Southerly effect

The south wind effect - a truth that people with high emotional intelligence understand

The French writer La Fontaine has a fable:

The north wind and the south wind are more powerful than each other. , to see who can take off the coats of pedestrians. The north wind tried its best, and the strong wind roared, trying to blow away the clothes of pedestrians. As a result, pedestrians wrapped their coats tighter to protect themselves from the cold. The south wind blew slowly, making the weather warmer. Pedestrians took off their coats one after another because they felt warm. In this game, Nanfeng won. This is the famous "south wind effect".

It can be seen that whether in emotional life or at work, one should learn Nanfeng’s method. When facing different people and things, use appropriate methods to deal with them and believe in your own personality charm. As the saying goes, "A good word can warm a person in winter, but a bad word can hurt someone in June." Warm words, such as praise, respect, encouragement, etc., these words with positive colors in themselves will have unexpected and powerful power in people's psychology. No matter how hard the ice is, it will melt sometimes, not to mention that the human heart is made of flesh.

Therefore, try to use the "south wind" to influence others, instead of always using the "north wind" to stimulate them.