Precautions for receiving in-laws: When in-laws meet for the first time, they pay great attention.

Being in-laws is a rare fate. However, what should in-laws pay attention to when they meet for the first time? Let's have a look.

I. Matters needing attention in receiving in-laws

1 first of all, you need to prepare food and fruit, not to mention grand, but certainly not too flattering. If the meeting place you choose is a restaurant, you need to choose a private room, which is suitable for both parties to talk.

Be modest when introducing yourself, especially when the other person's family is different. If you are not careful, you will make others think that you have left a bad impression or look down on others, and you will also worry that your children will suffer in your home.

3, take the initiative to find a topic, do not ice, ease the embarrassing atmosphere.

You can talk about your children, but you can't be too partial or belittle them. Excessive preference will make people think that your children are precious, just precious. If you come to my house in the future, do you want to be a princess or an emperor? You can't belittle your child too much, which will make people think that the child is too lazy and useless. If you suffer from my children in the future, the other party will naturally look down on your children. So when talking about children, just say it briefly.

Second, the pressure of meeting in-laws for the first time

1, make a good impression. For both parents, don't dress up too beautifully. First, you are old. Second, you will make others feel difficult to get along with. Therefore, both parents should dress neatly and normally.

2, the meeting place can choose the man's home, or a quiet cafe, restaurant room and other places.

3, prepare gifts, this depends on the family situation, if you are in the countryside, send more chickens, ducks, tobacco and alcohol, and if you have the conditions, you can also prepare jewelry, good tea and the like.