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What about selective syndrome? . .
Hehe, let me tell you a secret. Actually, me too. I'm no more relaxed than you. At that time, I was so serious that I didn't even know how to choose to eat in a restaurant, and my friends were afraid to join me. I once spent nearly three hours in a shoe store when I bought shoes. In the end, I didn't make a choice, but packed all my favorite three pairs and took them home. I don't know how to choose several schemes given by employees at work. I think every scheme is good, but I think every scheme has defects, which makes me very passive in my work. To tell the truth, this feeling is really uncomfortable and disturbing. I know you are too, but please don't worry, don't be anxious. I'll tell you how to restrain yourself. I hope it will help you. First of all, when I meet a choice, I calmly analyze their advantages and disadvantages, pros and cons, as well as their feasibility, and what kind of results and influences can be caused after the choice. After your analysis, you can do the following. Secondly, after your comprehensive analysis, force yourself to make a quick and decisive choice without thinking too much. Even if the internal choice will have more and greater shortcomings and disadvantages, and even cause adverse effects and terrible consequences, dear, please don't think too much and don't hesitate. You should know that everything has its own development process and inevitable consequences. So if you think too much and plan too well, it will cause the progress and change of the whole thing and affect the final result of the matter. So, please don't think too much, do it when you should, and break it when you should, otherwise it will be more chaotic, more complicated and more difficult to choose and choose. Then, if you still can't solve it, draw lots or throw a sieve and let God help you make a choice. Then you just need to continue with peace of mind and seriously complete the choice made by God for you. Don't look around, look forward. As long as you work hard and try your best, there is nothing to worry about, and there will be no idea that this choice is actually wrong. What did you say?/Sorry? Finally, I hope you can remember that no matter whether you dare to choose, no matter what choice you make, no matter whether your choice is true or not, no matter what the result is, as long as you face it bravely, solve it with your heart, deal with it seriously and try your best to complete it, then you will have a clear conscience and dare to accept it. In fact, the problem itself is not that you can't choose, but that you dare not choose, dare not face, and dare not believe in yourself. Therefore, if you want to make an easy choice, you must first believe in yourself, face it bravely, and face up to all things and choices. I believe you won't be so entangled and bothered by the above, because the above methods have helped me, so I hope I can help you, too. I believe you can do it. I will support you, help you, believe in me, believe in myself, come on, and bless you. The above content is purely handwritten and a bit messy, but I sincerely hope it can be adopted. Thank you. Please feel free to ask questions.
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