The harm of parents' cold violence to children

If cold violence is always used, it will have many adverse effects on children, such as the distance between parents and children being alienated, and parents will choose threats on many issues of their children. Such cold violence will have a great impact on children's psychological aspects. Such psychological shadow may accompany children for life, and the humiliation of being beaten will only be temporary, but the harm of cold violence is lifelong. Children who have been in a cold and violent environment for a long time are easy to feel insecure and gradually alienate their parents.

In fact, the impact of cold violence is enormous, and if it is not reversed, it may cause lifelong harm. Therefore, everyone should have a correct understanding of cold violence and try to avoid using it in life. In fact, cold violence will not only make children feel insecure, but also make them feel unloved. Children spend a day apart from their parents during the day, and parents want to make out when they come home from work at night. However, many parents will ignore the greetings and closeness to their children and take a cold attitude because their work is boring. In the long run, children will have the idea of lacking love, which is very unfavorable for the establishment of children's self-confidence. If it is serious, it will also cause mental illness. Through relevant research, we can find that children who suffer from cold violence have implanted negative thoughts in their hearts, such as I am not good, or I am not worthy of being loved, and will fall into inferiority complex. When they encounter setbacks as adults, it is easy for them to fall into self-abandonment.