Is it really disrespectful for a son-in-law to "insert the door backwards" at home? Why?
The average husband's family is not so good. To tell the truth, the old father-in-law looks down on the man, that is, he dislikes his poverty. But men can get their dignity.
First, it's vulgar, but it works, and people are more realistic. This man works hard to make money. When you earn enough money, your wife won't go out to work. She will naturally be on your side. In addition, if you have money, buy more gifts for your father-in-law. Don't be too happy. You can also brag to outsiders that my son-in-law is so good that he can think of me at any time and always buy things to honor me.
Second, a man's character. If you can't make a lot of money, you can be diligent, watch your family work hard and work hard. If you are lazy, you can at least be diligent in front of the old couple. The old couple recruited a door-to-door son-in-law What picture? It's just that they are old and have young and strong people in their own families to help them. If you are lazy, will your father-in-law give you a good look?
Third, be nice to your wife. In fact, there is also a door-to-door son-in-law Parents love their daughter dearly, and when they marry the man's house, they want to adopt the boy to their own home. Such parents either want to inherit the family business in the traditional way or simply want to be nice to their daughters. The man is better to his wife, who is very dependent on you, and the old couple can't wait to curry favor with you.
In fact, there are more only children here. If the woman's family is ok, there are still quite a few people looking for a son-in-law. I wonder if it's because we are more open-minded. All the old people here have good daughters and sons-in-law. Who doesn't want their families to live in harmony?