What examples of "the art of speaking" have you encountered?
I remember a little fresh meat was said to be like Bo Huang in a variety show, but he went back without thinking, saying that he was not like Bo Huang. Later, a reporter interviewed Bo Huang's views on this matter, and Bo Huang just said faintly, "Young people should have a role model", which implied that he should criticize little fresh meat and not be arrogant. It is worthy of being an old-timer. When he talks about blood, there is no nonsense. He not only says that he is not so concerned about this matter, but also warns Xiao Xianrou to learn more from his predecessors. Although Bo Huang is not so handsome, many people still like him. Why? Everyone likes not only his acting skills, but also his personality. His high emotional intelligence and the use of language to play its role are worthy of praise.
Do you remember the article Zou Ji satirizes coachable, the king of Qi, which we learned in middle school? It is full of the charm of language. I wonder who dares to give a clear opinion to the King of Qi. None of his concubines or his subjects goes to give an outspoken opinion. If they go straight to the subject, it will be counterproductive, which will put the person who gives the opinion in danger. Only by using speaking skills and expressing the purpose they want to express invisibly is the highest self-realm of speaking, and Zou Ji did it. He used his own examples to illustrate how stupid it is to be kept in the dark. It will make you lose sight of the present situation, make you arrogant, take yourself as an example, put yourself in others' shoes, make the King of Qi feel the same way with him, let the King of Qi say what he wants to do to accept other people's opinions, and encourage those who put forward constructive opinions. It is precisely in this way that he makes the country win without fighting and be worshipped by other countries. All this is attributed to the charm of Zou Ji's language art.
In fact, I have met someone who can talk very well in my life. He is a boy, and I think his EQ is really high. I remember one time I made an appointment with him to climb the mountain, but the weather was very bad that day, with heavy smog and rain, so it was difficult to climb the mountain again. He chatted with me the day before the appointed time and asked me what the weather was like here. He didn't say the words "The weather is bad, let's go another day" himself, but asked me what the weather was like, and then I went into what he wanted to say step by step, and finally I said ". Then we'll make an appointment next time. "He guided me to say what he wanted to say step by step. It's really emotional intelligence. If I were other boys, I would probably express my purpose euphemistically.
Language is an art, and mastering it requires us to keep learning.