Inscription of Hejiang Hedi Reservoir: What is the word after the blessing of Yinhu Lake?

Today, I had dinner with two bad friends. Halfway through, one buddy said to the other, your wife is really ugly. How did you marry her? As soon as this word came out, the buddy was still eating rice in his mouth and staring at us. I don't think the situation is right. Answer immediately. It's not ugly. He's joking. Unexpectedly, this brother said: I am eating, don't say such disgusting things. Let's calm down at once. Looking at your head may change the shadow of your life.