Why do I care about my wife so much, but my wife thinks I am nagging? Is it because I'm annoyed?

1. Don’t argue with him when there are many people. Even if he really said something wrong, men want to save face. 2. Don’t wake him up after falling asleep, even if you ask him if he is cold. , it is difficult for him to go back to sleep after waking up 3. Sometimes I have to learn to be silent. I have to put away my nature in front of everyone and be calm, even if I am really uncomfortable. 5. Don’t repeat a question, even if it is his fault. 6. Speak up. There is basis, don’t make jokes that shouldn’t be made, he is very serious. Don’t mention what he did in the past, whether right or wrong, because it can only represent the past. 8. When he is angry, don’t ask him why he is angry, and don’t say don’t be angry. Experience the reason for your anger, and pay attention next time. 9. Care more about him, even if he doesn't care about you very much. Men are sometimes careless. You should tolerate him more and forgive him, even if he is not very accommodating to you in some things. Emotional matters must be There is a tolerant party, R011. Don’t mince words. Think twice about what you say and do, and think about things from his perspective. 13. Believe what others say no matter what they say. Don’t force him to call you. No matter how anxious you are, then Just blindly anxious o15. If he likes to do something, let him do it, don't stop him. Don't complain that he doesn't treat you as well as he used to, even if this is the case, in fact, he still loves you very much. Be content, no matter how big he is Sacrifice is still a small amount of effort. As long as you give it, don't care about the reward. 19. When he has a dispute with others, he will always stand on his side regardless of right or wrong. 20. If he doesn't say something, don't stubbornly ask him. Let him experience it himself. Meaning 21. Don’t be angry, solve problems rationally 22. Don’t force him to say nice things or force him to do anything to make up for your vanity. Although everyone is vain, be honest with him 023. When he is with others When fighting, don't let him worry. Comfort him afterwards and help calm him down. Don't take it upon yourself to vent his anger for him. 024. Learn to live in the real world with him. 25. Don't make the same mistake again and again. Don't. Ask him to be romantic. For him, romance is a form of hypocrisy. 27. Don’t ask him to take care of yourself and pamper yourself like other people’s boyfriends. He is who he is. If he looks at other girls or praises other girls on the street, , and don’t be angry, he is just joking 29. Don’t restrict his freedom 30. Nag less. Tears should be shed preciously, learn to endure, learn to suppress your feelings 32. Don’t show everything on your face. If he misunderstands you Don't blame him, don't complain about him, because his starting point is for you. Don't write about his shortcomings in the diary, don't write about quarrels, even if this is your way of venting. 35. If two people quarrel and you leave, he If he doesn’t go to you, go back to him when you calm down. There is no right or wrong in love. There is no distinction between men and women or roles. If you love him, you shouldn’t care about these things. 36. Don’t deceive him, even if it’s well-intentioned, it’s for him. 37. Him Sometimes what he says will hurt your heart. Don't blame him. He is just saying angry words because he cares about you. Don't compare him with other people's boyfriends, even if there is a real difference. If he is your boyfriend, you will always think he is the best. If he really decides to do something, don't stop him, just support or accompany him. If he doesn't like your dress or hairstyle, don't say "I like someone" "People should like everything about her." Don't complain, people have different opinions. 41. Don't get angry when you get mad at you occasionally, everyone has a temper. 42. Do your best to do what you can do. He is your boyfriend, not Your slave. If you make a good decision, don’t be late, be trustworthy, he hates waiting for others; if he is late, don’t get angry, be more considerate to him, maybe he has something. 44. Don’t act coquettishly at him, although every girl needs it, do it to him Saying it is a kind of hypocrisy. Don't make a fuss 046. Don't ask too much of him. No matter how big or small he does, know the price he paid for it. 47. He has his social circle, don't interfere. 048. If you whisper Just whisper, don’t speak too loudly. Let him do what he wants to do when surfing the Internet or in peacetime. Don’t let him accompany you all the time. 50. Know when to control and when to accommodate. 51. When you see other people’s boyfriends giving you gifts from home Don't be jealous when they bring things from home, because his feelings cannot be measured by money and material things. If he ignores your feelings, there is no need to blame him. He really didn't mean it. k053. If you are wronged, learn to tolerate it. Maybe he has been wronged a lot more than you. If there is a lot of pressure, you have to learn to bear it yourself. In fact, he is under greater pressure. 55. Don’t do what you hate others doing. 056. Don’t point fingers on the road, he won’t understand it. Don't take his occasional impulses or mistakes to heart. Giving others a chance is giving yourself a chance.

Some shortcomings of people are innate and cannot be changed overnight. Give them some time. 58. Try not to go off topic when speaking. Don’t talk about things that are irrelevant to the topic. Do things wholeheartedly.