What do you think about the truth behind the "Shanghai Socialite Group"? Is it vanity, or does it have other purposes?
#上海celebritygroup# is a topic that is at the top of the hot search list, causing strong reactions from netizens one after another. What kind of celebrity group is this? This is really like a communication group for Pinduoduo platform fans and customers. To put it more advanced, it is a Pinduoduo platform VIP communication group.
The girls in the group work together to build a Bulgari hotel, GUICCI stockings, and Hermès bags. Even having an afternoon tea requires several people to work together. Many netizens were shocked, and some were dismissive. They felt that these "Shanghai socialites" were vain. In order to achieve their own vanity, they did such unexpected things. In order to blend into the so-called upper class society, they use these false things to package themselves, hide celebrities, and enhance the high-end atmosphere of WeChat friends. As time goes by, they themselves feel that it is true
It is not shameful to love vanity, but if they are driven by vanity, they will waste things that they cannot afford, or even waste them in order to have them. Alas, this shouldn’t be the case anymore. Vanity is nothing to be afraid of, but what is terrible is that it is only superficial. Because no matter how well packaged it is, if the inside is empty, sooner or later it will be punctured.
Perhaps if you wear too many masks, you may even believe it in the end. Otherwise, how could they have the confidence to openly laugh at men who drive BMW and Mercedes-Benz cars in the group? Behind "fake celebrities" and "fake sophistication" is endless vanity.
Some people think that this kind of values and behavior methods are very undesirable, but some people think that, for There is nothing wrong with joining a group for "high-quality life", but it is just a dream to spend a few hundred yuan. Who has the qualifications to make fun of other people's dreams? As Qian Zhongshu said in "The Besieged City": People not only imagine that the red grapes that cannot be harvested are sour, but also probably imagine that they are extremely sweet.
If you are allowed to say grapes are sour because you cannot eat red grapes, how can you not allow others to long for sweet grapes? Today, Jia Jia, a girl in the Shanghai socialite group, also replied that her salary is not high. She rents clothes, cooks her own meals, and uses Taobao's special edition to buy eight items for one yuan and post them on Moments. However, At the same time, I also look forward to a prosperous life, so I choose to order together. Jiajia felt that her behavior was "very normal" and she was "very calm".
Is Vanity Bar wrong? I dare not say. If we include Vainglory Bar in Dark Souls 2, who can dare to say that we are innocent? Several psychological trends of pretending:
First, to achieve their own vanity, some people even buy fake brands to package themselves. This is the lowest level of pretender, and some are just like this. The so-called celebrities join groups to buy famous brands. They are pretenders with a certain degree of economy. Nowadays, society is developing at a rapid pace, and people have shifted from the original concern of having enough food and clothing to enjoying consumption. The wealthy People wear famous brands to highlight their identity, and people without money wear fake brands and second-hand brands to achieve their own vanity. This situation is the most common and the most common. Of course, it is also the easiest to be accepted by everyone. It is not illegal, it is just vanity that causes trouble!
Second, fishing, this is also a relatively common type of packaging. In order to find an ideal, influential, and financially capable son-in-law, one is willing to pay for it. There is nothing wrong with the idea of packaging oneself as a rich man. Everyone has a dream of finding Mr. Right. Whether or not he can find Mr. Right in the end depends on his own luck. No one has the right to make irresponsible remarks. .
Third, behind the show off, there may be crimes hidden. This kind of people are on the verge of breaking the law. This is a situation close to fishing for a rich husband. In the final analysis, it is In order to catch a rich man, you can also defraud others of a lot of money if you fail to catch one. Some people even use this to carry out human body trade, or other dirty transactions, so there is a lot behind this kind of showing off. There may be some hidden purpose.
In fact, the method of packaging oneself to attract men is no longer suitable for use in today's society. Because of course truly high-quality boys have their own social circle, and there is no shortage of beauties and capable high-quality women in that circle. Just being in their own circle alone is enough for them to choose from, so why would you sacrifice your wealth to go there? What about other circles for adventure?
Moreover, the exquisite packaging is very easy to see through. After all, not everyone can truly have the aura of a celebrity.
Therefore, relying on this kind of behavior to find a future for oneself can only be replaced by people with the idea of playing. Really rich people actually value their self-worth more than their appearance. After all, there are beautiful people everywhere, and capable people can create a stronger future for them.
So, instead of spending some money to package yourself, look for high-quality boys. Why not think about how to improve your abilities and make yourself stronger? If you are good enough, are you afraid that you will not meet good people?