Is it okay to learn Buddhism online embroidery to send a child to Guanyin cross stitch to ask for a child?

Old host, I am a Buddhist practitioner for many years. Please listen to what I have to say.

Generally speaking, we must practice the teachings given to us by Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, and then pray to Buddhas and Bodhisattvas for their effectiveness. Only by accumulating good deeds will we be rewarded with good deeds. God bless virtuous people. Therefore, you can do the following things while collecting embroidery images.

Finding the subunit can be done like this,

1. Write a vow to ask for a son. The general content is as follows: I am willing to do as many good deeds as possible in three years (for example, 1,000) to ask the Bodhisattva to give me a son.

2. After writing it, recite it sincerely in front of the statue of Guanyin Bodhisattva.

3. You must do what you say and never deceive the Bodhisattva.

4. There is no special format for vows, and there is no need to burn them. There is no mystery in them. The main principle is that by doing good deeds and accumulating good deeds, you can change your destiny and realize your wishes. Good deeds are rewarded, and God bless the virtuous. This is the truth.

5 Good deeds can be doing good deeds in daily life, or they can be vegetarian, freeing lives, and observing the precepts (not killing, not stealing, not committing sexual misconduct, not lying, not drinking). Among them, freeing lives is the most rare merit in the world. , the effect of accumulating blessings and changing luck is very good. The precautions for releasing animals can be found on Baidu. When releasing animals, you must recite the release rituals.

Attached is an article for the poster’s reference, hoping to inspire.

I successfully asked Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva for the details of a good job and a good marriage

Buddha’s family always responds to requests: I asked Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva for a good job and a good marriage. Marriage

Author: Suo Jushi (female, 27 years old)

Note from Sister Yangguang: The author asked Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva for a good job and a good marriage, but fellow practitioners must not be rigid. Copy it. In the Buddhist sect, all requests are answered, and all Buddhas and Bodhisattvas can help us. The key is to see whether our hearts are sincere. We can seek help from the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas with whom we have a predestined relationship, because asking for help from the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas with whom we are predestined can It is easy for our hearts to be sincere and to connect with Buddhas and Bodhisattvas. In addition, the following shows that deep repentance is very important. Without deep repentance, karma cannot be eliminated, and shouting at the throat will be in vain. No matter how much you pray to Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, it will be useless. Therefore, fellow practitioners with heavy karma should first focus on repenting of karma. , only when the karmic obstacles are lightened and the merits and blessings are great, can all dreams come true.

I am a 27-year-old girl. The reason why I studied Buddhism was that I was not going well emotionally and at work. At the end of November 2007, I participated in the 10th session of Shanxi Xiaoyuan. By understanding cause and effect, studying Buddhism seriously, and practicing Buddhism, I asked Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva for a good job and a good marriage.

In September 2007, I lost my job. There were many talents in Beijing but few jobs. I was very sad when I failed in the interview. Since graduating from college in 2004, my job has been very unsatisfactory and I have experienced many times of unemployment and job-hopping. Not only is there no job, but there is also no good love. I am alone in Beijing. It is really sad that I have no job and no love. There was even a time when I felt low self-esteem, had no confidence, and was hopeless about the future.

1. Understand cause and effect

During the seven days of playing Qi in Shanxi Xiaoyuan, I understood cause and effect. I understood that my failure in work and love were both consequences.

Why are you having trouble at work?

Unsuccessful work and financial fortune are all consequences. Since I started working in 2004, I have not worked seriously, been late for work, and used my work as a game. I don’t want to do tiring work, and I don’t want to do hard work even more. I chat on QQ every day at work. I am careless and careless at work. I use the company phone to chat and be lazy. I have everything. For a person like me, how can God let me work smoothly? This is the cause, so the consequences are of course natural. Thinking about the past, when I was a child, I stole other people's things and refused to pay them back. I was also stingy and jealous. I was afraid that others would be better than me and hinder the development of other people's careers. I was afraid that others would take advantage of me. I couldn't stand a small loss. . How can a person like me have good fortune?

Why are things not going well emotionally?

Everything is cause and effect. "If you meet someone who commits adultery, you will be rewarded by birds, pigeons, and mandarin ducks." This is the original saying in the Ksitigarbha Sutra.

All emotional difficulties are the result of many lifetimes of sexual immorality. All the good and bad things we do in the world will have consequences. If we have hurt others emotionally in our past lives and this life, then our retribution will be to be hurt by others. Therefore, if you want to have a good marriage, you must cut off sexual immorality and treat others sincerely. But ever since I fell in love, I have been greedy for wealth, possessions, and power. I often look down on others and commit adultery. How can someone like me have a happy love and marriage?

What is sexual immorality? Sexual immorality includes all improper relationships between men and women other than husband and wife, including cohabitation before marriage, extramarital affairs, prostitution, talking about unclean things, and viewing unclean books and audio-visual products.

After I understood the cause and effect, I often repented in front of Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva. I repented for my countless lifetimes of not working seriously and hindering the success of other people’s careers. I repented of my countless lifetimes of sexual immorality. When I knelt down When I was reading the Ksitigarbha Sutra in front of the Bodhisattva, my tears flowed down. I felt that those tears were not mine, but the tears of my enemy and creditor. Sometimes I cried so much that I couldn't even speak. I sincerely confessed and moved Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva.

2. Ask for a job from Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva

Ran layman from Shanxi Xiaoyuan said that Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva has great power, so if you want a job or a marriage, you should go to Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva. beg. So I thought I was in a hurry for work, so I asked Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva for work first. So I wrote a letter to Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva asking for a job.

Please forgive me for your work

Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva Namo Great Wish, my disciple sincerely asks for repentance. The disciple's work is not smooth, and the ups and downs are all because the disciple hindered the success of other people's work and career in his previous life and this life, and is the result of not working seriously. Disciple sincerely asks for repentance. The disciple is wrong, the disciple is confused and ignorant. If a disciple's work is not going well and he cannot find a job, his parents are most worried. Moreover, disciples have no job security and cannot practice with peace of mind. I pray that the Greatly Merciful and Compassionate Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva will give me a satisfactory job so that I can honor my parents and practice with peace of mind.

I hope my work can:

1. The salary satisfies me.

2. The company is best located in the city center.

3. Don’t stay too far away from home, because I want to seize the time to read scriptures and learn Buddhism.

4. The job is stable and allows me to develop in the long term. It is best to be able to work for a long time.

This disciple makes a vow:

1. I recite 500 parts of the Ksitigarbha Sutra to dedicate my life to my enemies and creditors, and ask for the mercy of Bodhisattva to help them escape suffering, gain happiness, and be reborn in the Pure Land.

2. From now on, I will never do bad things that hinder the development of other people's careers, and do my best to give charity.

3. Make a vow to do 1,000 good deeds.

4. Do your best to help others learn Buddhism.

5. I vow to work hard from now on.

After that, I read and chanted the Ksitigarbha Sutra seriously every day, and every night I knelt in front of the statue of Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva and read this letter "Pray for Work" and sincerely repented. During the day, I gave my seat to the elderly while walking on the road, gave alms to beggars I met, released animals, and donated money to help print scriptures. I remember that a month later, on a cold night, I was walking on the street and saw an old man playing the erhu and begging. My heart was broken. I gave him 10 yuan without hesitation. He was very happy. The next day, I found a very satisfying job. To my surprise, this job was exactly the same as the conditions I proposed. Moreover, my colleagues in the company were good friends with me, and we got along harmoniously. I'm very happy, work goes smoothly, and my boss is tolerant. I understand that you need to be sincere when helping others. I used to help others without sincerity, and I also asked for something in return. I am very ashamed. By helping others and giving alms to others with a sincere heart and without expecting anything in return, you will be able to interact with the Bodhisattva. (2009/2/10 01:20:05 am)

3. Ask Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva for marriage

I got my job and go to work happily every day, but the marriage is still there No. My parents were very anxious and urged me every day, which made me anxious too. So I began to seek marriage from Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva again. I ask Bodhisattva to grant me a good marriage.

I prayed for marriage to Bodhisattva by changing my mind.

I also wrote a "Pray for a Husband" letter to Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva to pray for marriage, and I knelt before the Bodhisattva every day to sincerely repent. But after several months, no one was found. Once I was chatting with a senior brother on the Internet, and I said that I asked Bodhisattva for marriage, but why couldn’t I get it? The senior brother asked, "Can you tell me what kind of marriage you are seeking from the Bodhisattva?" I said yes, so I told the senior brother my conditions. I said that I wanted a boyfriend from Bodhisattva who would be "good-looking, rich in family, good at work, nice to me, and serious about studying Buddhism." After hearing this, the senior brother said, "If he were a Bodhisattva, he would not fulfill my wishes, because my heart still reveals my greed for sex and material things. Buddhas and Bodhisattvas will only help us get rid of our greed, but will never increase our desire." If you are greedy, you should ask the Bodhisattva for a marriage that is conducive to your practice." After hearing this, I thought it made sense, but it was still difficult for me to get rid of my greed. Later I understood what true love and marriage were.

What is true love and marriage?

1. Men who are greedy for sex and women who are greedy for money will definitely not be happy. Not only will they be unhappy, but they will also bring about great misfortune.

2. Eliminating sexual misconduct is the foundation of happiness. The harm of sexual immorality is very serious. It will greatly reduce the chances of happy love and happy marriage, turning couples who may grow old together into just a fate.

3. Real and reliable love and marriage are based on two people having the same beliefs and a down-to-earth life. We should be filial to our parents, serve our teachers, and care and love each other equally.

4. A happy marriage is a person's blessing, and one must accumulate merit. If you want a wealthy life, you must accumulate enough merit and wealth will come without asking for it. On the contrary, people without merit will not be able to obtain blessings and honors.

At this time, I changed my criteria for seeking marriage and wrote an article "Asking for a Husband" to seek marriage from Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva.

Qiuhushu

Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva of the Great Wish of Namo, because my disciple has been involved in sexual immorality and unfilial piety for many lifetimes, resulting in love failure in this life, I sincerely seek repentance. After encountering the Dharma, disciples understand cause and effect and should bear the consequences of the sins they have committed. Disciples sincerely seek repentance from Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva and seek repentance from enemies and creditors. I ask the Bodhisattva to be compassionate and grant me a happy marriage, to support my parents with equal filial piety, and to promote Buddhism.

Hope he can satisfy:

1. Really practice Buddhism, truly study Buddhism, abide by the Five Precepts, and build a Buddhist family.

2. He is honest, sincere and filial to his parents.

3. The job is stable.

4. The family conditions are similar to mine.

5. As long as the appearance and height satisfy me.

For this reason, I make the following vows:

1. From now on, I will no longer commit sexual immorality, and put an end to the impure karma of body, speech, and mind.

2. Do your best to advise others of the dangers of sexual immorality.

3. I will continue to read and chant the Ksitigarbha Sutra and make 500 vows to dedicate to the people I have hurt emotionally.

4. Do your best to free lives and help print scriptures.

5. Make a vow to do 1,000 good deeds.

Every day I kneel in front of the statue of Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva and sincerely read this "Qi Hufu Shu", repent, release animals, read scriptures, and help print scriptures. I have persisted in doing it for more than 3 months. , one time I went to the temple to take refuge and met a senior fellow apprentice, and we got along very well. After dating for a while, I found that his conditions were almost the same as those I proposed to Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva. He is a good brother who truly practices Buddhism. He helps me learn Buddhism. We eat vegetarian food, read scriptures, recite Buddha's name, and practice together. Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva is so kind and compassionate, and I got my wish and found a good marriage.

4. Experience after practicing for more than a year:

1. "The situation changes with the heart." Changing one's mind is the key. Only when one's mind changes can one's environment change. I am an only child, and I have a strong habit that I will be kind to others only if others are kind to me first, and only then will I be kind to others if others give to me first. I don’t like to suffer losses. So since I was a child, I have always met villains, and I have no friends who sincerely help me.

After studying Buddhism, I understood that "situation changes with the mind." I decided to give myself first and sincerely help others to see if my situation could be changed. After more than a year of doing good deeds, listening to scriptures, reading scriptures, repenting, and sincerely helping others, I found that my situation has really changed. I feel that the people around me are very enthusiastic, nice, and sincerely helping me, which is completely different from my previous situation. So I came to a conclusion: "To learn Buddhism and practice, you must first change yourself."

2. If you encounter bad luck during practice, you are eliminating karmic obstacles. In the process of seeking marriage, I also encountered several bad lucks. Every time I meet a boy, I first ask Bodhisattva to help me determine whether this person has a good or bad karma with me. If it is a good relationship, let us have a smooth relationship. If it is a bad relationship, please ask Bodhisattva to help me break it off as soon as possible. It is very effective. I remember one time I met a senior fellow who studied Buddhism. He was cheating on women in the name of practicing Buddhism. After I asked Bodhisattva to help me judge whether he and I were in good or bad karma, I soon discovered that he had already get married. If it weren't for the Bodhisattva's blessing, I would definitely have been deceived by him.

3. Be persistent. Shanxi Xiaoyuan's 6-step guide: persevere, eat vegetarian food, chant the Ksitigarbha Sutra, repent, release animals, do good deeds, and recite Amitabha's holy name to persevere. When we encounter difficulties in seeking a job or marriage, we cannot give up. We cannot ask for it because of heavy karma. Everyone has different foundations. Some people have light karma and can get it within a few months, while others need a year or even longer to get it. But it also depends on the level of personal practice. Some brothers insist on reading 7 "Ksitigarbha Sutra" every day, so that karma will be eliminated faster.

4. For married people, if your marriage is not going well, don't complain, find your own reasons first. An unsatisfactory marriage must be caused by something you did to hurt others in your previous life. Through the six steps of Shanxi Xiaoyuan, eating vegetarian food, repenting, chanting sutras, doing good deeds, releasing animals, and reciting the holy name of Amitabha, it will definitely change. I know a married senior brother who has a very bad marriage, but she gets up at 3 a.m. every day to read scriptures, practice, do good deeds, and repent. After half a year, her marriage has completely improved and she is very happy now.

5. Being vegetarian is important. Young people think that being vegetarian is cliché, but actually being vegetarian is very important. The animals and seafood we eat have spiritual beings. They will attach themselves to our bodies and around us to collect debts from us and disrupt our lives. Being a vegetarian is the beginning of learning Buddhism. Being a vegetarian means no longer having enmity with other animals. It is difficult for us young people to stop eating meat and fish. Don’t worry about this. As long as we sincerely seek the blessings of Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, we will definitely be able to stop eating.

Recently, there was a senior fellow student who lived in the same dormitory as me in Shanxi Xiaoyuan. Not long ago, she gave birth to a daughter. She continued to practice while she was pregnant and read the hymn to the fetus in her belly. "Ksitigarbha Sutra" and gave birth to a very obedient baby. I believe that after I get married, as long as I practice according to the six steps, I will be able to ask Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva for a child with a good destiny.