Ci Shi Tang: What are the Feng Shui taboos after the death of a loved one?
Taboos on funerals and burials: the funerals of good and bad deaths cannot be confused; widows, pregnant women, and postpartum women are not allowed to attend funerals; remarried couples are not buried together.
Taboos at funerals: Leaving the coffin out: Generally, you have to choose a more auspicious day for the funeral, and avoid burying on two days.
The coffin goes on the road: The filial son wears linen and mourning, holds a mourning stick and a soul-calling flag, and guides the coffin and the funeral procession on the road; during the burial, a wizard must be asked to sacrifice the coffin, and the coffin is not allowed to be moved once it falls into the grave. During burial, it is taboo for mourners to throw their figures into the grave, because throwing their figures into the grave is tantamount to sacrificial burial. People who practice burial or cremation only need to take care of them from time to time after the burial, cultivate the soil, plant trees, and continue to smoke cigarettes.
Returning from the funeral: Three piles of straw are burned in front of the funeral, and the mourners step over the fire, which means everything is fine.