Think of parents as "family groups", don't blame teachers for their opinions, and send three kinds of messages cautiously.
As a communication channel between teachers and parents, the role of parents' group not only conveys news, but also invisibly shapes the image of parents in the eyes of teachers and other parents.
My little nephew, who is in the sixth grade, especially likes to play with sugar dad. They get along like friends who have forgotten the past year. Usually, everyone is busy, and it is rare for the two people, big and small, to meet each other once. At this family gathering, when others are chatting, they are also whispering.
when I got home, sugar dad suddenly called me over, as if he had something important to discuss with me. He told me solemnly that my little nephew had a little trouble and hoped I could help him solve it together.
It turns out that my sister-in-law started to be a Wechat business six months ago. Seeing that all the people around us have been exploited by her, there is still no market, so she turned her attention to her little nephew's parents.
dozens of classmates, which means hundreds of parents. How could she miss such a good opportunity? Therefore, some product news is often published among parents, so it is impossible for teachers to tear their faces and remove their sister-in-law from group chat, but how can they have no opinion?
after a long time, even the classmates knew about it, which made my little nephew lose face and feel isolated in the class. I mentioned it to my mother several times, but my sister-in-law never took it to heart.
when there is no parent group, it is inconvenient for teachers and parents to communicate with each other, and problems can only be solved by phone messages. The emergence of parent groups has greatly accelerated the communication efficiency between home and school, and has also become a link between teachers, parents and students.
However, many parents don't know the function of the parent group clearly, and they don't realize the particularity of the parent group, and regard the parent group as the same as the family group.
Because the main function of parents' group is to make it convenient for teachers to issue orders, understand students' situation and facilitate parents' communication with teachers, if anything is sent to the group, it will not only interfere with other parents, but also affect teachers' work.
Some parents may say that if the teacher doesn't like it, just point it out. But after all, parents have a special identity, so it is impossible for teachers to explain the inappropriate behavior of some parents with all their words.
What's more, managing parents is the same as managing students. As long as we relax a little over a period of time, there will always be people who make similar mistakes. So many parents and teachers can't talk about their lives one by one, so parents need to have a high degree of consciousness.
So what kind of messages are sent among parents, which will cause teachers' dissatisfaction and other parents' boredom? Generally speaking, when sending or editing three kinds of messages, parents must carefully choose to send them in the parent group.
But because there are so many such behaviors, everyone is actually bored. Therefore, it is a very disappointing behavior to send such messages among parents.
2. Click on the link to bargain
Clicking on the link to help "cut a knife" is a very popular promotion method, and parents often can't stop it. Parents are undoubtedly a good place to share such links.
However, it should be noted that sending such messages frequently will disturb the normal order of parents, who should keep the proper order. Parents sending such links will affect teachers and parents to send and receive normal messages.
3. Private affairs of their own
Other parents are not necessarily happy to receive these useless and even harassing news.
If you have specific things to solve with a parent or teacher, it is suggested to communicate in private, not on the bright side, which will also damage the authority of teacher management, increase the workload for teachers and cause teachers' dissatisfaction.