Ethical way: the way of the elderly
In this family ethics, we can only compare ourselves and reflect on ourselves; If we use this moral standard to compare and blame people around us, it will be counterproductive.
-this is called "finding a way"! Tao, only find this side of himself, and can't be used to measure each other.
"Don't look at others, only care about yourself"-kindness can only be to yourself, not to others!
Laorendao
Old people are the root of home! The elderly are virtuous, the whole family is prosperous, and the children are blessed.
1, the old man takes morality as the root. "Virtue" is to bear the fault of a family and the fault of a peaceful family.
2, the old man's face is dusty, gentle and not angry, talk less, don't talk about parents, take the lead in seeing each other's benefits, and have to cover the whole family and cover all their faults.
3. Ford is full, gentle and heavy, and his sex is like ash.
4, contentment, living at home. Carry forward the family style, praise Zude, and educate future generations to know how to be grateful, grateful and grateful.
5, don't mind your own business, don't worry too much about your children and grandchildren, "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren."
6. Don't interfere in children's affairs, let go and give way to the younger generation to be the master, and don't get old.
7. There are problems at home. First of all, there are loopholes in the behavior of the elderly. One is not keeping his duty, and the other is going too far.
8. If something goes wrong at home, the old man should be ashamed: it's because I, an old man, didn't do a good job, had a wicked place and didn't educate my family well.
No matter who is at fault in the family, no matter what disasters and right and wrong happen, it is nothing but a shame.
10, do not create right and wrong, do not say right and wrong, do not preach right and wrong, do not listen to right and wrong, be responsible for right and wrong, and are not afraid of right and wrong. Reconciling a family does not cause right and wrong, otherwise the old people are immoral.
1 1. Whether a family is developed or not and whether its children are prosperous or not is directly related to whether the old people in the class have good roots. The elderly are virtuous, and their children and grandchildren are prosperous; The old man is wicked, his family fortune is declining, his family fortune is not prosperous, and his fragrance is dead.
12. How can the elderly make a family prosperous? Is to do more good deeds and accumulate more virtues. On the one hand, Xiu De can be exonerated; On the other hand, he can cultivate morality for children and protect them.
13, the old man propped up a blessed land and created a blessed land. Fude is stronger from generation to generation, and Fuyao is more prosperous from generation to generation; Children and grandchildren are stronger than you, which means you have virtue, otherwise you have no virtue.
14, the old man is like the earth, silently bearing everything, embracing everything and educating everything. Old people are generous, and the family will be blessed.
15, old people love things, and their children and grandchildren are prosperous. If the old people are insatiable, they will consume the blessings of their families.
16, the elderly have virtue, which is the best feng shui and the highest feng shui.
Laotaitai avenue
The old lady, who is like dust, is rooted in ambition, has a complete family and is responsible for herself. She is the lucky star of the family.
The old lady who lives at home, whose ambition is like dust, has nothing to laugh about, and often mentions the good of the whole family, which saves trouble and trouble.
Kindness can be blessed, housekeeping can be pushed aside, old age can be handed over to winter, nature can be maintained, cause and effect can be gossip, and things can be willing to suffer.
Patience with paramita, no struggle for great wisdom, endless central land, lucky stars shining high, old people setting a standard, the whole family is happy.
Some old ladies, burning coal and burying ashes, are reluctant to give up, showing their great power in everything, taking charge of the family and managing right and wrong.
Children are difficult to be filial, and picking things will destroy each other; Beloved grandson, who loves who, some prefer daughters, and grandchildren are better than their own grandchildren.
Not only hurt the daughter, but also away from the daughter-in-law, so there was a dispute. It is said that the daughter-in-law is short and the daughter-in-law is less filial; The old man is insatiable, and the whole family has no happiness.