Detailed explanation of feng shui knowledge in marriage happiness
First, how to arrange the wind and water that determines the happiness of marriage
1, simple and clean
The word "simple and clean" seems simple, but it actually contains many requirements:
Jane: There shouldn't be too much furniture between husband and wife. Bed, bedside table, wardrobe, comb table, wedding photos, vases, electric lights and air conditioning are enough.
Single person: single person, there must be a bed in the room, and children's beds should not be put in the room. Generally speaking, Feng Shui only allows two pillows in the newlywed room.
Ming: Ming is bright, and the lights between lovers are adjusted in two stages:
1. The lighting in the first year of marriage is mainly soft, because both parties have romantic enthusiasm and yearning for love at this time, and soft lighting and wallpaper color play an aphrodisiac role.
How should the couple's room be decorated?
2. When two people get along for a long time, the love between husband and wife turns into affection. In addition, due to the high work pressure, eyes are easily tired. Soft lighting will only create a sleepy atmosphere. Instead, bright fluorescent lamps and wallpaper with bright patterns will be used to keep the couple's love.
Jie: The husband and wife's room should be clean, the floor should be bright, and sundries should not be piled up under the bed, so as to avoid being damp, moldy and breeding bacteria and affecting the quality of sleep.
Step 2 place wedding photos
Wedding photos are not as simple as two people smiling at the camera, but record the witness that everyone knows and knows each other, so the location of wedding photos is very important. Among 37 couples who have been married for more than 20 years, the author found that only 6 couples have no wedding photos because they are over 70 years old.
From the perspective of geomantic omen, wedding photos should only be hung on:
1. The wall of the bed (except under the beam).
2. nine purple is flying near the bed, and nine purple is a warm and amiable star. If the bed can increase the positive magnetic field of two people under the irradiation of this auspicious star, then whenever there is a dispute, it will achieve the effect of "fighting at the head of the bed and making peace at the end of the bed".
In some geomantic omen, it has been mentioned that it is not appropriate to hang couples' wedding photos in the living room. The author Xiong believes that the owner is quiet (yin and he) and the living room is active (open). The "affection" and "love" of husband and wife belong to their feelings.
Feelings are easy to collect, and excessive exposure of feelings will attract others' gossip. In addition, today's wedding photos copy the openness and extravagance of the West, and many women also show their breasts topless. Hanging photos of husband and wife in the living room does more harm than good. If nine purple star didn't fly to the bed when she was sleeping, what about the wedding photos? Author Xiong summed up some experiences from practical work experience. You may wish to refer to:
1. Northwest represents the host and southwest represents the hostess. When nine purple Star does not appear at the bedside, we can consider hanging wedding photos in the northwest or southwest, but this is a secondary consideration.
2. Replace it with a wedding photo and put it on the bedside table.
Second, the choice of marriage room affects marriage.
Marriage is a major event in life, and the choice of marriage room is even more important. Here, I want to tell you, generally speaking, the room should be square, and there should be no corner missing, especially in the mountainous areas of southwest, northeast and northwest, or the location of the toilet at home. The prosperity of representative families in Northeast China in recent 20 years; Northwest represents the family's career and master; Southwest is the hostess of the family. It is best to choose the wedding room in these three auspicious locations. If the wedding room is not in these three positions,
The wedding room should choose a larger room in the house, because the larger room is more prosperous, which is conducive to improving the fortune of both husband and wife. If couples are lucky, their feelings will naturally be good. In addition to the location of the wedding room, we should also pay attention to the bathroom door not facing the bedroom door of the wedding room. These should be paid attention to, otherwise, it is definitely unfavorable for dirt to enter the bedroom. At the same time, it is also necessary to ensure that the wedding room can enter sufficient sunshine. If the light is too dim, it is easy for two people to feel bored and depressed, and the good mood will naturally be greatly reduced. Another point is that the air in the wedding room should be smooth, so as to avoid the smell of new furniture and decorative wood (avoid ebony and black) and paint choking the respiratory system and affecting the mind.
Third, marital happiness and home furnishings Feng Shui
1. There should be no sharp furniture in the house.
For example, there are many sharp items in residential rooms, which is not conducive to marriage harmony and is easy to cause disputes, so residential houses should have as few sharp household items as possible.
In addition, both husband and wife are required to try to restrain their temper and understand each other more. Unhappiness in general marriage is often due to too many quarrels between husband and wife, which makes both sides have no expectations for marriage. So we should pay attention to fighting as little as possible and communicating more.
2. Make more use of some colors or decorations that often appear in life.
Life is dull, and day-to-day life is easy to make people lose * * *, so couples should pay more attention to using some color decorations in their lives when they get along, because sometimes some small details can make people feel different charm.
Different colors have different functions and have different effects on people. Making good use of colors is also relatively easy to improve life. For example, the home has always been a dull and low-key cold color, you can change it to a bright and bright warm color; For example, the curtains in the bedroom have always been pink, but they can be changed into relatively low-key and gorgeous silver … even changing the color of the sheets may bring people a different feeling.
Here are some details. As long as you are willing to maintain them with your heart, I believe that the other party can also feel the thoughts contained in these details. It's just that we often forget that happiness should come from life in marriage, so we ignore them.
3. Wedding photos are best placed in the northwest or southwest.
Many people like to put wedding photos in the bedroom or living room, one for decoration, and the other for highlighting the love between husband and wife. These two wishes are good, but wedding photos should not be misplaced, and certain feng shui principles should be followed.
For example, wedding photos should be placed in the northwest and southwest of the home, because the northwest represents the host and the southwest represents the hostess, which can enhance the feelings between husband and wife to a certain extent, but it is not conducive to placing photos of other characters in these two directions, which is easy to make people have an ambiguous relationship and is not conducive to marriage.
Third, marital happiness and home furnishings Feng Shui
1. There should be no sharp furniture in the house.
For example, there are many sharp items in residential rooms, which is not conducive to marriage harmony and is easy to cause disputes, so residential houses should have as few sharp household items as possible.
In addition, both husband and wife are required to try to restrain their temper and understand each other more. Unhappiness in general marriage is often due to too many quarrels between husband and wife, which makes both sides have no expectations for marriage. So we should pay attention to fighting as little as possible and communicating more.
2. Make more use of some colors or decorations that often appear in life.
Life is dull, and day-to-day life is easy to make people lose * * *, so couples should pay more attention to using some color decorations in their lives when they get along, because sometimes some small details can make people feel different charm.
Different colors have different functions and have different effects on people. Making good use of colors is also relatively easy to improve life. For example, the home has always been a dull and low-key cold color, you can change it to a bright and bright warm color; For example, the curtains in the bedroom have always been pink, but they can be changed into relatively low-key and gorgeous silver … even changing the color of the sheets may bring people a different feeling.
Here are some details. As long as you are willing to maintain them with your heart, I believe that the other party can also feel the thoughts contained in these details. It's just that we often forget that happiness should come from life in marriage, so we ignore them.
3. Wedding photos are best placed in the northwest or southwest.
Many people like to put wedding photos in the bedroom or living room, one for decoration, and the other for highlighting the love between husband and wife. These two wishes are good, but wedding photos should not be misplaced, and certain feng shui principles should be followed.
For example, wedding photos should be placed in the northwest and southwest of the home, because the northwest represents the host and the southwest represents the hostess, which can enhance the feelings between husband and wife to a certain extent, but it is not conducive to placing photos of other characters in these two directions, which is easy to make people have an ambiguous relationship and is not conducive to marriage.