The grounded "Grandpa Meng" Murphy.
Murphy 197 1 was born in Chongqing in and spent his childhood in the mountain city of Chongqing. His parents are both staff members of an TV station, but due to their busy work, they can only take their eldest son, Xu Fan (Murphy means "extraordinary"), and Murphy was brought up by his grandmother.
Grandma likes this clever and sensible child very much. In the words of now, she is the darling of grandma. In that era when materials were scarce, Grandma could make delicious food with any cheap ingredients, capturing Murphy's taste buds, especially the bowl of Chongqing noodles made by Grandma, which made Murphy remember deeply. Whenever she talks to outsiders, she always drools involuntarily. Although Murphy's childhood was not controlled by his parents, he was spoiled by his grandmother and his life was extremely comfortable and relaxed.
1982 parents transferred to Nanjing TV Station, 12-year-old Morphy was taken away by her parents. However, in the face of strange environment, Murphy can't adapt to it all the time, and an unprecedented sense of loneliness comes to him and becomes his most painful memory.
But this loneliness did not last long, and it was broken by a girl named Betty. Murphy's composition is very good. She is often recited by teachers as a model essay in class. Many students always borrow from Murphy after class, including many beautiful girls, and Betty is one of them.
Every time Betty borrows a composition book from Murphy, she will bribe her with some snacks. After a while, the two of them broke up. The feeling of first love is intoxicating, and the feeling of two children not guessing is even more wonderful. Their relationship lasted until they graduated from high school.
When I was in high school, Morphy was an out-and-out minor, although she always got good grades in liberal arts. His achievements in science can be described as terrible. Mathematics and physics add up to less than 100, with a total score of 300! The total score is naturally the bottom of the class. In that era of fractional theory, Murphy was labeled as a poor student.
Although his academic performance has been greatly improved, he likes art very much, especially the host and crosstalk. Murphy's father criticized his son and said, "Anything but study!"
Murphy admitted that high school was a nightmare in his life. His teachers don't like him, his classmates reject him, and even his parents are extremely disappointed with him. More unfortunately, his parents divorced because of the trivial life during that time, which was a blow to Murphy, who was still a minor.
Family changes have made Murphy even more reluctant to study. She failed in the college entrance examination that year without any suspense. At this time, Betty was successfully admitted to a local university in Nanjing, and their relationship came to an abrupt end. When parents saw this disappointing son, they lost their temper and wanted to contact the repeat school to give him another chance. However, the repeat school learned of his college entrance examination results and was worried that it would delay the enrollment rate, so they all declined.
In desperation, his parents asked their friends to find a relationship and sent Morphy to the self-study class of Nanjing Normal University. However, Murphy was still not interested in learning and dropped out of school a few months later. Since then, Meng has entered the society informally and started another life.
That was at the height of business. After wandering around Nanjing for a period of time, Murphy felt that there was little room for development. With the support of his friends, he decided to go to Shenzhen.
Just when Murphy wanted to make great achievements in this rapidly developing city, reality gave him a heavy slap. After coming to Shenzhen for more than half a month, he not only failed to find a job, but also spent 7788 yuan with him. Looking for a job during the day, sleeping on the street at night, and smashing the recruitment information in the newspaper under his head became his only hope. When he looked for it according to the information in the newspaper, he was rejected by the employer for various reasons.
Morphy, a teenager, left his hometown and wandered in Shenzhen, a city where "daily life should not be" and "the ground is not working", and he deeply felt what is powerlessness.
But just when he was running out of food, Murphy was lucky enough to find a job as a porter. Although this job can temporarily solve Murphy's food and clothing problem, he has to undertake physical labor that adults may not be able to carry. The boss won't care whether you are full or not, and he won't give you preferential treatment just because you are a minor, as long as you can finish the task of the day.
Earn tens of dollars every day. When I got back to the dormitory, I was too tired to take off my shoes. After I tasted the social sorrow, Murphy began to miss my school days, but there was no chance to turn back.
This job not only earns less money, but also is often scolded and abused by the boss. For Morphy, who is full of blood, it is a great shame. He can't stand a harsh criticism of his boss. In a rage, Murphy chose to resign, pack up his hard-earned money and leave.
Morphy once again entered the job search army, with no education and no skills. It took him more than a month to find a job. He crossed his heart and set foot on the train home. The train clanged. Murphy was lost in thought and planned his future.
After returning to his hometown, Murphy shut himself up at home and read and studied all day. His parents saw their son lose a lot of weight and look like a monkey. They are worried that it will be difficult for him to find a job. Murphy did not dare to disobey his parents' decision, so he silently set foot on the road paved by his parents for him.
199 1 This year is just the time for Jiangsu Radio and Television Station to recruit printers. Murphy successfully passed the exam and became a printer. He gets up early every day and works on the assembly line for more than ten hours without rest. However, compared with the porter, it is much easier, at least he doesn't have to endure the insult of the boss.
Another advantage of this job is that you can read newspapers for free. For Morphy, who is eager for knowledge, this is happier than high salary.
As long as the printing press is running, there is no time to rest. Morphy and other colleagues work in shifts, and he has to print hundreds of thousands of newspapers at the end of the day. He was exhausted by the assembly line and didn't get the poor 30 yuan until the end of the month.
The heavy work made Murphy deeply realize that only by studying can he get ahead. He wrote in his autobiography: "I can't stay in this place all my life. If I want a good job, I must study! "
Murphy is a living example, because the people of Sri Lanka will be entrusted with great responsibilities in the future.
1992, 2 1 year-old Murphy entered the adult college entrance examination. This time, he didn't let the opportunity slip through his fingers. He studied day and night. God helps those who help him. In September of that year, Murphy entered the correspondence course of Chinese Department of Nanjing Normal University with an unprecedented high score, and waited until the weekend to become a printer.
While Betty graduated from university, it happened that she also came to work in a TV station, and they came together again. For Murphy in the dark, this is undoubtedly a ray of warm sunshine that illuminates her heart.
Murphy later recalled: "When I was a worker in a printing factory, I fell in love seriously."
I have to work, go to school and fall in love. Murphy is so tired that I can't wait to come out like a monkey. It seems that everything is on the right track, but an accident happened at this moment!
One day, Murphy was so tired that he accidentally caught his newspaper hand in the machine. Fortunately, the rescue was timely, and his hand was finally saved, and the nails of two fingers were also pulled out.
When his girlfriend Betty learned the news, she held him in her arms and wept bitterly. During her recovery, Betty waited on him day and night and cooked food every day. In order to make Murphy's appetite big, she specially asked her friends in Chongqing to make Murphy's favorite Chongqing noodles.
Murphy was moved to tears by this close girl. After the injury recovered, she got a marriage certificate with Sydney. The day they got the marriage certificate was extremely simple. Murphy said, "Let's go to the Civil Affairs Bureau early tomorrow morning." Sydney calmly replied, "Good."
After getting married, Murphy quit his job as a printer and opened a small supermarket, but he didn't know how to run it. It wasn't long before he went out of business, and he had to continue to live, and he couldn't eat soft food!
1994, my wife brought good news. The literature and art department of Jiangsu TV Station is recruiting temporary workers. Although it sounds like that, there are only a few hundred temporary workers in that TV station, basically like cleaners, either serving tea or cleaning toilets.
Murphy was born an indomitable master, seemingly no different from other temporary workers, but he was secretly working hard behind him. In just a few months, he learned the skills of shooting, editing and interviewing, and became a compound talent. In addition, I got a degree certificate of correspondence this year, and gradually moved from the grassroots to the stage, and began to emerge in some less important programs.
In Murphy's view, these grievances are nothing. He always believes that there will be a day to take off. This day didn't make Murphy wait.
With his good popularity, he participated in the filming of the documentary "Customs of the Western Regions" in the same year, which also gave him a place in Taiwan Province. The following year 1995, Murphy was ordered to independently complete the tasks of directing and filming the documentary "Towards Atlanta", which laid a solid foundation for Murphy's future rise.
1997, Sydney became pregnant and gave birth to her daughter Meng Xingya in the same year. Murphy, who likes her daughter very much, has become more energetic and accumulated energy for her future success.
In 2002, in order to bring the tepid Nanjing News back to the audience's field of vision, Jiangsu TV made a bold attempt. First, it was renamed as "Nanjing Zero Distance" column, and second, it was for the host of national sea election.
Morphy will naturally not miss this opportunity. After going through five levels, she will be a finalist. The finalists are all handsome boys and girls, and their professional ability and temperament image are not under Morphy.
On the other hand, Morphy, who is bald and has no advantage in education, does not feel inferior because of this. Instead, he argued in front of Taiwan Province leaders that "let the audience have the final say!" Murphy's determination and confidence moved the leaders of Taiwan Province. In the end, the leaders of Taiwan Province decided to let Murphy preside over the meeting, and it was impossible to change people.
Morphy, who boarded the anchor station for the first time, had no stage fright at all. With solid basic skills and preparation, he can broadcast with ease. A series of wonderful comments made the audience happy, and the rare bald image made the audience in front of the TV like it or not. After the first program was broadcast, it received rave reviews, and the audience called to praise the unique host.
That year, the advertising revenue of "Nanjing Zero Distance" reached the historical peak, 50 million! Murphy has also become the mainstay of this program. When the audience talks about the host, the first thing that comes to mind is Morphy, who has become the favorite host of Nanjing people.
Murphy is not only busy in front of the stage, but also responsible for writing, manuscript selection and so on behind the scenes, as if carrying the program on his shoulders. That year, Murphy just turned 30.
In 2004, when Murphy was the most popular, CCTV Oriental Time and Space extended an olive branch to him, trying to incite Murphy to work in CCTV, but Murphy couldn't bear to accompany him to Jiangsu Satellite TV, and finally declined politely.
When everyone thought that Morphy's career had reached its peak, the next program pushed him to a new height and was well known by the national audience, yes! It's If You Are the One!
When "If You Are the One" started on 20 10, the audience friends were firmly caught by this dating program, and every female guest in the program would be hotly discussed. As the host of the program, Morphy naturally spread all over the country and became a brother of Jiangsu Satellite TV!
Throughout Morphy's success, there seems to be no secret. If yes, there are two: the first is to stick to the end and never give up; The second is when you want to give up, look back at the first secret: stick to it and never give up.