A short essay reflecting society: eating meat.
A ceremony, a welcome banquet for foreign guests, a flag-raising ceremony for various units and departments of a country, an oath-taking ceremony for joining a party, a group and a team, an ancestor worship ceremony for ethnic families, a sports meeting, a concert, a trade fair, etc. And an emerging rite of passage. In short, this is a ceremony, as important as the ceremony mentioned above. Maybe you know it, but you didn't notice it. That's "opening meat".
When you open the Modern Chinese Dictionary, there are two meanings under the entry of "eating meat": First, people who believe in Buddhism and other religions lift the taboo of vegetarianism or start eating meat at the end of the vegetarian period. It also refers to people who are often vegetarian but occasionally eat meat; Secondly, it is a metaphor for experiencing novelty. There is no mention of the ceremony of "opening a meatless diet" in the dictionary, which indicates that this custom may not spread widely; When searching in the computer, you can find a detailed introduction.
This is an ancient custom circulating in our region. After children (both men and women) grow up to three months to half a year old, their intestines and stomach can slowly accept other foods besides milk. In order to let children absorb all kinds of nutrients, they began to feed their children rice, vegetables and meat. However, before feeding the children, we should first find an elder or "noble person" to hold a meat-eating ceremony for the children.
The ceremony of ending the meatless diet is usually held at the wedding banquet of one's own family members in the village, or at someone's birthday party in the family. In a word, it is necessary to hold a banquet with rich dishes, and there is also a banquet specially held for children's centennial celebration. It is rare to end a meatless diet at this party.
At the end of eating meat, the meat eater took the child from the elders, held it in his arms, and then dipped the table full of wine and food into the child's mouth one by one with chopsticks. Of course, the child instinctively opens his mouth and follows the chopsticks, sucking the various flavors on the chopsticks, which shows that the child has already eaten. Whenever you eat a kind of meat, the meat eater still mumbles good wishes to the children. For example, if you eat a little wine, you will say "wealth lasts for a long time"; Eat a little meat and say "centenary"; Eat a little chicken and say "always wear new clothes"; If you eat a little fish, you will say "more than a year"; If you eat a little rice, you will say "a jar full of gold and silver"; After drinking a little soup, you said, "I wish you health." ...... and according to the number of dishes on the table, for example: eat first, eat two people with one heart, eat three yuan, eat four seasons, and make a fortune. . . . . . Until the food on the table is counted. At this time, the other guests at the table listened quietly and watched quietly. The children's elders are even more happy. At the end of the ceremony, the meat eater put the red envelope already prepared into the child's pocket and said, "Take the money for eating meat. When you grow up, you will be admitted to the university as soon as possible and make a toll on the way." The meat opening ceremony is over. Go to your mother's house to congratulate you when you become famous. "Of course, meat eaters will also get a very generous red envelope.
I naturally don't know who cooked the meat for me, but when I was asked to cook the meat for other children, I was neither an elder nor a nobleman. They think that I am two generations older than my children, and then I am a "national". By contrast, I am the most suitable person to start a meat-free diet. I don't know how to end a big meal. Since they chose me, they said I could, encouraged me and told me the basic methods. I finished all the necessary procedures for my first child, and he ended the meatless diet without saying a word of blessing. Unexpectedly, when I gave the child to his mother, the whole family clapped their hands happily and said yes. This is called "making a fortune in silence". I also said, "It's good to be bored and make a fortune!" A South China gentleman was born.
Since then, I have successively completed the ceremony of starting this life for many children.
Slowly, I began to think about some questions: does one have to perform this ceremony? What will happen if this ceremony is not held? What is the significance of holding a meat-eating ceremony?
Slowly, I found that people who hold meat-eating ceremonies for children are generally people with certain cultural literacy and people influenced by literate people.
There are still many people who are not affected by this, or they simply don't know what ending a meat is, or they are busy making a living all their lives and fundamentally forget to end a meat for their children. So these children don't know how to eat meat? Just a partial eclipse? Can't you grow up healthily? No. Just like growing up without a rite of passage, these children grow up well.
So the meat-eating ceremony can be cancelled? No. No one who knows this ceremony wants to cancel it. The reason is that no parents don't want their children to grow up healthily. Stop eating meat. Children can eat anything delicious without taboo, and grow up without illness and worry. Of course, this is the hope of parents. Can all children who have eaten meat realize their parents' wishes? This is determined by many factors. Perhaps this has nothing to do with eating meat at all, but hope will always stay in the hearts of parents and will never change.
This hope has become a belief.
In those days, the people of * * * had a firm belief in seeking happiness for the poor in the world and building a new China where the people are the masters of the country, so they willingly did what seemed impossible. Many people give up their personal interests, and many people are willing to shed their blood. Even if their chests are facing bloody bayonets, they will not change their faces and their hearts will not beat. They advance wave after wave, they go forward bravely, and generations faithfully practice their' oath'. No matter what kind of difficulties and hardships they encounter, they never retreat, just because they have a firm belief in their hearts, which has produced endless power.
What can a person do without spiritual support? What will happen if a nation loses its spiritual support? A song march of the volunteers told the people of the whole country: "The Chinese nation has reached the most dangerous time!" When the Japanese invaders are about to turn our motherland into their "Greater East Asia Co-prosperity Circle", a firm belief is supporting the people of the whole country: "Build our flesh and blood into our new Great Wall!" Drive the invaders out of China! At the critical moment when the nation is facing national subjugation and extinction, the people of China chose "We are United as one, braving the enemy's gunfire and going forward bravely!" We did it. We "defeated the Japanese dog bandits and wiped out the Chiang bandits." And those poor people who have no faith can only be traitors and live in humiliation.
At that time, we received a very simple "five loves" education, namely: love the motherland, love the people, love labor, love public property and love China. The three major events in our life are: joining the Chinese Young Pioneers as teenagers, joining the Chinese Communist Youth League as teenagers, and joining China as adults. Every child in New China is striving for three major events, which is the firm belief of our generation.
We have a shining example before us. Heroes and role models such as Lei Feng and Zhang Side have interpreted the spirit of serving the people to the extreme. Learning from Lei Feng's good example is the fulcrum of the spirit of all young people and even the whole country. Learning from Zhang Side and serving the people wholeheartedly have gradually become the conscious action of the people all over the country. Powerful positive energy controls people's spiritual space. People unite and work hard, and everyone is positive and full of ideals. The power of example has strengthened the firm belief of our generation.
And we should also see that in today's society, material life has been greatly enriched, while the spiritual fulcrum is slowly disappearing. Materialistic, money is paramount. It's all about money. Without ideals and beliefs, money has flooded some people's minds. We learned civilization from foreign countries, but we also introduced garbage; We regard foreign advanced things as treasures, but we also regard foreign garbage as treasures. Joining the team, joining the league and joining the party are no longer the three great happy events in life, but dispensable things, or they are regarded as a ladder for promotion by some people. In short, everything seems to have gone bad.
It feels a little heavy to write here. How I want to call for the return of my ideals and beliefs and miss those rich days when I was young, but after all, I am weak and feel very gratified to vent my heart.
I think maybe it's time for everyone to reopen meat.