategy. This is often a kind of venting, which can help us to vent those repressed anger or depressed emotions and let them express themselves.
Reinhold Aman, an American psychologist, once described the venting mechanism of curses as follows: "Once people fly into a rage, they will become excited. Swearing and insulting gestures can ease people's excitement. " Mouth-to-mouth fighting will reduce people's aggression-swearing people will use foul language as a weapon, and the scolded people will become discouraged under verbal intimidation, so physical conflicts can be avoided.
Second, swearing can shorten the distance-we are a group.
Between friends or teams, "swearing is allowed" can be used as a bond to enhance feelings and make members feel that "we are a team". Or, you can call it a "social curse".
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Some teachers and students talk about international relations. They can discuss "Poetry is the soul of a nation" with the literature department, chat with military instructors and say one or two words "Fuck!" Let the tutor sit up and take him as a fellow villager.
Most men are no strangers to this social way, especially in bars, changing rooms or sports fields. Here, swearing is the lubricant of the relationship between men.
This lubricant will get unexpected results because it breaks down the barriers between people. No matter what status or position, when swearing, everyone is the same, and they are all people with basic biological characteristics.
Our publicity campaign proves that swearing can also bring countries closer together. Their slogan is: "Where is * * *?" Where the hell are you? The moral is to make people act quickly and travel to Australia.
Third, swearing is a painkiller.
Richard Stephens once did a survey, and they tested the endurance time of participants when they put their hands in ice water. In one experiment, participants can choose a dirty word and say it repeatedly; In another experiment, the same participants were asked not to curse loudly. It was found that when swearing loudly, the participants' heart rate increased and they endured ice water for a relatively long time (about one minute to one and a half minutes).
However, although this method of using swearing to relieve pain is attractive, if it is used repeatedly, the effect will be weakened: those who swear the least will get the most "swearing benefits". Please adopt
How to treat people who swear? God help me. I hate swearing, too, but we can't stop people from swearing. Some people are really incompetent and straightforward. I don't like talking to people who swear.
What do men think of women who love swearing? I have had several love experiences, but they all ended in failure. The reason is a bit special, all because I love swearing. In fact, I am not dirty at heart, and my character is not rude. I also received higher education. Just because I played with a group of boys when I was a child, I thought it was fun and deliberately imitated them to swear. As a result, my habit became natural. Now I want to change it. I don't understand: why do people take it for granted that men swear and women swear must be considered inferior? "Men and women are different because society has different expectations for them. This girl is treated differently by people around her because people in society will think that you have done a man's thing. Indeed, it is not a disadvantage for men to curse. On the contrary, rude men are more attractive and can add points to their sexiness and charm. However, women who love swearing are often synonymous with men and women. Just imagine, how can a man not be afraid of a woman who makes a terrible noise and dares to scold anything? A woman who loves to swear easily makes men feel inferior and timid. No matter how the world changes, men and women cannot change their nature. Women always want men to be more like men, and men always want women to be more like women. If this girl's marriage and love often go wrong, it means at least one problem: you are really becoming less and less like a woman! Men like a woman who quarrels occasionally and curses occasionally. This is a straightforward and lovely little woman. But it's hard for a man to fall in love with a woman who curses every day. Even if your face is as beautiful as Hepburn, it is enough to make the whole world sigh that Meiyu is flawed. It is a fact that elegant women are often more popular than beautiful women!
Does your boyfriend often swear? Hello, I'm a man. Personally, there are very few people who don't swear, at least in our area.
How to treat some people who speak with constellations? Some people are empty inside. Although they are always strong outside, they really don't know what they really want. This is why there are religions and presidents, because 80% of people have no judgment ability and can only follow what they think is good. They think this is the truth, which is the basis of judgment. In fact, those constellations, fortune-telling and sects are just a kind of belief. You can't refer to everything, but many people can't understand this and just follow blindly. This is just a phenomenon that most human beings look at from all angles. People whose hearts are not full will find a spiritual sustenance to seek comfort.