Is it good for pregnant women to live in relatives' feng shui?

Someone once called pregnant women "four eyes", and "four eyes" is also called "four eyes dog". Most of these dogs are black and are regarded as ominous. Having said that, pregnant women in the past were really unpopular and discriminated against. Whether they can visit relatives and neighbors during pregnancy is a story.

Take my rural hometown in Guizhou as an example, there are some unwritten things that have a subtle influence on future generations. Since it was said by our predecessors, we must abide by it.

It is rumored that women will produce some unclean things on their bodies during pregnancy. Once you meet them, it's easy to bring bad luck and you can't just visit them. If relatives, friends or neighbors hold a banquet, pregnant women are not allowed to eat, especially those who are about to give birth, and don't go through the host's door.

During a woman's pregnancy, there are only a few places to walk around: her own home, her uncle's in-law's home, and the one with her surname. Besides, she can't just walk around!

Some people hold banquets, especially wedding shower. The most taboo is that pregnant women come to eat. Some women are just pregnant and can't tell from their appearance. After knowing clearly afterwards, they even asked their families to take money and red cloth to the main entrance to "hang red", which is called "celebrating happiness" to solve "evil spirits"

What's more, some people with other surnames hold weddings. On the way to the wedding reception, if they happen to meet pregnant women, they will even let the pregnant women's families take their livestock to the wizard to resolve it, saying that it is to get rid of "bad luck." What a shame!

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This was decades ago, and now times have changed. This superstition has been completely broken by young people. Now that a woman is pregnant, she can not only walk around her mother-in-law's house, but also visit her neighbor's house in Zhaishang. Who can help the wine shop owner? No one dares to make irresponsible remarks!

In fact, it is very important for women to walk as little as possible during pregnancy, and they don't have to visit. In addition, people nowadays are very expensive and just want to have one or two children. Once pregnant, the whole family is very happy, holding pregnant women as "gods" and serving them well.

The old man told me before that pregnant women are not allowed to visit relatives or neighbors with foreign names. This is a superstitious statement. There is no need to convince everyone of that fallacy.

I just figured it out, too, but I'm skeptical and uncertain. Your mother-in-law told you these things because she was afraid that the children you gave birth to in the future would be different from your family. If you are afraid of being like a relative or neighbor, you will be wronged to death. But now that technology is developed, paternity testing can be done. Don't be guilty, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking at the door.

When I was a child, I heard that there was an honest couple in our nearby village who gave birth to a child who looked like an Englishman. At that time, they gave birth to this child, and many people outside the village were talking about it, wondering if so-and-so's wife was having an affair with a foreigner. But on second thought, unlike China, she works in the fields and lives in the village every day. How could she have a chance to have an affair with a foreigner? But being talked about by others, my husband was a little moved and asked his wife what was going on with doubts. The wife calmly replied: I am with you every day, others don't know, don't you know? This baby is yours. Besides, do I have that great charm to cheat foreign countries? Really, I'm so angry. After my wife scolded her husband angrily, she slowly recalled that in the early stage of pregnancy, she went to the market one day and just glanced at a foreigner curiously. Perhaps it is for this reason that she can't figure out why she gave birth to a child who looks like a foreigner.

A few days ago, my neighbor saw a mother with a son from Shuai Shuai, saying that the mother gave birth to a child from Shuai Shuai, which didn't look like her. I said, I'm ugly, too. The two children don't look like me! One is like his father, the other is like my grandmother, and then she smiled and said, you must stare at your mother-in-law when you are pregnant, just like your grandmother! So as soon as I heard her say this, I thought of the story I heard when I was a child, which is also the reason. So don't kill during pregnancy, don't read ghost stories, it will have an impact on the fetus.