He is worth more than billions, but his sister is so poor that she has nothing to eat. Should poor relatives recognize her?

People always have times when they are down and out. As the saying goes, when you are prosperous and your down-and-out relatives come to your doorstep, will you choose to help? There is a celebrity who has donated more than 100 million yuan to foreign countries, and his personal worth exceeds several billion. He is a king-level star, but his sister was photographed by the media wearing shabby clothes on the street. This male star is Andy Lau.

Everyone understands the principle of brotherly love, and people of the era when Andy Lau was born in 1961 have many brothers and sisters in the family, and people of this era have parents who left us very early, except Parents, of course, are brothers and sisters who depend on each other for life. But some celebrities are just the opposite!

In life, Andy Lau is very filial and a man who dotes on his wife. Although he is very famous, he often eats box lunches with his employees in private without any airs. However, Andy Lau previously responded that even if he had a net worth of over 100 million, he would not give his sister a penny. In fact, there is a reason behind this. Andy Lau, whose net worth has soared, has not forgotten his roots. He often subsidizes his family and gives money to relatives and sisters at home.

Andy Lau has six brothers and sisters. Andy ranks fourth in the family, with three older sisters, one younger sister and one younger brother. And Andy Lau's sister did a lot of things that chilled Andy, which made Andy Lau stand by and watch her. It turns out that Andy Lau's sister is addicted to gambling. Andy Lau once helped his sister pay off her gambling debts and warned her sister not to continue gambling, but her sister, who was blinded by money, did not listen.

Andy Lau's sister went even further. Not only did she ask for his money, she also defrauded him of his money. She did things that damaged Andy Lau's reputation. What was even worse was that she also defrauded Andy Lau's fans. In the end, Andy Lau had no choice but to Choose to sever ties with his biological sister.

There is a saying that hits the nail on the head: "To be soft to bad people is to be cruel to yourself." People who are too kind may seem kind, but they are actually confused. We can watch Fan Shengmei in "Ode to Joy" crying and complaining that her family is dragging her down, but at the same time she continues to wipe the butt of her family.

In life, we are often borrowed money from various relatives. Some relatives are really desperate. If you help them once, they will remember it. The terrible ones will come to your door again after helping them once. If family love falls into the eyes of money, it will easily lead to estrangement and suspicion, and getting along carefully will no longer be family love.

I am afraid that only those who have actually borrowed money from relatives and collected debts will understand this truth. If you lend money to relatives over and over again, it will make your relatives feel that borrowing money is justified. In the end, they will feel that "people with money should lend to people who have no money." This kind of thinking is extremely selfish and narrow-minded!

In fact, many times, everyone is forced by life and has no choice. But no matter what, don’t take any favor for granted.