From the moment you were born, your fate was sealed. Do you agree with this sentence?

What I want to say feels a bit ridiculous, but interested friends can listen to it. I think a person's life is doomed at birth, that's for sure. Man's fate is relative. We have all heard of time travel, or seen time travel movies. We assume that time travel really exists from a scientific point of view, so if a person can travel freely through the past and the future, then our life is destined to be good for this traveler. Suppose a person directly crosses our age from birth to death, then our life, for this traveler, we just play with our life from beginning to end, but we don't know it ourselves, thinking that the future can be changed, because for us, the future is unknown, but for the traveler, everything is under control, just like the history we know. All this history is a thing of the past. We know what will happen in a year and who will appear. For us, the past has long been doomed, but people at that time knew nothing. Therefore, a person's life is doomed and cannot be changed without the help of external forces. It is most important to live a good life in a down-to-earth manner. If it's not your own, don't force it. Many people are more anxious than the sky.

I was a little skeptical when I was young, but after a lot of experience, I agree with this sentence.

Let's start with the true story of a colleague of mine who lives opposite me.

My female colleague's surname is Li. She is not very beautiful, but she is beautiful. When she was in a normal school, she had a very good boyfriend. Her boyfriend was very kind to her and they had a good relationship. During this period, the man's family was poor, and the woman often gave him tutoring. He also makes handmade shoes, knits scarves, sweaters and pants for her boyfriend one by one.

I need to talk about marriage. But that man married another rich girl. From then on, my colleague named Li began to go downhill, which is really strange. Later, I married another man and gave birth to a boy. But the boy died in an accident when he was three years old. Female colleagues are disheartened. At the age of thirty, her husband fell ill and died.

Eight years later, she remarried and gave birth to a boy and a girl with her husband. Now the boy is only 8 years old.

She is sincere, kind to people, polite and open-minded. In everyone's eyes, he is recognized as a good colleague. But fate is really unclear.

Once I chatted with her, and she also said some of her own experiences. She said that every time the fate is arranged, it is really strange. Some things happen as they say, without rhetoric.

Let's talk about my true story, a little thing, a big thing.

Let me say one little thing first.

I had a good friend named Joe in junior high school. We were good friends in junior high school. In the third year, she dropped out of school because of illness. I have never seen her since. Five years later, I joined the work and got married.

The world is really big and small. We are in a big city, but our fate is very strange.

One day, I really met her face to face. It turns out that she got married here, just opposite my house. Before that, we didn't meet and communicate at all. I find it incredible. To this day, I still wonder how things in the world can happen so coincidentally.

There is another big thing for me.

Five years ago, I met a big hurdle in my life. I took a very important exam in the city. I need a written test and an interview. If I pass these two exams, my work will change a lot.

At that time, my written test score was above average. If nothing happens, I will pass the interview.

A few days before the interview, there was a major change at home. I didn't expect it beforehand. I went to an interview that day. Get up at 5 o'clock in the morning and enter the pre-examination room. It was a lottery at that time. How wonderful you said, I actually won the last place. Oh, my God, I am from morning till noon 12.

12 o'clock, it's my turn to go for an interview. At that time, I was tired and hungry. Coupled with the family changes before the exam, I am under great pressure. I take this interview very seriously. Dizziness during the interview. I insisted on answering two links seriously, but I still missed one link. Who knows the examiner came and said it was too late to stop, so I ended the exam.

When the exam results came out, I lost by 0. 1, so I chose not to record them here.

I have been thinking about this question until today. Why did so many things happen then? Is this fate? I'm thinking to myself, who have I offended? Without warning, like this. ...

Since then, I have a deeper understanding of fate. ...

What stories do you have about fate? Tell them and share them.

Tell a story first! There used to be a fortune teller who set up a stall on the roadside to tell fortune. A man riding a burly horse and his two followers came to the fortune teller to tell his fortune. The fortune teller annotated the date and time of birth of the bearer on the paper, looked at the bearer's clothes, then looked at the entourage and said with a smile, "Judging from your husband's eight characters, you must be an official, and you will have good luck in the future." Later, people asked the fortune teller, "Is this determined by my eight characters?" The gentleman replied: "Yes, the eight characters of a person's birth determine his life's poverty, wealth and poverty." At this point, the messenger left the fortune teller's booth after giving Mr. Wang a few taels of silver ... Later, after a while, the person who just came to tell a fortune changed his clothes and went back to the fortune teller's booth to ask him to arrange eight-character fortune telling. As usual, the fortune teller approved the date, month, date and time of birth of the holder on paper. Then, he looked at the tattered clothes on his body, shook his head and said to the fortune teller, "Sir, you were born in eight characters." Your fate is a life of poverty and hard work ... "Before Mr. Wang finished, someone patted Mr. Wang's fortune-telling booth and said angrily," I am the one who just came. Why is my fate so good just now, but now it's worse? "At this point, the fortune teller said in fear," I'm not finished yet? "Please calm down, you hit a post horse, a gentleman is a noble, a noble man jumps when he meets Ma Duo, and a bitch suffers when he meets Ma Duo. This gentleman is a noble and swaggering man ... ". This story shows that people's fate is not decided by God, and those professional numerologists dare not think that people are born.