How to discover your talents and develop into your career 1.0
In fact, yeyu doesn't want to comment on education in China. I just want to explain a situation to you. "Whether it is family education or school education, parents and teachers are most concerned about their children's academic performance, and they are most concerned about whether their children can be admitted to a good university. So since childhood, your talent has been ignored and forgotten.
Your talent is like a dusty gem, abandoned in a remote corner, quietly waiting to be discovered.
As long as you can find the right path and pay attention to the clues left by talent from the details of daily life, you can find the key to open the door of talent. "
Everyone is born with the potential to be a genius. Unfortunately, many people never know their special skills, let alone use them.
Today, I will share with my partners "How to discover my hobbies, how to screen my hobbies to discover my talents, and set a goal to set sail quickly".
Grandpa Yu listed 13 ways to discover our hobbies, all of which I tried personally, which can help us to know ourselves more comprehensively.
Everyone was praised. Never be modest. It can be anything. What are the characteristics of writing these things down and then analyzing the reasons behind them so that you can do them well? Remember carefully, make a list, list 1, 2, 3 ... these are your advantages. For example:
1, I like beautiful clothes and dressing up since I was a child: it shows that I have a natural aesthetic talent and can try related fields and occupations such as color, display, modeling and fashion;
I grew up in king of the children, and many friends like to play games with me. I am in charge of many things: it shows that I have a natural leadership ability. Therefore, I am more suitable for the role of commander (ENTJ) than the administrative work that makes me feel boring;
3. The teacher praised me for being smart, because I often guessed what he would say next: this shows that I have a natural imagination and am more suitable for jobs that require creativity;
There are many people around me who praise my thoughtfulness and will open their hearts to me and tell me their inner troubles. This shows that I have a natural emotional ability, good at observing other people's emotional changes, and can easily enter other people's hearts, which is more suitable for social work such as psychological counseling and career planning.
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Tell them your purpose, "I want to know myself better. You are my good friend. I hope everyone can evaluate me truthfully. What do you think I am? What do you think are my strengths? What qualities do you like about me? What habits can't you stand? What industry do you think I am suitable for ... "
You can set your own questions. In order to get better feedback, there are several points to pay attention to:
1, tell everyone that you need real feedback, and at the same time adjust your mentality, and you will definitely receive unexpected comments. No matter whether the evaluation is good or bad, you should accept it completely from the heart, and then carefully compare and reflect;
2. The questions you set should include open questions and closed questions. Open-ended questions are more helpful for everyone to give you constructive opinions, and closed questions are helpful for everyone to give you real and specific opinions.
Write down what you are most proud of. Ever since you were a child, have you ever done something better than others without too much effort? Or are you still enjoying it after everyone else has given up? Yes, there must be. Your talent is not that you can be as tall as Yao Ming and as fast as Liu Xiang, but what you like and what you are good at, and that you can do better than the people around you. Liu Xiang wasn't so fast at first. Talent means:
You can get more rewards and rewards for your efforts;
When you are engaged in a job that can give full play to your talents, you are happier, more comfortable, more satisfied and fulfilled;
It makes you enjoy it, at least it is not easy to get bored, and you can stick to being a professional for a long time, instead of changing jobs frequently or forcing yourself not to change jobs.
Everyone likes people like themselves, because they have your shadow on them, or the part you want to be.
For example, Grandpa Yu likes Jet Li very much since he was a child, and he likes his wisdom, agility and neatness. I like Chow Yun Fat's mature and humorous personality; I like the innocent, nonsense, happy and sad images of the stars ... I will unconsciously use these images to guide my life and work. For example, everyone who knows me knows that I like to ask why. I always do things quickly and efficiently. I don't like procrastination. The meeting I presided over was sharp, serious but moderate.
Of course, there are many people who like it without depth. For example, idolize likes it blindly because the other person is handsome and in good shape, and many people like it because everyone likes it. Therefore, you should find out the real reason behind appreciating a person.
Don't wake up daydreaming, that's your creativity! Scientific research shows that people are most creative when daydreaming and daydreaming. Many genius discoveries and inventions are sparks in an instant.
You should be good at dreaming, and you should have the ability to dream!
I once published an article "You will never enjoy what you don't realize", and everyone can search and read it.
If the Walter brothers hadn't thought about "how to fly" We can't enjoy the luxury travel brought by high-speed planes; Thomas Edison brought us a brand-new way of entertainment with the concept of continuous moving pictures; Dr. Sha Jones thought of producing a serotonin to prevent polio, that is, polio, so that you can reduce the spread of the disease today; Bell thought of transmitting human voice through metal wire, so that we can have the convenience of telephone communication now.
The core of this is not these inventions, but the knowledge that brought them already exists. It can be said that knowledge is natural and wonderful. In the dictionary of nature. There is no such thing as failure. All resources are never lacking and will never be lacking. What is really lacking is always consciousness.
Many people are taking a particularly conventional road, pushed by the trend or traditional culture-when they go to school, the basis for choosing a major is whether it is popular or not, not what they are good at and what they are eager for; At work, the basis for choosing a job is whether you are rich and stable, not what you are suitable for or like.
Some people have dreams and dare to pursue them; Some people have dreams but can't get rid of them, putting them on hold until they forget them; The most pessimistic thing is that some people never think about their inner desires, never realize that everyone has innate talents and talents, and never realize that they have to explore their unique talents and endowments like fingerprints.
Everyone regards "whether it is popular" when choosing a major and "whether it is rich and stable" as their slogan when choosing a job. In fact, the real way out is to find the soil suitable for your growth. The Arctic is indeed the gentle hometown of penguins and polar bears, and the desert is the treasure house of cactus. If cactus pursues "the Arctic can eat a lot of Arctic cod" as its way out, its tragedy will be clear at a glance. It is not difficult to explain the common phenomenon in career and workplace: why some people in the same industry and department are in charge of the same position, while others run into a wall everywhere, changing jobs frequently or changing projects constantly.
1, dare to dream, have a deep dialogue with yourself, understand and take stock of your deepest desires;
Everyone is born with a unique talent. Your talent is as unique as fingerprints. You should explore actively and consciously.
3. After finding the natural features, concentrate and practice deliberately. Believe me, no matter how old you are, it's never too late-because the magic of talent lies in "getting more rewards and rewards for your efforts", and the enthusiasm you glow when you are engaged in your talent career can turn your career into a virtuous circle of "snowballing on the slope".
Carefully examine your current state. Did you snowball from the foot of the mountain to the top of the mountain? Some students are born with philosopher temperament (INFP) and can choose an economics major that they don't understand at all. Some white-collar workers are naturally step-by-step and orderly civil servant temperament (ISTJ), but they are engaged in the market and marketing work that upset them. Facing the rapidly changing market, they are at a loss and exhausted.
Talent is usually manifested in the ability to learn. If you have a certain talent, you will learn faster than the average person, even without a teacher. This is what China people often say: "understanding".
For example, when learning Cantonese, some girls come to Guangzhou 1 year. They speak Cantonese very well and can't recognize northerners at all. Some people 10 came to Guangzhou, but they still can't speak Cantonese well, and some even don't understand it. Therefore, the speed of learning new things can reflect your talent and advantages. Think carefully about your past and believe that you can find unexpected potential.
For example, people with feelings learn the fastest in practice, such as handwork; People with idealistic temperament like to make metaphors. They are born with language talent and can master a foreign language faster. Perfectionists learn complex theories and concepts the fastest, but are not interested in simple skills learning.
Birds of a feather flock together.
List your circle of friends, list the people you often associate with, including netizens, classmates, colleagues and friends, and then carefully analyze their personalities and hobbies. You can ask yourself, "What are my three favorite advantages?" What do we often do together? What topics do we often talk about? What is the core reason behind connecting our friendship bridge? "
Look for it in this way, and then write it all down on paper. In fact, you are such a person!
Put aside all restrictions. If you have a magic wand, it can satisfy all your wishes. What is your wish? Master Yu suggests that you write down 99 wishes, big or small, such as 10 Maserati cars and 20 Ferrari cars, and become the richest man in the galaxy. Write them all down!
The more you write, the better, because what you wrote before may be physical or material needs.
Everyone has three "I", I only eat and drink Lazar and do whatever I want; The ego is hypocritical because it wants to meet the needs of the ego, but at the same time it wants to protect the ego from the harm and condemnation of public opinion. Superego is self-realization and social responsibility. So you wrote deeply, from basic instinctive needs to social responsibility and self-realization.
That is, "when you are completely carefree, rich and happy, what are the one or three things you want to do most?" If you want to understand, push it later. That's what makes your blood boil. It can definitely be called a career.
Because it's possible that you don't even know there is such a profession in the world. Secondly, even if you know that some occupations exist, you don't know their characteristics, or you only know a little. Therefore, I suggest that you first understand what the existing occupations are, and then deeply understand what the characteristics of each occupation are.
You will find that some occupations disgust you at first sight, while others fascinate you and move you!
With point 9, you may not know all the majors, or you may not know them deeply. According to the majors of "literature and history", "science and engineering" and "both arts and sciences", after knowing these majors clearly, you can screen out the majors you are interested in and then conduct in-depth research.
Study its connotation, attributes and development trend, and then make your own life plan according to your actual situation.
Make an understanding of all recruitment positions first, and then reclassify them, such as sales, finance, strategy, technology research and development, administrative system and so on. Finally, analyze and sort out what kind of core competence is needed for each plate. If you are not clear, you can check the job responsibilities. Then screen out the plates that meet your own specialties or interests for in-depth planning.
There are many cases of starting from scratch around you. Teacher Yu doesn't ask you to imitate others, but their stories can inspire you. Many stories will give you the feeling of "wow" and "so you can make money"! You should pay more attention to the latest app, the latest sector and the companies that are acquired, and think about the business logic behind it!
Many people habitually classify their unfamiliar fields as "I'm not interested". Actually, it's not like this. When we were born, we couldn't even talk to our parents, but we were full of curiosity about the world, so we made rapid progress when we were young. You need to get this feeling back now!
For example, Master Yu has never swam before, but when he went to play with several shareholders last year, they dragged me into the water. I didn't expect to learn it in three minutes. I found swimming very interesting at once. When they were tired of swimming, I even said, "Let's play for a while"! Ha ha!
So, don't be afraid to try, refusing to try is tantamount to refusing the opportunity to know yourself and achieve yourself.
Finding your own interests is only the first step, and the next step is to find your own strengths. You can find your own interests, but the only obstacle is that you have not found your own all-round interests, and your own specialties can often be discovered by people with real experience and development vision. Grandpa Yu is the Bole beside you. Welcome to communicate.
You can have a wide range of interests, but you should be single-minded in your major.
Teenagers' interests, like popular colors, will change at any time; Specialty refers to the characteristics that are born or cultivated from childhood and superior to the average person. This trait is difficult to change and cultivate in adulthood. Therefore, if your interests are cultivated on the basis of your own specialties, and your work can give full play to your specialties, you will easily achieve achievements that are difficult for ordinary people to achieve. Therefore, you should pay attention to discovering your own strengths now.
I just shared with you 13 the method of discovering my hobbies. Now, Mr. Yu wants to teach you how to discover your potential or specialty from your hobbies. A person's hobbies often contain his own talents, but hobbies are not equal to talents. For example, you like singing very much, but you don't necessarily have the talent to sing.
So we can look for our talents from our many hobbies, but we can't regard hobbies as our talents.
After listing all the interests, it is necessary to analyze your own interests. For each interest, ask yourself three questions, and then write the answers under the interest:
The measure is "can I continue to do it enthusiastically?" Maybe it's just that you think it's funny or that you hear it from others.
Maybe you want respect and praise, or because you think you are handsome, to please your parents or your partner, and so on. , all listed. Don't lie to yourself, be true to yourself. For example, my high school deskmate likes Wang Leehom, because the girl he likes is Wang Leehom's brain powder, and he is learning Wang Leehom's songs in class! This is not interest at all.
This is your betrayal chip and a supplement to the second question "Why do I like it?". Motivation and motivation are very important. For example, if my deskmate finally decides that the girl can't be with him, then he will betray "I Rainbow Leehom" because I know he likes rock and roll. Just like you feel cool or chic as a wandering singer, when the audience doesn't buy it, you will want to back down or give up because your initial intention is "cool and chic".
This is an important step. You can list many reasons why you like something, but please remember to ask yourself "When will I give it up"? The result will often surprise you! When you can't find any reason to give up one thing, please go to the fourth step.
List "how to do this well and develop this interest" fairly, objectively and comprehensively? List all possible setbacks and obstacles, maybe you want to give up in the middle of writing!
If not, then continue to write "What price do I need to pay". The most direct and rude way is to ask yourself "What can I give up for this matter"?
Make a list of things you need to give up. If your feeling is "happy, natural, relaxed, serene and calm", congratulations, you have become a dangerous person. If your experience is "nervousness, anxiety, hesitation and hesitation", please think twice, put it on hold and continue to analyze other interests.
You'd better not screen out more than three hobbies. If you screen out more than three, you need to continue screening, re-analyze your hobbies, and finally leave three. Based on these three hobbies, please think as follows:
Here you are 10 years, 20 years. What do you hope is the final result? This is your ultimate goal;
Make a list and think about "how to make this advantage irreplaceable, no one can replace it"! This is your logo, this is your brand, your logo, your logo!
Note that disadvantages are used to avoid rather than strengthen, because your disadvantages are the advantages of many people, and the biggest tragedy in life is to race against inferior horses. If you can't avoid your own disadvantages, please keep this interest and analyze other hobbies first.
Divide the goals into long-term goals, and then split the medium-term goals according to the long-term goals, thus listing short-term and short-term goals. This is the whole planning process of life.
Who are you? You, actually not yourself! Unless you carefully analyze your own directions, we know that many people just don't know themselves correctly, which leads to all kinds of life tragedies. Knowing yourself is a huge project. Many people would rather listen to the wind and grass than calm down and analyze themselves seriously, because they dare not face their hypocritical selves.
On the contrary, if you can calm down and face yourself seriously, patiently, bravely and truly, then you will be full of vitality, enthusiasm, attraction and creativity! The human world is hypocritical, because everyone who makes it is hypocritical. From now on, you should be yourself and never deceive yourself. You should listen to your inner voice. The more loyal you are to yourself, the sharper your intuition and the more "super power" you have!